Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Josielife26 on January 12, 2018, 09:36:47 PM Return to Full Version
Title: came out to mom now its time to leave...
Post by: Josielife26 on January 12, 2018, 09:36:47 PM
Post by: Josielife26 on January 12, 2018, 09:36:47 PM
Well i had a pretty rough week to say the least my mom found out im trans and now its time for me to go...
I always knew i was different than my brother hes the typical guy .Now me im feminine always been its just how im built from day one. But me and my mom never saw eye to eye i started selling make up she hated that idea i still sell ti .I started dating men nope didnt work for her i told her im bi and trans now i know whats best for me is to leae her behind close the door and leave .Ill only be able to transition once im on my own now i know why theres a whall she doesnt accept me being trans being feminine im sorry but i cannot change the way that i am looks like il have to start walking alone ive done all i could for her ... Ive cared for her provided for both of us but its not enough looks like this chic is on her own ah well.
I always knew i was different than my brother hes the typical guy .Now me im feminine always been its just how im built from day one. But me and my mom never saw eye to eye i started selling make up she hated that idea i still sell ti .I started dating men nope didnt work for her i told her im bi and trans now i know whats best for me is to leae her behind close the door and leave .Ill only be able to transition once im on my own now i know why theres a whall she doesnt accept me being trans being feminine im sorry but i cannot change the way that i am looks like il have to start walking alone ive done all i could for her ... Ive cared for her provided for both of us but its not enough looks like this chic is on her own ah well.
Title: Re: came out to mom now its time to leave...
Post by: linda troung vu on January 12, 2018, 10:12:18 PM
Post by: linda troung vu on January 12, 2018, 10:12:18 PM
Hi there sister I was in the same position as you when I was a teenager. 😆 lol I just left my family and went my own way. 😆 💖 my sisters made fun of me because I was cross dressing and wanted to look girly. Haha.😆 my mum said that I was sick and need to see a doctor. . 😆 lol but yeah I just got away from the negative people in my life and made a few mistakes on the way. 😆 but now I'm a beautiful better person and I can be so proud of myself being a trans girl and feeling so girly and feminine. Lol.😆 haha I hope that you can find your way to a happier lifestyle and no one can be negative around you sister. best wishes for you in 2018.😆 💖 xoxo
Title: Re: came out to mom now its time to leave...
Post by: Janes Groove on January 12, 2018, 11:02:27 PM
Post by: Janes Groove on January 12, 2018, 11:02:27 PM
Sorry this happened. There's not really much I can say to help but you are certainly not alone. My mom abandoned me too. It sucks. Bad.
But next week has got to be an improvement. Am I right?
But next week has got to be an improvement. Am I right?
Title: Re: came out to mom now its time to leave...
Post by: Laurie on January 12, 2018, 11:15:05 PM
Post by: Laurie on January 12, 2018, 11:15:05 PM
Hi Josie,
That is pretty rough. Having your mother not accept you can hurt. I do not know that first hand though, because I came out after mine passed away. I provided for her and my sister with some help from my Mom too until she passed away from cancer. I do know how it hurts having a daughter that doesn't though and that is really crappy. You I am going to assume are an adult since you said you provided for both of you. I do hope you aren't leaving her without some means of providing for herself. I'm not saying you don't need to leave just that she needs to be able to live by herself. To just walk away doesn't sound like the kind of person that took care of her and provided for her. That sounds like a caring person to me.
Hugs,
Laurie
That is pretty rough. Having your mother not accept you can hurt. I do not know that first hand though, because I came out after mine passed away. I provided for her and my sister with some help from my Mom too until she passed away from cancer. I do know how it hurts having a daughter that doesn't though and that is really crappy. You I am going to assume are an adult since you said you provided for both of you. I do hope you aren't leaving her without some means of providing for herself. I'm not saying you don't need to leave just that she needs to be able to live by herself. To just walk away doesn't sound like the kind of person that took care of her and provided for her. That sounds like a caring person to me.
Hugs,
Laurie