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I tried for the first time today to hide away my disgusting man bits.
I've discovered I am okay with leaving the penis free as I nneed to pee but the testes a need to go.
I've pushed them inside but they just will not stay there.  I tried to tape them in but the tape gets damp from sweat and stuff, loosens and they drop.

I've read about making a gaff but if duck tape doesn't keep them in, what on earth will?

Its not for a tight fitting dress, I just dont want to look down and see them

I do the inguinal canal tuck and tight panties, penis points down wrapped in the scrotum. Once I got the hang of it (or non-hang, as the case may be) it's quick to do and very comfortable. Slight discomfort until my bits got used to hiding away. Any actual pain and you're doing it wrong.

With HRT shrinkage, I seldom worry about it any more.  But sometimes I look in the mirror and it's just, Nope, that's not going to work.  In those cases, I wear firm-control briefs.  The elastic fabric holds the bits out of sight where they belong.  It's not a super-tight tuck, so it's not uncomfortable, but the fabric gives you a natural shape.  Just pull 'em on, tuck the bits in, and you're good to go.

no shrinkage for me yet, fortunately I was never more than the low side of average in that department.

"Disgusting man bits?" Think of them as wonderful woman bits that just need a little attention. Things like HRT and SRS change the body, but they don't make you love yourself. You'd best start that now.

In my experience, you don't have to use elaborate gaff devices. Many of us manage well with things like girls' panties or yoga shorts (I've had luck with these: https://www.ebay.com/itm/Hanes-Girls-Jersey-Short/142683245549?hash=item2138958bed:m:m24To1khIb6UdNZMKdWWk2Q (https://www.ebay.com/itm/Hanes-Girls-Jersey-Short/142683245549?hash=item2138958bed:m:m24To1khIb6UdNZMKdWWk2Q)). Everyone's body is different, of course, so you'll just have to try a few things until you find what works for you. Give it some trial and error. I just try to choose my lower body attire carefully.

Unfortunately I didn't get the amount of shrinkage I would have liked but my tucking is always perfect. I can wear anything, even yoga pants and nothing shows. All I do is shove everything back between my legs and then use tight Lycra panties. Pull the panties up really tight and then stick your hand in them and make sure everything is shoved back well. The oysters automatically retreat up inside you. This has always worked very well for me. There's no tape or anything so when you need to pee you just pull them down and then retuck when you're done. The only time I ever untuck is to use the bathroom or bathe. I will warn you that your oysters wont like being tucked at first and might hurt a little but after you get used to it it's actually very comfortable. Much more comfortable than taping. I use tape for anal sex because I can't leave my panties on and the idea of Tristan seeing or accidentally touching my boy parts absolutely horrifies me. I don't think he would much like it either. But as soon as we are done having sex I can't wait to untape.

One thing is that Lycra panties don't breath so you will want to use a feminine deodorant spray down there every day. If you sweat down there you will have an odor. After being on hrt a while your odors change but even so, use the spray. My brother once told me I smelled like "sweaty pussy " after I had worked out. His friends were over and they had noticed it too. Evidently it's an odor males are very sensitive to. I don't know exactly how you can smell like sweaty pussy when you don't have one yet but it happens, trust me. Use the spray. Lol.

Quote from: Lyric on February 21, 2018, 11:43:22 AM
"Disgusting man bits?" Think of them as wonderful woman bits that just need a little attention. Things like HRT and SRS change the body, but they don't make you love yourself. You'd best start that now.

In my experience, you don't have to use elaborate gaff devices. Many of us manage well with things like girls' panties or yoga shorts (I've had luck with these: https://www.ebay.com/itm/Hanes-Girls-Jersey-Short/142683245549?hash=item2138958bed:m:m24To1khIb6UdNZMKdWWk2Q (https://www.ebay.com/itm/Hanes-Girls-Jersey-Short/142683245549?hash=item2138958bed:m:m24To1khIb6UdNZMKdWWk2Q)). Everyone's body is different, of course, so you'll just have to try a few things until you find what works for you. Give it some trial and error. I just try to choose my lower body attire carefully.

One of the guys I work with calls his a "pussy on a stick". Lol

Quote from: Lyric on February 21, 2018, 11:43:22 AM
"Disgusting man bits?" Think of them as wonderful woman bits that just need a little attention. Things like HRT and SRS change the body, but they don't make you love yourself. You'd best start that now.

In my experience, you don't have to use elaborate gaff devices. Many of us manage well with things like girls' panties or yoga shorts (I've had luck with these: https://www.ebay.com/itm/Hanes-Girls-Jersey-Short/142683245549?hash=item2138958bed:m:m24To1khIb6UdNZMKdWWk2Q (https://www.ebay.com/itm/Hanes-Girls-Jersey-Short/142683245549?hash=item2138958bed:m:m24To1khIb6UdNZMKdWWk2Q)). Everyone's body is different, of course, so you'll just have to try a few things until you find what works for you. Give it some trial and error. I just try to choose my lower body attire carefully.

:)
I do love myself now. That's the thing that made me realise I am trans. You know accepting and loving myself :)

Bit they are still disgusting man bits lol especially the testies. At least the penis lets me pee haha

Quote from: CallMeKatie on February 21, 2018, 02:16:27 PM
:)
I do love myself now. That's the thing that made me realise I am trans. You know accepting and loving myself :)

Bit they are still disgusting man bits lol especially the testies. At least the penis lets me pee haha

I'm on my third months on HRT and I never had any erection since then so I don't need any tucking at all.

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I would love to give you advice but you don't have to tuck Vienna Sausage.