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Title: Question about erections if someone decided to stop hormones?
Post by: Angélique LaCava on September 21, 2017, 08:27:01 PM
Idk if y'all remember a thread I made about a MTF transgender I work with who wasn't socially transitioned so looked 100% male; well anyway me and "him" ended up getting drunk one night and had sex, for the last 2 months we have been dating and he stopped hormones by choice because he knows I'm only attracted to men. It's been about 2 months since he stopped the hormones and he's having trouble keeping erections like when we go to have sex he almost instantly goes soft and he's worried that it's permanent, will he be able to ever hold an erection or is that permanently damaged? He was on hormones for 2 years.
Title: Re: Question about erections if someone decided to stop hormones?
Post by: Nora Kayte on September 21, 2017, 08:56:53 PM
Maybe try viagra. After starting hrt it was not working like it used to. But I was ok with it. My doctor prescribed viagra and it worked well the one time I used it. This is totally a your mileage may vary thing. But after using viagra once I now get random erection. Not like before. But still some random ones. And if I want to make some
Love with my wife I can get it up. So maybe just needs a jump start.


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Title: Re: Question about erections if someone decided to stop hormones?
Post by: Angélique LaCava on September 21, 2017, 09:01:46 PM
Quote from: Norma Lynne on September 21, 2017, 08:56:53 PM
Maybe try viagra. After starting hrt it was not working like it used to. But I was ok with it. My doctor prescribed viagra and it worked well the one time I used it. This is totally a your mileage may vary thing. But after using viagra once I now get random erection. Not like before. But still some random ones. And if I want to make some
Love with my wife I can get it up. So maybe just needs a jump start.


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i don't think he wants to use viagra because when I mentioned it he walked away from me and made a "ugh" noise.
Title: Re: Question about erections if someone decided to stop hormones?
Post by: KarynMcD on September 21, 2017, 09:09:27 PM
It can take many months to get back to the way it was.
Title: Re: Question about erections if someone decided to stop hormones?
Post by: kelly_aus on September 22, 2017, 02:31:18 AM
I'm going to suggest that perhaps there are some psychological factors at play here. They should be fairly obvious.
Title: Re: Question about erections if someone decided to stop hormones?
Post by: Harley Quinn on September 23, 2017, 09:23:14 AM
I'd give him some time for his body to adjust and balls to drop/wake up. They've been dormant for a while. Or it could just be mood from the sudden lack of hormones.
Title: Re: Question about erections if someone decided to stop hormones?
Post by: Julia1996 on September 24, 2017, 08:30:48 AM
You are willingly having a relationship with someone who you not only  know for a fact is trans but who was actually taking hrt?? Yeah...no possibility of heartbreak there. Have you considered how you will feel when her dysphoria hits again and she wants to restart hrt? I don't care how much this person looks like a guy, she's not. I hope things work out ok for the 2 of you. But in my opinion you are setting yourself up for pain and heartbreak. I totally hope that isn't the way it happens.