Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Xanderthevampireweeb on March 09, 2018, 09:27:03 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: Xanderthevampireweeb on March 09, 2018, 09:27:03 PM
Post by: Xanderthevampireweeb on March 09, 2018, 09:27:03 PM
I'm looking to start using the men's bathrooms, but im worried I won't pass enough? I have bedhead for days, so sorry about my hair being gross as hell. I'm also thinking of growing it out to get a deathhawk, but im worried I'll either 1. be super dysphoric, or 2. get misgendered all the time, so idk.
https://imgur.com/a/nrA93
https://imgur.com/a/nrA93
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: natalie.ashlyne on March 09, 2018, 09:32:08 PM
Post by: natalie.ashlyne on March 09, 2018, 09:32:08 PM
I totally think you look like a guy 100 percent
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: sweetjohnnylat on March 09, 2018, 09:32:14 PM
Post by: sweetjohnnylat on March 09, 2018, 09:32:14 PM
Quote from: Xanderthevampireweeb on March 09, 2018, 09:27:03 PM
I'm looking to start using the men's bathrooms, but im worried I won't pass enough? I have bedhead for days, so sorry about my hair being gross as hell. I'm also thinking of growing it out to get a deathhawk, but im worried I'll either 1. be super dysphoric, or 2. get misgendered all the time, so idk.
https://imgur.com/a/nrA93
You look fine just act cool.. everything will be ok.
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Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: Julia1996 on March 09, 2018, 09:47:12 PM
Post by: Julia1996 on March 09, 2018, 09:47:12 PM
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on March 09, 2018, 09:32:08 PM
I totally think you look like a guy 100 percent
I agree.
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: Donna on March 09, 2018, 09:49:26 PM
Post by: Donna on March 09, 2018, 09:49:26 PM
I don't think I would look twice seeing you use a men's room. Give it a try, you have nothing to lose. Just be prepared they can be a tad yucky. I don't even like using them.
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: Natsuki Kuga on March 10, 2018, 12:09:18 AM
Post by: Natsuki Kuga on March 10, 2018, 12:09:18 AM
No worries, amigo.
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: CarlyMcx on March 10, 2018, 01:34:07 AM
Post by: CarlyMcx on March 10, 2018, 01:34:07 AM
When I look at your photo I see Anthony Michael Hall in Sixteen Candles. https://goo.gl/images/9ucYWf (https://goo.gl/images/9ucYWf)
Just walk in like you own the place, do your business, wash up, and get back to business. Because that's how guys roll.
Hugs, Carly.
Just walk in like you own the place, do your business, wash up, and get back to business. Because that's how guys roll.
Hugs, Carly.
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: CallMeKatie on March 10, 2018, 05:24:28 AM
Post by: CallMeKatie on March 10, 2018, 05:24:28 AM
Look like a bloke to me
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: Quinn on March 10, 2018, 05:31:30 AM
Post by: Quinn on March 10, 2018, 05:31:30 AM
You look Fine, Guys do not socialize in restrooms. its unusual to make eye contact or have a conversation in a restroom. Walk in do what your there for and walk out.
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: KathyLauren on March 10, 2018, 10:31:51 AM
Post by: KathyLauren on March 10, 2018, 10:31:51 AM
I see 100% guy.
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: JaneinFL on March 10, 2018, 11:33:22 AM
Post by: JaneinFL on March 10, 2018, 11:33:22 AM
Yes!
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: VickyS on March 10, 2018, 12:52:53 PM
Post by: VickyS on March 10, 2018, 12:52:53 PM
Yep. Middle picture especially.
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: CallMeKatie on March 10, 2018, 01:58:58 PM
Post by: CallMeKatie on March 10, 2018, 01:58:58 PM
Quote from: Brie B on March 10, 2018, 05:31:30 AM
You look Fine, Guys do not socialize in restrooms. its unusual to make eye contact or have a conversation in a restroom. Walk in do what your there for and walk out.
OP take this advice. If a guy looks at another guy in the bathroom at all it is awkward.
I assume youll be using the stalls and if you're worried about guys noticing that, they don't even care.
I also want to echo about them being disgusting in general. Loose seats, peed on floors and peed on toilet seats!
I fully recommend carrying some small hygiene wipes to wipe the toilet rim.
Some men are just gross
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: Geeker on March 10, 2018, 02:25:09 PM
Post by: Geeker on March 10, 2018, 02:25:09 PM
If you're aiming for awkward teen then you nailed it! ;D
Also, I second the hygiene wipes.
Also, I second the hygiene wipes.
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: somme_girl on March 15, 2018, 06:11:46 PM
Post by: somme_girl on March 15, 2018, 06:11:46 PM
You pass in the pictures -
voice, height, size, mannerisms, etc all affect how your are percieved though
voice, height, size, mannerisms, etc all affect how your are percieved though
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: mm on March 16, 2018, 11:30:13 AM
Post by: mm on March 16, 2018, 11:30:13 AM
You should have no problem, guy are there to do there business and leave many not even washing their hands. I use a stall all the time and have never had a problem.
Title: Re: Do I pass? (Updated!)
Post by: Natsuki Kuga on March 17, 2018, 01:43:04 AM
Post by: Natsuki Kuga on March 17, 2018, 01:43:04 AM
Quote from: CallMeKatie on March 10, 2018, 01:58:58 PM
OP take this advice. If a guy looks at another guy in the bathroom at all it is awkward.
Word. It's bad enough that I have to look at the darn thing without anyone else using it as a conversation starter.