Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: MeTony on October 22, 2017, 06:03:46 AM Return to Full Version
Title: Sister told my brother
Post by: MeTony on October 22, 2017, 06:03:46 AM
Post by: MeTony on October 22, 2017, 06:03:46 AM
My called me and said she was sorry that she told my brother. I said it is ok. It's no secret.
My brother's reaction? He is a bully, I was always worried about telling him. Then what did he say? He said I should have done this as a kid! He has always seen me as a brother!
Some things are apparantly more obvious then I could ever imagine.
My brother's reaction? He is a bully, I was always worried about telling him. Then what did he say? He said I should have done this as a kid! He has always seen me as a brother!
Some things are apparantly more obvious then I could ever imagine.
Title: Re: Sister told my brother
Post by: Cindy on October 22, 2017, 06:13:44 AM
Post by: Cindy on October 22, 2017, 06:13:44 AM
Ok that is good.
I think it is also don't drink alcohol.
I think it is also don't drink alcohol.
Title: Re: Sister told my brother
Post by: Megan. on October 22, 2017, 06:14:37 AM
Post by: Megan. on October 22, 2017, 06:14:37 AM
Quote from: MeTonie on October 22, 2017, 06:03:46 AMMore for news [emoji5], great!
My called me and said she was sorry that she told my brother. I said it is ok. It's no secret.
My brother's reaction? He is a bully, I was always worried about telling him. Then what did he say? He said I should have done this as a kid! He has always seen me as a brother!
Some things are apparantly more obvious then I could ever imagine.
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Title: Re: Sister told my brother
Post by: natalie.ashlyne on October 22, 2017, 06:20:30 AM
Post by: natalie.ashlyne on October 22, 2017, 06:20:30 AM
That is great that he accepts you for who you are.
Title: Re: Sister told my brother
Post by: The Flying Lemur on October 22, 2017, 06:23:30 AM
Post by: The Flying Lemur on October 22, 2017, 06:23:30 AM
That has to be a huge relief! I'm glad to hear that this went okay.
Title: Re: Sister told my brother
Post by: MeTony on October 22, 2017, 06:25:50 AM
Post by: MeTony on October 22, 2017, 06:25:50 AM
If coming out keeps this pace, I'll be completely out at the end of the year.
I don't mind. But I need to give my husband time to adjust before any huge changes.
Tony
I don't mind. But I need to give my husband time to adjust before any huge changes.
Tony
Title: Re: Sister told my brother
Post by: MaryT on October 22, 2017, 10:19:52 AM
Post by: MaryT on October 22, 2017, 10:19:52 AM
I'm glad that it worked out better than you expected.
I dread my brother finding out about my transitioning. He even describes himself as a psychopath and he does tend to take advantage of any vulnerability.
He won't be surprised, though. He must know about my cross dressing throughout my life, although I never did it in front of him. Also, many years ago, I overheard a female cousin tell him that I would be a better girl than a boy, and he agreed with her. He has often made me cry, too, and I know he doesn't regard that as manly.
I dread my brother finding out about my transitioning. He even describes himself as a psychopath and he does tend to take advantage of any vulnerability.
He won't be surprised, though. He must know about my cross dressing throughout my life, although I never did it in front of him. Also, many years ago, I overheard a female cousin tell him that I would be a better girl than a boy, and he agreed with her. He has often made me cry, too, and I know he doesn't regard that as manly.
Title: Re: Sister told my brother
Post by: HappyMoni on October 22, 2017, 10:27:00 AM
Post by: HappyMoni on October 22, 2017, 10:27:00 AM
Yea, Tony, can you feel the weight of the secret being lifted? So glad it is going well.
Moni
Moni
Title: Re: Sister told my brother
Post by: Gertrude on October 22, 2017, 12:15:26 PM
Post by: Gertrude on October 22, 2017, 12:15:26 PM
Quote from: MeTonie on October 22, 2017, 06:03:46 AMJudging from your picture, I'd think it's very obvious and I'd have a hard time thinking someone would be surprised. Just saying. I like the name Tony. It was my Dad's name and is my brother's name. Are you of Italian descent? It's cool your brother took it so well. I hope my remaining siblings do.
My called me and said she was sorry that she told my brother. I said it is ok. It's no secret.
My brother's reaction? He is a bully, I was always worried about telling him. Then what did he say? He said I should have done this as a kid! He has always seen me as a brother!
Some things are apparantly more obvious then I could ever imagine.
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Title: Re: Sister told my brother
Post by: Maddie86 on October 22, 2017, 02:03:13 PM
Post by: Maddie86 on October 22, 2017, 02:03:13 PM
awesome!! :)
Title: Re: Sister told my brother
Post by: MeTony on October 22, 2017, 02:48:57 PM
Post by: MeTony on October 22, 2017, 02:48:57 PM
Quote from: Gertrude on October 22, 2017, 12:15:26 PM
Judging from your picture, I'd think it's very obvious and I'd have a hard time thinking someone would be surprised. Just saying. I like the name Tony. It was my Dad's name and is my brother's name. Are you of Italian descent? It's cool your brother took it so well. I hope my remaining siblings do.
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No Italian. I'm from Finland. My son's name is Anton. I like Tony and it is connected to Anton.
My profile pic is photoshopped. I have no beard yet. I wanted a pic of me but not too obvious.
Here are two pics of me. Without the beard.
https://imgur.com/a/8C7fB