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Title: Needing a little help
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 04:57:04 AM
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 04:57:04 AM
Quote from: Laurie on May 04, 2017, 10:58:21 PMHi i started about 5 months ago and i go tits and i feel like a woman and feel like to ware make up and i love to wear a dress and women under wear and shoes i got a frist appointment with the transgender counselling do i go in normal all do i dress up like a woman and get my nails done with polish i need you help please laurie can you help me out please.
Hi Michael,
Oh it's normal alright. Better get used to it as it will last awhile. Congratulations your metamorphosis is beginning!
Hugs,
Laurie
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Title: Re: Needing a little help
Post by: Laurie on October 19, 2017, 05:18:47 AM
Post by: Laurie on October 19, 2017, 05:18:47 AM
Quote from: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 04:57:04 AM
Hi i started about 5 months ago and i go tits and i feel like a woman and feel like to ware make up and i love to wear a dress and women under wear and shoes i got a frist appointment with the transgender counselling do i go in normal all do i dress up like a woman and get my nails done with polish i need you help please laurie can you help me out please.
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Hi Again,
How you go to your therapy session is completely up to you and you should go presenting however you are comfortable with. Going in female attire may seem like the right thing to do but is is also a coming out of sorts and that may cause you some undue anxiety to do that you may not need at this time. So go with what make you feel most comfortable.
It took me several visits to go to my session in female attire and I can tell you I had a lot of that anxiety the first couple of times. It was not caused by the prospect of seeing my therapist dress as myself, I was ready for that. Instead it was the having to check in with the mental health receptionist in the very public waiting room. As it turned out there were a bunch of people there and it was quite unnerving until I got used to doing it. That took several more visits to get over.
So once again I'll urge you to think about it and chose what you will be comfortable doing.
Best of luck is your session and please remember to try to be open and honest with your therapist. They cannot help you unless you let them know what is wrong and how you are feeling.
Hugs,
Laurie
Title: Re: Needing a little help
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 01:11:53 PM
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 01:11:53 PM
Thank you laurie
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Title: Re: Needing a little help
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 01:19:39 PM
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 01:19:39 PM
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Thank you laurie
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Title: Re: Needing a little help
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 01:28:31 PM
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 01:28:31 PM
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Title: Re: Needing a little help
Post by: Laurie on October 19, 2017, 03:18:22 PM
Post by: Laurie on October 19, 2017, 03:18:22 PM
Hi Michael,
I have split your post out to this new topic as they did not fit into the "What made you happy" thread. You may continue your questions and concerns here please. If you would prefer a different title please let me know.
Laurie
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I have split your post out to this new topic as they did not fit into the "What made you happy" thread. You may continue your questions and concerns here please. If you would prefer a different title please let me know.
Laurie
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Title: Re: Needing a little help
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 03:48:30 PM
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 03:48:30 PM
Quote from: Laurie on October 19, 2017, 03:18:22 PM[emoji2]
Hi Michael,
I have split your post out to this new topic as they did not fit into the "What made you happy" thread. You may continue your questions and concerns here please. If you would prefer a different title please let me know.
Laurie
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Title: Re: Needing a little help
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 03:49:49 PM
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 03:49:49 PM
Quote from: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 03:48:30 PMI don't know what page it should be on laurie
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Title: Re: Needing a little help
Post by: Laurie on October 19, 2017, 05:36:57 PM
Post by: Laurie on October 19, 2017, 05:36:57 PM
This thread is in a good forum for it. The problem was that your posts did not fit into the thread where they were posted making it necessary for me to split them out like I have done.
As for your attire, I do not think would be appropriate for a therapy visit. Something a bit more conservative maybe?
Hugs,
Laurie
As for your attire, I do not think would be appropriate for a therapy visit. Something a bit more conservative maybe?
Hugs,
Laurie
Title: Re: Needing a little help
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 09:49:03 PM
Post by: michaeltoppin88 on October 19, 2017, 09:49:03 PM
Thank you laurie
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Title: Re: Needing a little help
Post by: Charlie Nicki on October 19, 2017, 10:32:12 PM
Post by: Charlie Nicki on October 19, 2017, 10:32:12 PM
Quote from: Laurie on October 19, 2017, 05:36:57 PM
This thread is in a good forum for it. The problem was that your posts did not fit into the thread where they were posted making it necessary for me to split them out like I have done.
As for your attire, I do not think would be appropriate for a therapy visit. Something a bit more conservative maybe?
Hugs,
Laurie
I agree.