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What is the body part that causes you the most dysphoria at the moment?

(If you want to elaborate what it was before etc. go ahead!)


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CHEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Definitely!!!!! If I could get rid of it that'd make my life better by 90% I feel!!!!!

Atm I would say mine is a tie between how my face appears and well my penis. I always feel like they look down after looking at my face. It's just like stop trying to look for evidence down there it's none of your business. So that is what is causing me gd.

My hair,  voice, tummy, I need to lose some wieght

Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on December 12, 2017, 01:03:58 PM
My hair,  voice, tummy, I need to lose some wieght

What,  :D?! Did I just hear correctly??
Your hair looks fine! And you are really skinny!!! Lose weight?! I don't get the thing that women always wanna lose weight!

- Please don't lose weight. You are fine! -

My hair, nose, facial/body hair and penis

Some of my other facials features too

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Quote from: PurpleWolf on December 12, 2017, 01:11:21 PM
What,  :D?! Did I just hear correctly??
Your hair looks fine! And you are really skinny!!! Lose weight?! I don't get the thing that women always wanna lose weight!

- Please don't lose weight. You are fine! -

Thank you but i just want to lose about 15 pounds just around my belly i weight about 165 to 170 pounds i would be happy if i can go to 150 and stay there. Right now am a size 10 to 12 and i want to be a 8 to 10 

Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on December 12, 2017, 01:26:24 PM
Thank you but i just want to lose about 15 pounds just around my belly i weight about 165 to 170 pounds i would be happy if i can go to 150 and stay there. Right now am a size 10 to 12 and i want to be a 8 to 10

Believe me...! You don't look like you need to lose weight.
Don't stare at the scale. Look in the mirror,  ;)! That's all what matters!

Quote from: PurpleWolf on December 12, 2017, 01:50:31 PM
Believe me...! You don't look like you need to lose weight.
Don't stare at the scale. Look in the mirror,  ;)! That's all what matters!

Thank you I have been try to, when I was 18 to 22 I was 5'8 and 114 pounds I was bulimic and ended up in the hospital for sever dehydration. I dont want that again

Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on December 12, 2017, 02:12:10 PM
Thank you I have been try to, when I was 18 to 22 I was 5'8 and 114 pounds I was bulimic and ended up in the hospital for sever dehydration. I dont want that again

Don't do it! You are very skinny the way you are right now. Plus quite good-looking, like I told you,  ;). You don't wanna lose that, right?

You will not become any happier by losing weight, but the opposite. Just saying.
Concentrate on taking good care of yourself! Eat & drink regularly etc.

My Hips and face. I have very curvy womenly hips that hug tight in all the pant's that I try on. My face is very round and feminine. I hate both.

My boy parts. I keep everything tucked all the time but when I untuck to bathe dealing with it triggers bad dysphoria. Since I am a small person I would expect "that" to be small too and the fact it's not makes me really mad. I can't wait to be rid of it.

Facial hair and size


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Probably the bottom area but it's very minimal thank god

My face then my hips and then my genitals. Although i dont know what to think about my genital they're useless.

hips and bottom are almost nonexistent

The obvious ones chest and genitalia but the waist and the thighs extremely disgust me as well.

Quote from: Corax on December 13, 2017, 07:20:49 AM
The obvious ones chest and genitalia but the waist and the thighs extremely disgust me as well.

My second-most dislike must be my shoulder/hip ratio....... Always annoyed me.

  Hi Mr. PW

  To be honest my biggest problem is my mind. If I could first forgive myself then come to accept myself as a woman I could work on the rest.

Laurie

Chest.

Honestly, the thing that causes me the most dysphoria are my fingernails? They grow fairly quickly, and if they aren't always super short I feel like everyone's looking at them and assuming my gender based on my hands!! I compulsively cut my nails every other day or so, so that they're always as short as possible. I've stopped wearing nail polish on both my fingers and my toes (despite actually liking the look!) out of fear. -sighs-

Quote from: scrubcore on December 15, 2017, 09:03:25 PM
Honestly, the thing that causes me the most dysphoria are my fingernails? They grow fairly quickly, and if they aren't always super short I feel like everyone's looking at them and assuming my gender based on my hands!! I compulsively cut my nails every other day or so, so that they're always as short as possible. I've stopped wearing nail polish on both my fingers and my toes (despite actually liking the look!) out of fear. -sighs-

Well that was new  ;D!

My face, I have never been able to look in a mirror long

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Quote from: scrubcore on December 15, 2017, 09:03:25 PM
Honestly, the thing that causes me the most dysphoria are my fingernails? They grow fairly quickly, and if they aren't always super short I feel like everyone's looking at them and assuming my gender based on my hands!! I compulsively cut my nails every other day or so, so that they're always as short as possible. I've stopped wearing nail polish on both my fingers and my toes (despite actually liking the look!) out of fear. -sighs-

  That is interesting. Before I started HRT my nails grew like bad weeds. I preferred them longer though it was noticed from time to time. I found myself worried about it when I had VA appointments and would trim them shorter before going to them. it wasn't too bad as I know in a couple weeks they would be longer again. Throughout my life they were the envy of my lady friends. :-) if only they knew how they looked painted.
  Now after a year on HRT I have female nails that won't grow for nothing. :( they chip and split in ways they never did before. So I've broken down and bought some biotin to see if it will help them. I told my electrologist about the biotin only to learn that yes they can help nails but it also help your hair grown too. She said that's okay we will just have a longer relationship because of it. Ouch!

Hugs,
  Laurie

My chin.


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Facial hair. May it be exterminated when I convince my wife we should spend the rather large amount it will cost! Super close shaving and concealing is time consuming and often doesn't last the day. :(

chest and menstruation junk... also thicker thighs than most cis guys my weight. also HEIGHT! i hate being short :/


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Shoulder width, and obviously the poker downstairs gets in the way constantly. The rest I could probably handle, though body hair is really annoying also.

Lets see....

My Sexuality...... - seriously took me ages to figure this sh!t out because of the disphoria, there was a lot of, I like BOYS, AM I GAY? NO I Dont feel Gay, Maybe im Straight? Does that mean i like girls? I dont think i like girls, maybe i should like girls? OH IM a Straight Girl so its ok for me to like boys im not gay

I have Man Boobs cus of my weight.... which makes me look feminine
my voice, sometimes i sound feminine on the phone
My hair, sometimes i like to grow it out cus it makes me feel more girly, but then people start to notice it and i get it cut
My facial hair - i also hate shaving, i mean JUST HATE IT, sometimes i let my beard grow, but then i cant stand it so i have to shave ugh....
I kinda sometimes dont mind having a penis, but id rather not have it/born a female
My disphoria gives me disphoria LOL

New ones

My eyes - want it to be more feminine
My neck - ""                                       ""   
My Skin - how it feels, since doing a subliminal mtf (estrogen/T Blocker) i had no idea just how uncomfortable i felt in my own skin.... UGH 
Shoulder Width - never bothered me until recently
Arm length - I kinda like that i have long arms, but it would look weird if i became female?
My height - i kinda like that im tall, dont want to lose my height
My Laugh? - its kinda girl i think? IDK


For me its always been more about the man role or being the man stirs the disphoria right up

Chest.

My stomach, I hate it.

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