Community Conversation => Transitioning => Coming out of the closet => Topic started by: Bari Jo on August 22, 2017, 05:52:24 PM Return to Full Version

Title: If not ready....
Post by: Bari Jo on August 22, 2017, 05:52:24 PM
If not ready to come out at the office, at what point do you start binding?  I've caught some keen people already noticing, but am not ready to come out.  Is now the time?  Is it too late?  Cats out of the bag?
Title: Re: If not ready....
Post by: Dena on August 22, 2017, 07:02:07 PM
Don't bind. That can interfere with growing breast. If you have an issue that can't be covered with a lose fitting shirt, use a sports bra instead. On the other hand, if anybody says anything, just say it's a side effect of some medicine I am on and you would rather not talk about your personal medical history.
Title: Re: If not ready....
Post by: Bari Jo on August 22, 2017, 07:06:39 PM
I like the way you think.  I'm using the side effect, which is no lie, so easy to look in the eye with that.

Bari Jo
Title: Re: If not ready....
Post by: JoanneB on August 23, 2017, 09:11:00 PM
I have a an almost B cup. Only my wife can tell when I am wearing a "too tight" fitting tee shirt. For work, as most areas of life, this former fatty wears nothing but loose, baggy fitting clothes. My wife being a heck more "sensitive" then I am, never notices the girls, even with a bra on in my work, dress, shirts. So I have to take on faith that if her hyper... did I say HYPER? critical eyes didn't notice, nor would anyone elses
Title: Re: If not ready....
Post by: Bari Jo on August 23, 2017, 10:28:45 PM
I was heavy also, primarily trying to hide from being femme.  I slim now though lost 30 lbs and counting so the bumps are noticeable.  I hide behind hoodies:)
Title: Re: If not ready....
Post by: JoanneB on August 25, 2017, 07:04:34 PM
Quote from: Bari Jo on August 23, 2017, 10:28:45 PM
I was heavy also, primarily trying to hide from being femme.  I slim now though lost 30 lbs and counting so the bumps are noticeable.  I hide behind hoodies:)
I dropped 100 and some 20-30-40 years can only see all the big blobs of blubber around my bulbous belly.

Baggy tops are the way to go. And a small reality check, there are plenty of guys running around with nearly C cup or more moobs. Not cute and perky like a young girls but who can tell that in a baggy top?
Title: Re: If not ready....
Post by: Bari Jo on August 25, 2017, 08:18:08 PM
Yeah, baggie is good, keep the skinny jeans at home.  I've got one girl I work with that is the perceptive one.  She commented today on growing out my hair, Yup, guilty.  I told her, Yup, sick of having short hair.  I tell you this though.  Fun times:)