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Title: Sailormars September update!
Post by: SailorMars1994 on September 10, 2017, 08:20:06 PM
Post by: SailorMars1994 on September 10, 2017, 08:20:06 PM
To anyone who cares:
Life is getting unusually good! As most of you know I am moving to Manitoba at months end (even though we were suppose to be there like 2 months ago) and driving westwards there for a week, so I should be there in early October! and already good things are happening. After putting out a few job applications I have gotten nearly each one calling me back, telling me to see them the minute I get there with one employeer telling me that given all they know, I got the job!! In addition I just found out tonight after a web-cam interview that I have a place of my own .. or well, I will be living with roomates (two other females the same age!) but at the very least I can finally get out of my parents and get back to independent living. I feel ok, healthy and safe enough to do so and truth be told, although I will probably be super anxious about the process I, at the end of the day can not wait! They also know I am trans and are very open about it :)!
My job options are all over the place and truth be told I will take anything that gives me at the very least a 32 hour work week!. In addition to the new place and job(s) that are very likely here already I say my mental health is so good too. I feel at one with myself, something I struggled with for a very long time and arguably never felt this calm and attached to me! I feel calm, the once daily battle of ''does it matter nothing will ever work the way I want'' has turned into ''I am quite young with potential gifts I havent even tapped into, maybe I can use this for the greater good''. In addition to these things my own bio-logical dad called me a trail blazer last Monday so yeah. I have no complaints to give, and I hope no one takes this as gloating. But September 2017 is turning in to the greatest month in probably well over a decade, lets see what October brings! Hope everyone here is doing well!, sorry I am not as active as I normally am but I am still here and love you all!!
Hugs!
Life is getting unusually good! As most of you know I am moving to Manitoba at months end (even though we were suppose to be there like 2 months ago) and driving westwards there for a week, so I should be there in early October! and already good things are happening. After putting out a few job applications I have gotten nearly each one calling me back, telling me to see them the minute I get there with one employeer telling me that given all they know, I got the job!! In addition I just found out tonight after a web-cam interview that I have a place of my own .. or well, I will be living with roomates (two other females the same age!) but at the very least I can finally get out of my parents and get back to independent living. I feel ok, healthy and safe enough to do so and truth be told, although I will probably be super anxious about the process I, at the end of the day can not wait! They also know I am trans and are very open about it :)!
My job options are all over the place and truth be told I will take anything that gives me at the very least a 32 hour work week!. In addition to the new place and job(s) that are very likely here already I say my mental health is so good too. I feel at one with myself, something I struggled with for a very long time and arguably never felt this calm and attached to me! I feel calm, the once daily battle of ''does it matter nothing will ever work the way I want'' has turned into ''I am quite young with potential gifts I havent even tapped into, maybe I can use this for the greater good''. In addition to these things my own bio-logical dad called me a trail blazer last Monday so yeah. I have no complaints to give, and I hope no one takes this as gloating. But September 2017 is turning in to the greatest month in probably well over a decade, lets see what October brings! Hope everyone here is doing well!, sorry I am not as active as I normally am but I am still here and love you all!!
Hugs!
Title: Re: Sailormars September update!
Post by: Laurie on September 10, 2017, 08:40:52 PM
Post by: Laurie on September 10, 2017, 08:40:52 PM
Ashley!
All that sounds Wonderful! :icon_bunch: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :eusa_clap: :eusa_dance: It's about time you come into your own. And you sound so happy, confident and FREE!. Love that these good things are coming your way.
Hugs,
Laurie
All that sounds Wonderful! :icon_bunch: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :eusa_clap: :eusa_dance: It's about time you come into your own. And you sound so happy, confident and FREE!. Love that these good things are coming your way.
Hugs,
Laurie
Title: Re: Sailormars September update!
Post by: bobbisue on September 10, 2017, 08:59:18 PM
Post by: bobbisue on September 10, 2017, 08:59:18 PM
I'm so happy things are going so well for you I love hearing good news from members of our community
Hugs bobbisue :)
Hugs bobbisue :)
Title: Re: Sailormars September update!
Post by: Sarah_P on September 10, 2017, 10:11:27 PM
Post by: Sarah_P on September 10, 2017, 10:11:27 PM
Congrats! Sounds like everything'g going great for you! And we know you're not gloating, you're just excited about how great things are going, and you deserve to be excited!
Title: Re: Sailormars September update!
Post by: Maddie86 on September 11, 2017, 05:32:24 AM
Post by: Maddie86 on September 11, 2017, 05:32:24 AM
aw yay! congrats!
Title: Re: Sailormars September update!
Post by: josie76 on September 11, 2017, 06:13:47 AM
Post by: josie76 on September 11, 2017, 06:13:47 AM
That sounds wonderful Ashley!!!!
I hope October brings you even better life events to tell us about.
Hugs girl! :D
I hope October brings you even better life events to tell us about.
Hugs girl! :D
Title: Re: Sailormars September update!
Post by: Artesia on September 11, 2017, 06:25:54 AM
Post by: Artesia on September 11, 2017, 06:25:54 AM
I like reading that smile in your words. I'm happy things are working for you. Keep that positive attitude going!
Title: Re: Sailormars September update!
Post by: Sno on September 11, 2017, 06:35:49 AM
Post by: Sno on September 11, 2017, 06:35:49 AM
Girl, you're smashing it.
Go you good thing. Go.
Rowan
Go you good thing. Go.
Rowan
Title: Re: Sailormars September update!
Post by: KathyLauren on September 11, 2017, 07:56:32 AM
Post by: KathyLauren on September 11, 2017, 07:56:32 AM
I am so happy that things are going well for you, Ashley!
Quote from: SailorMars1994 on September 10, 2017, 08:20:06 PMI hope no one takes this as gloating.I doubt if anyone will feel that you are gloating. We love to hear happy stories and good news. For those not in a happy place right now, it gives them hope for the future.
Title: Re: Sailormars September update!
Post by: SailorMars1994 on September 11, 2017, 10:09:22 AM
Post by: SailorMars1994 on September 11, 2017, 10:09:22 AM
Thank you so much everyone for the love, encouraging talks and positive vibes! <3
Title: Re: Sailormars September update!
Post by: DawnOday on September 11, 2017, 10:23:19 AM
Post by: DawnOday on September 11, 2017, 10:23:19 AM
Gloating? Naw. Pride of accomplishment. Absolutely. Is it warranted? Absolutely. Just by your enthusiasm we get a sense of what can be accomplished. Personally, I love these success stories. All the best.
Dawn
Dawn
Title: Re: Sailormars September update!
Post by: Raelynn on September 11, 2017, 02:29:57 PM
Post by: Raelynn on September 11, 2017, 02:29:57 PM
Yea!!!!
Single ATM to two adult boys. Lost Sock Survivor. House Plant Killa.
Single ATM to two adult boys. Lost Sock Survivor. House Plant Killa.