Community Conversation => Transitioning => Topic started by: adrianva on February 17, 2018, 02:13:24 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Coming out as a transitioning person as a DoD Civilian
Post by: adrianva on February 17, 2018, 02:13:24 PM
Post by: adrianva on February 17, 2018, 02:13:24 PM
So, I work for the DoD (Navy) as a civilian and am looking to chat with others t who have transitioned, or are currently transitioning, while at work. I'm scheduled to start HRT in a few weeks and am wondering if I should go ahead and let my leadership know even though I won't be presenting as female for awhile. I've already let my security folks know, but wasn't sure of protocol as far as letting other people know.
adrianva
adrianva
Title: Re: Coming out as a transitioning person as a DoD Civilian
Post by: Jessica on February 17, 2018, 02:22:17 PM
Post by: Jessica on February 17, 2018, 02:22:17 PM
Hi Adrian 🙋 Welcome to Susan's Place! I'm Jessica. I have retired already, so I don't have any hands on experience. What I have gathered from others is that letting management know early can give them time to set up sensitivity training or the like. There are a number of people here who are going through going full time at work. I'm sure some will chime in.
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Title: Re: Coming out as a transitioning person as a DoD Civilian
Post by: JulieAllana on February 17, 2018, 03:05:51 PM
Post by: JulieAllana on February 17, 2018, 03:05:51 PM
Adrianva,
I think that each organization is different. I know of some people who go stealth until they just can't hide the physical changes anymore, but I would think talking to the HR department (or whatever the DoD equivalent is) would be a good idea. I used to work as a DoD contractor for the Navy doing IT work, but I suppose it would be different for a contractor as an actual DoD employee. @Jessica_Rose just came out at work in the last few days. She might be a really good resource to talk to. She just opened a forum thread on it. https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,234245.0.html
Keep us posted on what happens and good luck ;)
Julie
I think that each organization is different. I know of some people who go stealth until they just can't hide the physical changes anymore, but I would think talking to the HR department (or whatever the DoD equivalent is) would be a good idea. I used to work as a DoD contractor for the Navy doing IT work, but I suppose it would be different for a contractor as an actual DoD employee. @Jessica_Rose just came out at work in the last few days. She might be a really good resource to talk to. She just opened a forum thread on it. https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,234245.0.html
Keep us posted on what happens and good luck ;)
Julie
Title: Re: Coming out as a transitioning person as a DoD Civilian
Post by: Laurie on February 17, 2018, 05:34:05 PM
Post by: Laurie on February 17, 2018, 05:34:05 PM
Hi Adrian,
I'm Laurie and have long been out ot the Navy. I know the VA has guidelines and procedures and so does the military themselves. I would the there would be similar things in place with the DoD. If there is a website for them try searching on LGBTQ.
Good Luck and welcome to Susan's Place.
Hugs,
Laurie
I'm Laurie and have long been out ot the Navy. I know the VA has guidelines and procedures and so does the military themselves. I would the there would be similar things in place with the DoD. If there is a website for them try searching on LGBTQ.
Good Luck and welcome to Susan's Place.
Hugs,
Laurie
Title: Re: Coming out as a transitioning person as a DoD Civilian
Post by: Mountain Warfare Girl on February 17, 2018, 06:20:10 PM
Post by: Mountain Warfare Girl on February 17, 2018, 06:20:10 PM
I work for the Department of Veterans Affairs and just started my transition. There is a government memorandum that helps with people transitioning as makes a transition team to help you threw it with people from HR and EEO, I just had my first meeting with my team where I came out to my boss