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I want to apologize to the Non-binary community on this site, I just noticed that non-binary was not included in the standard terms and definitions list. I have fixed it but want to give the Non-binary community a chance to raise any issues with the definition I have created, since I am not someone who personally identifies as non-binary.

This is the proposed definition

QuoteNon-Binary: A person whose gender identity is not exclusively masculine or feminine‍. A Non-Binary person may express a combination of masculinity and femininity, or neither, in their day to day gender expression. This is sometimes also known as Genderqueer.

Please let me know if anyone sees any issues with it.

Susan, as you've used Non-binary and Genderqueer in the same definition, and as I too don't identify with either of these, can I extend on your original enquiry and also ask if there is a practical difference between the two, or just preference?

I've been asked this question myself and haven't been able to answer.

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Hello Susan,

Minor typo = .... gender identity us not ....

Should be =  .... gender identity is not ....

Thanks for the site; have found it to be extremely helpful and enjoyable,

Christine

"whose"  :)

I think the definition is fair enough.

Hugs, Devlyn

Quote from: Megan. on March 30, 2018, 10:35:08 AM
Susan, as you've used Non-binary and Genderqueer in the same definition, and as I too don't identify with either of these, can I extend on your original enquiry and also ask if there is a practical difference between the two, or just preference?

I've been asked this question myself and haven't been able to answer.

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My guess is some non-binary people may have issues with the use of the word queer to identify their Gender identity, and prefer non-binary, as it removes any possible connotations of their Gender Identity with Sexual Identity, which are two different things totally.

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gen·der·queer
ˈjendərˌkwir/
adjective
adjective: genderqueer; adjective: gender-queer

    1.
    denoting or relating to a person who does not subscribe to conventional gender distinctions but identifies with neither, both, or a combination of male and female genders.
    "the genderqueer community"

noun
noun: genderqueer; plural noun: genderqueers; noun: gender-queer; plural noun: gender-queers

    1.
    a person who does not subscribe to conventional gender distinctions but identifies with neither, both, or a combination of male and female genders.
    "a younger generation of self-proclaimed genderqueers explicitly reject 'transgender' as an identifier"

But based off the dictionary definitions they are essentially the same thing.

Tnx Susan [emoji4]

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It's fine with me....basically  how I feel so far
Thx 😊

To include gender fluid transgender people, I might add the highlighted.  I can identify as either gender exclusively or a combination of the two.  This isn't really NB though.  Where do I fit?  Do I fit?

Non-Binary: A person whose gender identity is not exclusively masculine or feminine‍. A Non-Binary person may express a combination of masculinity and femininity, or neither, or either in their day to day gender expression. This is sometimes also known as Genderqueer.

The non-binary community has used several terms to describe how they feel. Gender Fluid is what I have heard most often and to be perfectly honest, just a few years ago I was totally unaware of people who identify as such.

I feel no need to apologize for my ignorance as I am always open to new understandings of how we describe ourselves. 

Quote from: Dani on April 08, 2018, 05:51:22 AM
The non-binary community has used several terms to describe how they feel. Gender Fluid is what I have heard most often and to be perfectly honest, just a few years ago I was totally unaware of people who identify as such.

I feel no need to apologize for my ignorance as I am always open to new understandings of how we describe ourselves.

After reading how NB is described. I don't feel it represents Gender fluid.  Non binary does not explain how I can feel like a woman, since it doesn't include the far ends of the spectrum, only the mix of both.
So yes, I'm still questioning do I belong here.
Gender Fluid transgendered people don't seem to be given a place to be who they are.  I get the impression sometimes that we are marginalized by those who feel we aren't valid.

Quote from: Jessica on April 09, 2018, 10:17:46 AM
After reading how NB is described. I don't feel it represents Gender fluid.  Non binary does not explain how I can feel like a woman, since it doesn't include the far ends of the spectrum, only the mix of both.
So yes, I'm still questioning do I belong here.
Gender Fluid transgendered people don't seem to be given a place to be who they are.  I get the impression sometimes that we are marginalized by those who feel we aren't valid.

It does happen sometimes. The same arguments that are used against transgender people are directed at the non-binary and genderfluid segment of the community. Quite frankly, when someone is blinded by their own hypocrisy I pay them no nevermind.  :)

Hugs, Devlyn

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on April 09, 2018, 10:55:42 AM
It does happen sometimes. The same arguments that are used against transgender people are directed at the non-binary and genderfluid segment of the community. Quite frankly, when someone is blinded by their own hypocrisy I pay them no nevermind.  :)

Hugs, Devlyn

Devlyn, thank you.  If there was anyone that would understand what I was saying, it would be you.

From the description of this board, "A place for those who identify as any non-binary identity." So if you don't identify as strictly male, or strictly female this is a place for you. That includes Genderfluid.

I agree that the either is necessary because presentation and how we feel can differ.  By doing so you are also now taking into account those who are bi-gender too.

Quote from: Jessica on April 07, 2018, 11:47:27 AM
To include gender fluid transgender people, I might add the highlighted.  I can identify as either gender exclusively or a combination of the two.  This isn't really NB though.  Where do I fit?  Do I fit?

Non-Binary: A person whose gender identity is not exclusively masculine or feminine‍. A Non-Binary person may express a combination of masculinity and femininity, or neither, or either in their day to day gender expression. This is sometimes also known as Genderqueer.

That is already in there as it is covered by "may express a combination of masculinity and femininity"