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My brother's 3 friends are here and everyone is in the back yard because my dad is grilling burgers and hotdogs.  2 of his friends come in and sit down at the kitchen table and want to know if they can ask me something kind of personal. I told them go ahead and they asked me if I had really hooked up with Chris. Chris is the third friend of my brother's that's here. He is also the one I really don't like. I asked them if he had said that we did and they said yes he had. They said they had been talking about if a trans vagina was tighter or better than a real one and Seth had suggested maybe asking me about it and Chris said there was no need to ask me because he had "hit that already" and it was tighter than a real one. I said ,not that it was even slightly anyone's business, but no I had never slept with Chris. Seth said he knew he was full of crap and that he knew I wouldn't hook up with him because I don't like him. I asked if Tyler knew he had said that and they said no and that he had made them promise not to ever say anything about it to him.

I don't understand this at all. Chris is a total macho ->-bleeped-<-.  Before I transitioned he wasn't actually mean to me but he made it clear he didn't like me and wanted nothing to do with me. So now he lies and said he had sex with me???? I totally get that guys lie about hooking up with girls. But  for someone like him to lie about having sex with a transgirl that his friends KNOW is a transgirl is just beyond my understanding. I asked if maybe he had said it like being sarcastic but they said no he totally wasn't.  He also told them I really enjoyed it and that he might do me another "favor" sometime. As much as I really don't understand him doing that I'm not sure what to do about it. I really don't want people thinking I hooked up with that tool.

Call him out on it in front of everyone. Be like "Yo Chris, heard we had some good sex. Can you refresh my memory, because I'm finding it to be oddly forgettable? Almost like it never happened."

I am just guessing here but if Chris is as much a d---head as he seems to be, l think he sees sex with a t-girl as something kinky or exotic. Being a typical braggart, he is just trying to out piss his friends. Good answer, BTW.

Congratulations, you have been accepted into the feminine society. One of the things young guys do is to brag about their sexual contacts. Sometimes they are still virgins but do it to up their status in their male group. Many CIS girls reputations have been tarnish by this practice and unfortunately it's your word against his. You have the advantage with the truth on your side but a lie travels far faster than the truth so it will come down to standing your ground and telling people how you really feel about him.

I'm so sorry Julia.  Idiots abound.

I'm sorry you are having to deal with this, especially at your own home. I can see this being something that would make me feel violated. If he made it clear he didn't like you before transition it's because he saw you as a gay boy likely. Now he sees a girl. Now he sees you as something (yes a thing) that is desirable. Guys in groups get dumb with their constant one upping each other, especially in the sexual prowess department. It doesn't have to make sense to us. Somehow it makes sense to them.

My brother is so awesome.  I told him about Chris telling people he "did" me. So he got me and all 3 guys into my dad's den and asked him why he was saying that he had sex with me. He looked at me and then looked right in my brother"s face and said because it was true! That lying ->-bleeped-<-! What balls to look right at me and lie that way! My brother said I didn't even like him. He said " someone doesn't have to like me to want a piece of this". So my brother asked him when this had happened.  He said it was like a month after I had come back from boulder. I was biting my tongue to keep quiet but my brother had told me to stay quiet and let him handle it before we went in there.  Tyler said he was very surprised that he would admit that. Chris said " why? A pussy's a pussy no mater how it got there. Besides, I felt a little bad for being a Dick to her before so I figured I could do her a favor". Do me a favor! BARF!! My brother said that's not what he meant. Then he asked Chris if it had gone ok. He said I had "loved" it. Tyler said he was glad. Then he asked Chris if he was sure that it had really happened and Chris said absolutely.  Tyler said " I'm surprised you admit that you did. Everyone knows for like a year after surgery a transgirl can only take the tiniest dick, 2 1/2 - 3 inches at the most. It's a good thing Julia knows you or she would have had to wait to have sex because it's hard to find a guy with a dick that small".  The other 2 guys went crazy laughing and hooting. For once Chris was speechless. The look on his face was priceless.

Quote from: Julia1996 on September 05, 2017, 08:49:10 AM
My brother is so awesome.  I told him about Chris telling people he "did" me. So he got me and all 3 guys into my dad's den and asked him why he was saying that he had sex with me. He looked at me and then looked right in my brother"s face and said because it was true! That lying ->-bleeped-<-! What balls to look right at me and lie that way! My brother said I didn't even like him. He said " someone doesn't have to like me to want a piece of this". So my brother asked him when this had happened.  He said it was like a month after I had come back from boulder. I was biting my tongue to keep quiet but my brother had told me to stay quiet and let him handle it before we went in there.  Tyler said he was very surprised that he would admit that. Chris said " why? A pussy's a pussy no mater how it got there. Besides, I felt a little bad for being a Dick to her before so I figured I could do her a favor". Do me a favor! BARF!! My brother said that's not what he meant. Then he asked Chris if it had gone ok. He said I had "loved" it. Tyler said he was glad. Then he asked Chris if he was sure that it had really happened and Chris said absolutely.  Tyler said " I'm surprised you admit that you did. Everyone knows for like a year after surgery a transgirl can only take the tiniest dick, 2 1/2 - 3 inches at the most. It's a good thing Julia knows you or she would have had to wait to have sex because it's hard to find a guy with a dick that small".  The other 2 guys went crazy laughing and hooting. For once Chris was speechless. The look on his face was priceless.

Holy crap that's hilarious.  Your brother is awesome. 

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Quote from: Julia1996 on September 05, 2017, 08:49:10 AM
My brother is so awesome.  I told him about Chris telling people he "did" me. So he got me and all 3 guys into my dad's den and asked him why he was saying that he had sex with me. He looked at me and then looked right in my brother"s face and said because it was true! That lying ->-bleeped-<-! What balls to look right at me and lie that way! My brother said I didn't even like him. He said " someone doesn't have to like me to want a piece of this". So my brother asked him when this had happened.  He said it was like a month after I had come back from boulder. I was biting my tongue to keep quiet but my brother had told me to stay quiet and let him handle it before we went in there.  Tyler said he was very surprised that he would admit that. Chris said " why? A pussy's a pussy no mater how it got there. Besides, I felt a little bad for being a Dick to her before so I figured I could do her a favor". Do me a favor! BARF!! My brother said that's not what he meant. Then he asked Chris if it had gone ok. He said I had "loved" it. Tyler said he was glad. Then he asked Chris if he was sure that it had really happened and Chris said absolutely.  Tyler said " I'm surprised you admit that you did. Everyone knows for like a year after surgery a transgirl can only take the tiniest dick, 2 1/2 - 3 inches at the most. It's a good thing Julia knows you or she would have had to wait to have sex because it's hard to find a guy with a dick that small".  The other 2 guys went crazy laughing and hooting. For once Chris was speechless. The look on his face was priceless.

Priceless, I love it.  I would have walked over to him, kneed him in the groin, and told him that it was the best sex I'd ever had with him, and that it felt great.  Even better than the first time you did it like that.

Quote from: Julia1996 on September 05, 2017, 08:49:10 AM
My brother is so awesome.  I told him about Chris telling people he "did" me. So he got me and all 3 guys into my dad's den and asked him why he was saying that he had sex with me. He looked at me and then looked right in my brother"s face and said because it was true! That lying ->-bleeped-<-! What balls to look right at me and lie that way! My brother said I didn't even like him. He said " someone doesn't have to like me to want a piece of this". So my brother asked him when this had happened.  He said it was like a month after I had come back from boulder. I was biting my tongue to keep quiet but my brother had told me to stay quiet and let him handle it before we went in there.  Tyler said he was very surprised that he would admit that. Chris said " why? A pussy's a pussy no mater how it got there. Besides, I felt a little bad for being a Dick to her before so I figured I could do her a favor". Do me a favor! BARF!! My brother said that's not what he meant. Then he asked Chris if it had gone ok. He said I had "loved" it. Tyler said he was glad. Then he asked Chris if he was sure that it had really happened and Chris said absolutely.  Tyler said " I'm surprised you admit that you did. Everyone knows for like a year after surgery a transgirl can only take the tiniest dick, 2 1/2 - 3 inches at the most. It's a good thing Julia knows you or she would have had to wait to have sex because it's hard to find a guy with a dick that small".  The other 2 guys went crazy laughing and hooting. For once Chris was speechless. The look on his face was priceless.

OMG I'm dead. He wins. Buy him a present.

OMG Julia, your brother is amazing. I'll never understand why guys feel like they have to say stupid things like Chris did.

You are so fortunate to have both your brother and dad who love you so. They really do want to watch out for you. What your brother did was so awesome!

Quote from: Julia1996 on September 05, 2017, 08:49:10 AM
My brother is so awesome.  I told him about Chris telling people he "did" me. So he got me and all 3 guys into my dad's den and asked him why he was saying that he had sex with me. He looked at me and then looked right in my brother"s face and said because it was true! That lying ->-bleeped-<-! What balls to look right at me and lie that way! My brother said I didn't even like him. He said " someone doesn't have to like me to want a piece of this". So my brother asked him when this had happened.  He said it was like a month after I had come back from boulder. I was biting my tongue to keep quiet but my brother had told me to stay quiet and let him handle it before we went in there.  Tyler said he was very surprised that he would admit that. Chris said " why? A pussy's a pussy no mater how it got there. Besides, I felt a little bad for being a Dick to her before so I figured I could do her a favor". Do me a favor! BARF!! My brother said that's not what he meant. Then he asked Chris if it had gone ok. He said I had "loved" it. Tyler said he was glad. Then he asked Chris if he was sure that it had really happened and Chris said absolutely.  Tyler said " I'm surprised you admit that you did. Everyone knows for like a year after surgery a transgirl can only take the tiniest dick, 2 1/2 - 3 inches at the most. It's a good thing Julia knows you or she would have had to wait to have sex because it's hard to find a guy with a dick that small".  The other 2 guys went crazy laughing and hooting. For once Chris was speechless. The look on his face was priceless.

Revenge is best served cold. So glad your brother did that. He seems like a good guy.

your brother is awesome.  Damn, we all need to have people like this in our lives.  Does he want an adoptive older sister;)

Bari Jo

Quote from: Bari Jo on September 05, 2017, 06:27:12 PM
your brother is awesome.  Damn, we all need to have people like this in our lives.  Does he want an adoptive older sister;)

Bari Jo

Ha Ha I was just going to ask, "Can he be my brother too". Lol


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The funny part is the  d-head said he got a piece of your vagina. Since you haven't had the surgery yet, that makes him a liar.

Quote from: Lady Sarah on September 05, 2017, 07:29:13 PM
The funny part is the  d-head said he got a piece of your vagina. Since you haven't had the surgery yet, that makes him a liar.

Chris doesn't know I haven't had GRS.  When I came back to Denver as a female everyone assumed I had had the surgery while I was gone, including my brothers friends. Since it's no ones business what I have between my legs I never corrected that assumption.  My family and obviously my boyfriend are the only ones who know I haven't had the surgery yet.

Quote from: Norma Lynne on September 05, 2017, 07:17:59 PM
Ha Ha I was just going to ask, "Can he be my brother too". Lol


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I would give him to you. But after about 2 days with Tyler, you would be offering me money to take him back. Lol. I have to admit Tyler is a sweet guy and a very good older brother. But he's still my brother and he can be totally annoying sometimes!

This guy sounds like a complete moron, who is probably infatuated with you.

Your brother did great..

Was gonna ditto Max's response, and then say something like, 'And add something like "Or were you that guy who had a really small one?  Either way, don't remember it. So couldn't possibly have been all that great" ' cause I mean surefire way to bruise his ego, and knock him down a peg... And yes definitely he needs that.

But then you posted your brother's response to it... And well, I DEFINITELY want your brother hahaha.  I'm DYING laughing.  And he didn't out you either for not having a vagina yet either!  So as annoying as siblings can be, you definitely have a keeper for a brother.   Tell him he's earned himself a big fanclub here hahaha.

It's pretty obvious you don't know anything about guys

In the "World of Guys" every ->-bleeped-<- craves cock and doesn't matter whose  :(
In the "World of Guys" being the first is all that matters

Quote from: JoanneB on September 06, 2017, 08:15:13 PM
It's pretty obvious you don't know anything about guys

In the "World of Guys" every ->-bleeped-<- craves cock and doesn't matter whose  :(
In the "World of Guys" being the first is all that matters

No I don't.  I find guys very confusing, even my own boyfriend sometimes confuses me.

Quote from: JoanneB on September 06, 2017, 08:15:13 PM
It's pretty obvious you don't know anything about guys

In the "World of Guys" every ->-bleeped-<- craves cock and doesn't matter whose  :(
In the "World of Guys" being the first is all that matters

Haha Joanna, I lived among them for most of my 40 years and I still don't understand them. Julia don't feel bad about it.  :D
What Joanna said sounds about right from what I've observed though.

Quote from: Julia1996 on September 05, 2017, 10:01:39 PM
I would give him to you. But after about 2 days with Tyler, you would be offering me money to take him back. Lol. I have to admit Tyler is a sweet guy and a very good older brother. But he's still my brother and he can be totally annoying sometimes!

Isn't there an old saying something like


"No one can beat up my little sister but me"

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