Community Conversation => Non-binary talk => Topic started by: Malelesbian on August 07, 2017, 01:36:23 PM Return to Full Version
Title: How to date and find a partner?
Post by: Malelesbian on August 07, 2017, 01:36:23 PM
Post by: Malelesbian on August 07, 2017, 01:36:23 PM
Excuse me if i havent understood the term androgyn completely, but i'm trying.
I consider myself 50% male and 50% female in a relationship. My last relationship made me aware of this because my ex was very dominating and had male values which i liked!. Sadly it didnt work out between us.
Anyway. Now i'm thinking - How do i signal i'm looking for a girl who is half and half? What would i write on a dating profile? Would i even mention it if i was talking to a girl i like? "So are you as manly as you are feminime?" Are you comfortable with holding me at night aswell as me holding you? Stuff like that.
I fear that it will be hard to find the right woman again
I hope you get my point :)
I am a newbie on this topic and i have more sides of my personality and sexuality to explore
I consider myself 50% male and 50% female in a relationship. My last relationship made me aware of this because my ex was very dominating and had male values which i liked!. Sadly it didnt work out between us.
Anyway. Now i'm thinking - How do i signal i'm looking for a girl who is half and half? What would i write on a dating profile? Would i even mention it if i was talking to a girl i like? "So are you as manly as you are feminime?" Are you comfortable with holding me at night aswell as me holding you? Stuff like that.
I fear that it will be hard to find the right woman again
I hope you get my point :)
I am a newbie on this topic and i have more sides of my personality and sexuality to explore
Title: Re: How to date and find a partner?
Post by: Jacqueline on August 07, 2017, 04:07:23 PM
Post by: Jacqueline on August 07, 2017, 04:07:23 PM
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Title: Re: How to date and find a partner?
Post by: widdershins on August 07, 2017, 08:51:05 PM
Post by: widdershins on August 07, 2017, 08:51:05 PM
Most cis women don't consider themselves any % masculine. I mean, I'm FTM nonbinary and running on testosterone, and even I wouldn't describe myself as any % masculine. Your attitude toward traditional gender roles doesn't really define gender identity. So I'd avoid that phrasing.
You might be better off communicating which specific traits you want in a partner. You mentioned dominance. That's a good example in terms of getting your point across. Consider other qualities you're looking for, and list those as well.
You might be better off communicating which specific traits you want in a partner. You mentioned dominance. That's a good example in terms of getting your point across. Consider other qualities you're looking for, and list those as well.