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Title: Just came out to mom
Post by: Zquence on December 18, 2017, 05:35:14 AM
Just sent this to my mom would of rather done it in person but I don't know when ill see her again I can't wait until she wakes up so nervous.

"Hey mom, umm I guess I have news.
How should I put this, would rather do it in person but don't know when that'll be... So anyways you remember back in highschool and stuff... I use to say stuff all the time alot bull->-bleeped-<-, alot not, but anyways one of the things I said was rather been born a girl... Well yeah I guess it is time to come out the closet, I am trans.
I love you mom."

Looks like im on fire when it comes to coming out. How long till it burns me, and who, and will I even care?

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Title: Re: Just came out to mom
Post by: Bari Jo on December 18, 2017, 05:55:08 AM
Yup, you are on fire!  I'm amazed how differently everybodys coming outs and letters are.  I think the important thing is be you throughout it all.  If I sent a letter like yours there's no way my family would accept it as it doesn't ring as me.  My family would think I was under duress or something.  I am long winded, analytical about everything.  They would expect me to have a debate with myself in my letters and I did.

Kudos to you for keeping your personalality in yours.

Bari Jo
Title: Re: Just came out to mom
Post by: Megan. on December 18, 2017, 07:29:23 AM
God luck, hope it goes well. X

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Title: Re: Just came out to mom
Post by: Zquence on December 18, 2017, 08:42:41 AM
So far so good, loll we are talking, she doesn't really know what to say besides that she supports me, but I know my mom would love and accept me even if I became the next Hitler.

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Title: Re: Just came out to mom
Post by: Megan. on December 18, 2017, 08:57:47 AM
Let's hope the 'Hitler thing' doesn't happen! Otherwise, I'm very happy for you. X

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Title: Re: Just came out to mom
Post by: Zquence on December 18, 2017, 09:12:10 AM
Quote from: Megan. on December 18, 2017, 08:57:47 AM
Let's hope the 'Hitler thing' doesn't happen! Otherwise, I'm very happy for you. X

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I don't think it will I lost my drive for world domination.

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Title: Re: Just came out to mom
Post by: KathyLauren on December 18, 2017, 09:55:13 AM
Quote from: Zquence on December 18, 2017, 08:42:41 AMshe supports me
Those are the magic words.  Yay!
Title: Re: Just came out to mom
Post by: Charlie Nicki on December 18, 2017, 10:08:48 AM
Quote from: Zquence on December 18, 2017, 09:12:10 AM
I don't think it will I lost my drive for world domination.

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LOL! Congrats for your mom's support.
Title: Re: Just came out to mom
Post by: Roll on December 18, 2017, 10:11:34 AM
Congrats on your mom's support!!

And maybe you could just aim lower and settle for a single country rather than world domination. More of a Peron style thing.
Title: Re: Just came out to mom
Post by: Zquence on December 18, 2017, 10:16:00 AM
Quote from: Roll on December 18, 2017, 10:11:34 AM
Congrats on your mom's support!!

And maybe you could just aim lower and settle for a single country rather than world domination. More of a Peron style thing.
You make me laugh girl

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Title: Re: Just came out to mom
Post by: Zquence on December 18, 2017, 06:08:20 PM
Hahahaha

So I've just come out to my old friends back in Texas,
Light all the matches
I might be going crazy, coming out to fast, ima burn at somepoint I know but for now I am riding the high of coming out.

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