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Title: Twice!
Post by: MeTony on March 21, 2018, 01:47:42 PM
Twice today I was referred to as him. Yay!

One customer apologized though when he heared me speak. He was very embarassed.

I said it's ok. Maybe I should have said thank you instead? :D why do I always come up with better alternatives in hindsight


Tony

Title: Re: Twice!
Post by: Northern Star Girl on March 21, 2018, 01:52:34 PM
Quote from: MeTony on March 21, 2018, 01:47:42 PM
Twice today I was referred to as him. Yay!

One customer apologized though when he heared me speak. He was very embarassed.

I said it's ok. Maybe I should have said thank you instead? :D why do I always come up with better alternatives in hindsight

Tony

I am happy for you Tony...  the voice thing can many times be the biggest issue to overcome in transitioning.    Oh yeah... perhaps you might want to develop some rehearsed responses when and if that happens to you again.
:) :) :)
Danielle
Title: Re: Twice!
Post by: Jessica on March 21, 2018, 01:58:36 PM
Tony!  This is awesome!

Your good friend, Jess
Title: Re: Twice!
Post by: Alanna1990 on March 21, 2018, 02:06:10 PM
Quote from: MeTony on March 21, 2018, 01:47:42 PM
Twice today I was referred to as him. Yay!

One customer apologized though when he heared me speak. He was very embarassed.

I said it's ok. Maybe I should have said thank you instead? :D why do I always come up with better alternatives in hindsight


Tony

that's great! but why would anybody misgender you? you totally look like a guy
Title: Re: Twice!
Post by: MeTony on March 21, 2018, 11:34:37 PM
Quote from: Alanna1990 on March 21, 2018, 02:06:10 PM
that's great! but why would anybody misgender you? you totally look like a guy

The beard in my pic is photoshopped. :)

Most of the time It's my voice giving me away.

Also, I'm pre op. I have a G-cup. Big moobs. Huge.


Tony