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Just curious.. many people tell me that I look better in skinny jeans due to my very feminine wide hips and legs. Which do you think looks better? Not many people like me in men's jeans. So, which do you like better? It's my second post on peteratajczyk on instagram. (No need for likes, but since I can't put photos in the post, I'll just tell you to go to my Instagram that has the photos.) thanks

3rd post I mean. Oops sorry.

I think you do look 'curvy' but so do a lot of teenage boys wearing skinny jeans. If you like them wear them.

Btw honestly the black hair suits you; your parents must be blind.

Quote from: Elis on October 28, 2017, 09:08:53 AM
I think you do look 'curvy' but so do a lot of teenage boys wearing skinny jeans. If you like them wear them.

Btw honestly the black hair suits you; your parents must be blind.

True, aw thank you so much. Which do you think looks better on me the skinny jeans or the men's jeans? Just wondering, I like knowing peoples opinions.

Couldn't see the photo of you wearing the other jeans. Can you post the link?

Quote from: Elis on October 28, 2017, 10:02:52 AM
Couldn't see the photo of you wearing the other jeans. Can you post the link?

https://instagram.com/p/BaxVtfQlYWg/ Here you go :)

Quote from: PeterSteele on October 28, 2017, 10:05:13 AM
https://instagram.com/p/BaxVtfQlYWg/ Here you go :)

That's the pic I commented on earlier  :D

bear in mind that if people see you as female, they will likely pick what makes you look more feminine if you ask them what looks best on you.  it's up to you, but if i were in your shoes, i wouldn't ask what people like more.  i would only ask what looks more masculine/feminine, if i asked anything at all, and decide for myself what suited me better.  people will view you through their own lenses based on a number of factors, and what gender they perceive you as is one of them.

Quote from: meatwagon on October 28, 2017, 10:22:31 AM
bear in mind that if people see you as female, they will likely pick what makes you look more feminine if you ask them what looks best on you.  it's up to you, but if i were in your shoes, i wouldn't ask what people like more.  i would only ask what looks more masculine/feminine, if i asked anything at all, and decide for myself what suited me better.  people will view you through their own lenses based on a number of factors, and what gender they perceive you as is one of them.

True thank you so much. I just really hope I don't look bad in men's jeans because, that's where I get the most hate.

The important question here is, which one do you prefer? Men use skinny jeans, but they will make your hips stand out, while loose jeans will hide them. IMO men's jeans aren't made to look good, unlike female ones. Maybe you can find something I'm between which suits you better and gives you a less feminine image.

The maculine jeans, because you look more comfortable and confident in them.  How you dress should make YOU happy.



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Quote from: meatwagon on October 28, 2017, 10:22:31 AM
bear in mind that if people see you as female, they will likely pick what makes you look more feminine if you ask them what looks best on you.  it's up to you, but if i were in your shoes, i wouldn't ask what people like more.  i would only ask what looks more masculine/feminine, if i asked anything at all, and decide for myself what suited me better.  people will view you through their own lenses based on a number of factors, and what gender they perceive you as is one of them.

Yep. As you transition, you're constantly going to get comments that you look better in feminine styles. Even from people you're out to. This is because they read you as feminine, not because you actually look bad in masculine stuff.

The men's jeans definitely hide your curves more, which is better for passing. But it's fine if that's not your primary goal. Wear what feels right to you.

I can't ID the photo in which you wear looser jeans, so I can't really comment on which looks better.  That said, I agree that confidence is a big part of attractiveness, so I'd recommend whichever jeans make you feel best.  Also, the black hair does look awesome on you!

 The "men's" jeans, in my opinion, look better on you. Then again, I may be a bit biased in regards to skinny jeans.  :eusa_whistle:  As far as I'm concerned, skinny jeans were created to give shapeless, rail thin size 00 wearer's some semblance of curves.

Hi Peter,

Go for the men's jeans - the negativity is because you're challenging others who deny your truth - you're cross dressing, and folk always find that hard to deal with :(

Be comfortable, and be you.

Rowan.

For anyone not realizing this....
You need to click the back and forward (right and left of photo) buttons on the image....to see the male jean versions.

That being said, I think the male jeans look way better. 
They make you read male way more than the skinny jeans, plus you look more comfortable in them.

I vote for men's jeans they don't show your curves and I see you as much more as a guy.

Quote from: kayla1618 on October 30, 2017, 03:05:25 PM
For anyone not realizing this....
You need to click the back and forward (right and left of photo) buttons on the image....to see the male jean versions

Thanks Kayla . . . I'm ancient and clueless.  :p  And yeah, the guys' jeans are way better.  You also look happier in them.