Community Conversation => Transitioning => Passing => Topic started by: Sinead on October 30, 2017, 01:06:48 PM Return to Full Version
Title: I know I probably don't pass but...
Post by: Sinead on October 30, 2017, 01:06:48 PM
Post by: Sinead on October 30, 2017, 01:06:48 PM
Hey all! So I had my makeover today, it was honestly one of the best things I've ever done. I even went out in public, I know I don't pass, as I don't look female and I kept getting looks.
To be honest, passing doesn't mean that much to me anymore, I just want to be female, all of the time. (I'm contradicting myself with this next question) What do I need to do in order to pass?
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To be honest, passing doesn't mean that much to me anymore, I just want to be female, all of the time. (I'm contradicting myself with this next question) What do I need to do in order to pass?
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi50.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ff332%2FNinamtf92%2F526EE17B-4999-410A-90D3-536687E050C4_zpsskfxkqec.jpeg&hash=1073600548b1291f752d512ef3d5d25ff982d076) (http://s50.photobucket.com/user/Ninamtf92/media/526EE17B-4999-410A-90D3-536687E050C4_zpsskfxkqec.jpeg.html)
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Title: Re: I know I probably don't pass but...
Post by: Megan. on October 30, 2017, 01:10:05 PM
Post by: Megan. on October 30, 2017, 01:10:05 PM
Glad you had a great time, it's lovely being pampered isn't it :).
And the result... fantastic, looking totally fab. X
And the result... fantastic, looking totally fab. X
Title: Re: I know I probably don't pass but...
Post by: MaryT on October 30, 2017, 02:29:28 PM
Post by: MaryT on October 30, 2017, 02:29:28 PM
I'll echo what I said in another post. I don't know for certain that you will always pass yet, but you are already beautiful.
Title: Re: I know I probably don't pass but...
Post by: Meghan on November 01, 2017, 08:11:06 AM
Post by: Meghan on November 01, 2017, 08:11:06 AM
Hi Nina,
Just like you I'm in Transition because I'm not happy with my current body, so I want to change so I could feel complete. That why I am talking to my Therapist to make sure about my mental state of mind. Good luck.
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Just like you I'm in Transition because I'm not happy with my current body, so I want to change so I could feel complete. That why I am talking to my Therapist to make sure about my mental state of mind. Good luck.
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Title: Re: I know I probably don't pass but...
Post by: Sinead on November 01, 2017, 10:10:13 AM
Post by: Sinead on November 01, 2017, 10:10:13 AM
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Quote from: NinaW on October 30, 2017, 01:06:48 PM
Hey all! So I had my makeover today, it was honestly one of the best things I've ever done. I even went out in public, I know I don't pass, as I don't look female and I kept getting looks.
To be honest, passing doesn't mean that much to me anymore, I just want to be female, all of the time. (I'm contradicting myself with this next question) What do I need to do in order to pass?
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi50.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ff332%2FNinamtf92%2F526EE17B-4999-410A-90D3-536687E050C4_zpsskfxkqec.jpeg&hash=1073600548b1291f752d512ef3d5d25ff982d076) (http://s50.photobucket.com/user/Ninamtf92/media/526EE17B-4999-410A-90D3-536687E050C4_zpsskfxkqec.jpeg.html)
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Title: Re: I know I probably don't pass but...
Post by: Taylorcaudle on November 30, 2017, 04:06:41 PM
Post by: Taylorcaudle on November 30, 2017, 04:06:41 PM
Like honestly i think you pass. Just keep smiling. You look beautiful.
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Title: Re: I know I probably don't pass but...
Post by: mako9802 on November 30, 2017, 07:34:30 PM
Post by: mako9802 on November 30, 2017, 07:34:30 PM
You look fine...
Title: Re: I know I probably don't pass but...
Post by: elkie-t on November 30, 2017, 09:56:30 PM
Post by: elkie-t on November 30, 2017, 09:56:30 PM
There are things you cannot change. There are thing you can change after a long time and many surgeries. You need to learn how to hide them - for instance broad shoulders can be visually put out of focus by different style of dresses. Hands better be hidden. Adam's apple can be covered with a scarf, a choker or a surgery.
Short of that, you look cute. Be confident and pleasant. Smile
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Short of that, you look cute. Be confident and pleasant. Smile
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Title: I know I probably don't pass but...
Post by: elkie-t on November 30, 2017, 09:59:49 PM
Post by: elkie-t on November 30, 2017, 09:59:49 PM
A joke from my childhood. A womanizer meets a skinny girl.
- hey missy, do you have any butt?
- well yes, of course, how rude!
- then why don't you wear it?
That was a hint - When was the last time you see a black girl without a great butt? If you don't want to wear pads - then you need to wear a skirt with some flair, creating an image you have one.
- hey missy, do you have any butt?
- well yes, of course, how rude!
- then why don't you wear it?
That was a hint - When was the last time you see a black girl without a great butt? If you don't want to wear pads - then you need to wear a skirt with some flair, creating an image you have one.