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One problem Ive been having lately. Ive been getting increasingly bothered by my male genitals like it has been causing me dysphoria badly. This has stopped me from enjoying anything sexual to where I just stay away from sex or anything. I look down and hate what I see.

Do other trans girls have such problems to where they can't even enjoy anything sexual cause it causes dysphoria badly? Is there anyway to get over it to enjoy sex and all again?

I just hate what I see down there more than ever and so I stay away so I dont feel such pain.

I thought about getting myself a chastity belt, one designed for male parts, but having outer appearance of female one... But the cost was prohibitive, and inability to try it before buy (there are only a few manufacturers in the world and as far as I know none in this country) hold me back. I am still thinking about 'Fancy Steel' belt from Australia with a vagina cup :) the most affordable version probably, yet also it has some appeal to me in its own kind.

Absolutely, I appreciate what you are saying. I enjoy sex but it is the last thing I want to use. The hard part when there are partners is that they often want exactly that which can be very frustrating. Lots of talking... we probably just cuddle a lot more and I am working on the equity there too. Lol. Lots more talking.

I find even some things that others find a relief actually play on my mind. The out of sight tucking visually looks right but it only draws attention to what I can still feel is there and often sets my mind going. I think some of these things may be what push some of us to take the surgery step. I hope you can find a little relief.

It's not just trans girls that experience this: trans guys get it too. For us, we can experience distress about what's present down there, as well as distress about the bits that should be there but are missing. It's extremely distressing to want to have certain types of sex but to lack the equipment to do so... whatever equipment we have and whichever way we identify.

By the by, I've tried 5 different male chastity devices (neosteel, cb-x000, LL vice). No matter the confuguration, all chaffed badly after a few days, leading to scabbing and need to have it off to heal. Ymmv :)

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Quote from: Tommi on June 16, 2017, 11:45:17 AM
By the by, I've tried 5 different male chastity devices (neosteel, cb-x000, LL vice). No matter the confuguration, all chaffed badly after a few days, leading to scabbing and need to have it off to heal. Ymmv :)

I tried a Chinese full belt and it was ok until liner completely felt apart, then quite sharp edges were very unpleasant. They say it has to be a quality one and very tight-fitting to avoid friction and chafing though.


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Mine were all comsidered quality. That neosteel sure isn't cheap! I could just never get them too fit right. If it os too tight to move and chaffe, then it will cause sores from sweat and poor circulation. For me, about 3 days was my limit before damage would start. Others may have better luck, or it is more fantasy than reality

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It bothers me some, OK a lot, one way to still enjoy sexual things is to not focus on you...and those parts...

I have a tongue and fingers, so do women...

Morning tumescence, in my opinion the worst part of waking up.

Quote from: FTMDiaries on June 16, 2017, 10:29:21 AM
It's not just trans girls that experience this: trans guys get it too. For us, we can experience distress about what's present down there, as well as distress about the bits that should be there but are missing. It's extremely distressing to want to have certain types of sex but to lack the equipment to do so... whatever equipment we have and whichever way we identify.

Exactly, it's like Im a girl inside yet my body is the opposite of who I am actually and so it just becomes awful and Im just avoiding it. It's not what I want, not this way it is. Last time I did anything sexual, I after felt suicidal kind of. I was like "this male body can't be this forever, one day it will die" and I walked away. I dont need that kind of pain and so avoiding it saves me from hurting.