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Title: Pre-hrt worried about pass in the future..?
Post by: Reffsatt on January 10, 2018, 05:37:57 PM
Hiiiii :3, im pre-hrt at the moment and afraid that i have to do FFS (expensive)in the future even after long hrt... but yeah i know.. its better to wait and see what hrt does i guess...

I want your honest opinions. When i look at myself i only see my ugly 110% male face. My girlfriend says that i look ok but i can't believe her because she always says that to me :( i need someone outside our relationship to be honest to me.

What do you think? Could i pass one day? do i need to worry? :embarrassed:

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fforumbilder.se%2FH5KUS%2Ftest334345.jpg&hash=29df0f0c046dddc12c5499a847328b76aaa8eac8) (http://forumbilder.se/H5KUS/test334345)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fforumbilder.se%2FH5KUS%2F7.jpg&hash=7dbef98c92995bb59b07af3cb8b0be0b6ea45a42) (http://forumbilder.se/H5KUS/7)
:embarrassed:
Title: Re: Pre-hrt worried about pass in the future..?
Post by: natalie.ashlyne on January 10, 2018, 05:47:08 PM
I think you have some feminine features already and HRT will highlight them and make other appear I think you can pass   
Title: Re: Pre-hrt worried about pass in the future..?
Post by: Jessica_Rose on January 10, 2018, 05:56:51 PM
I wish my face was that beautiful! I don't think you have anything to worry about. I wish you the best of luck on your journey!
Title: Re: Pre-hrt worried about pass in the future..?
Post by: V M on January 10, 2018, 07:59:47 PM
Hi Reffsatt  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

I agree with the others that you already look rather feminine and would probably feminize further pretty well

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Title: Re: Pre-hrt worried about pass in the future..?
Post by: Bari Jo on January 10, 2018, 08:14:02 PM
You have one of the best bases I've seen for feminization.  Plus you are young.  I'd bet dollars to donuts that you will turn out very well.

Bari Jo
Title: Re: Pre-hrt worried about pass in the future..?
Post by: Reffsatt on January 13, 2018, 07:17:05 PM
Hello again! sorry for slow reply,

Awww thanks everybody i needed to hear that!.
I feel a bit better now :embarrassed:

Thanks all for your answers and thoughts! :)

I am from sweden but i think this forum will help me anyway ^-^
Title: Re: Pre-hrt worried about pass in the future..?
Post by: LJH24 on January 13, 2018, 07:23:45 PM
You are beautiful already. The 4th photo with your hair pulled behind your ear looks 100% girl to me.
Title: Re: Pre-hrt worried about pass in the future..?
Post by: Anne Blake on January 13, 2018, 08:42:36 PM
I agree with the others, lots of good potential, especially the fourth shot. Smiling and adding confidence would also do wonders.
Title: Re: Pre-hrt worried about pass in the future..?
Post by: Asakawa on January 13, 2018, 11:33:37 PM
You have some pretty feminine features already and the fact that you are dressing as the opposite gender (At least from what I can tell?) is a good sign in that you are more willing to accept your female persona. There are some masculine features that I see, but you are pre-hrt. You already have feminine features and HRT will enhance them and make them more pronounce.

However, most people can't achieve a 100% female skeleton structure and what can be done with FFS is also limited, but will greatly help achieve the desired goal. Yet, there are other bone structures that we cannot change such as sternum length, limb length and girth, and other male components that are there from birth and expressed through our genes. This is a fact that a lot of us have to accept.

So, in the end, the biggest thing is being able to accept yourself even with imperfections and masculine traits (Sorry? That might have been too much). Unless someone is really gifted with really feminine features then likely transition will have those bumps on the road that we all have.

I thought I looked pretty masculine in the pictures I took. Like the one in my avatar, but looking at it back I think I was just nuts. Granted I'm not perfect, but my face looked pretty girly. Yet, I thought I looked like a total guy.

So, this kind of leads us to another point in that we can sometimes be took self critical about ourselves and we need to watch out for that. So learning to love our selves is very important and most of all, if you can, have fun as girl.
Title: Re: Pre-hrt worried about pass in the future..?
Post by: Allison S on January 14, 2018, 03:52:42 AM
Long hair helps. Hrt changes a good amount but things like nose, chin, jaw and forehead still need some work usually.

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