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Title: How many weeks post op did you successfully have penetrative sex?
Post by: ashw on April 10, 2018, 11:59:12 PM
Post by: ashw on April 10, 2018, 11:59:12 PM
It's been a month for me so far and I haven't had any sexual encounters yet. Still kinda swollen and uncomfortable,
How many weeks did it take for you ladies to have your first penetrative sex? Also, is anal safe after surgery?
How many weeks did it take for you ladies to have your first penetrative sex? Also, is anal safe after surgery?
Title: Re: How many weeks post op did you successfully have penetrative sex?
Post by: Dena on April 11, 2018, 12:10:53 AM
Post by: Dena on April 11, 2018, 12:10:53 AM
The rule of thumb is about 3 months however this can greatly vary. The only way to be sure is to have an internal examination to ensure everything has properly healed. The most common problem is granulation/proud flesh. This can easily be treated in the office but you shouldn't have sex if you have it. I had it and it only required a couple of treatments to clear up. I know of somebody who had complications and needed about a year to get it under control. Check with your doctors and possibly you can get a referral to somebody who can do the exam.
Title: Re: How many weeks post op did you successfully have penetrative sex?
Post by: Kendra on April 11, 2018, 01:00:21 AM
Post by: Kendra on April 11, 2018, 01:00:21 AM
My GCS surgeon said 3 months minimum for vaginal or anal penetrative sex if there are no complications.
Title: Re: How many weeks post op did you successfully have penetrative sex?
Post by: stephaniec on April 11, 2018, 01:45:46 AM
Post by: stephaniec on April 11, 2018, 01:45:46 AM
I told my therapist 3 months and she made a funny face
Title: Re: How many weeks post op did you successfully have penetrative sex?
Post by: SadieBlake on April 11, 2018, 04:54:24 PM
Post by: SadieBlake on April 11, 2018, 04:54:24 PM
Almost exactly 3 months. However I took dilation to be an opportunity for pleasuring myself from as soon as major pain had passed, it made dilation easier, relaxing PC muscles etc. While things are still settling into place, my first penetrative sex with GF was nice and has continued to improve. While I definitely enjoy penetration, now it's not often the main event :-).
I finally feel most everything is settled in, I now know how to get myself sufficiently aroused that I want to and can rub my clit quite furiously :-).
I finally feel most everything is settled in, I now know how to get myself sufficiently aroused that I want to and can rub my clit quite furiously :-).
Title: Re: How many weeks post op did you successfully have penetrative sex?
Post by: big kim on April 11, 2018, 04:57:11 PM
Post by: big kim on April 11, 2018, 04:57:11 PM
286 weeks!
Title: Re: How many weeks post op did you successfully have penetrative sex?
Post by: Gail20 on April 15, 2018, 12:58:04 PM
Post by: Gail20 on April 15, 2018, 12:58:04 PM
3 months exactly. Was with my GF. She used a silicone toy. She tried to go a bit to hard and fast but needed to be more gentle. Clit was the main event then. Since then penetration has become a much more erotic part. . .
Title: Re: How many weeks post op did you successfully have penetrative sex?
Post by: Devlyn on April 15, 2018, 05:33:25 PM
Post by: Devlyn on April 15, 2018, 05:33:25 PM
Quote from: big kim on April 11, 2018, 04:57:11 PM
286 weeks!
286 divided by 52...<mumbling>....carry the naught...<stammering>...plus leap year.....<counting on fingers>....was it last night? :laugh:
Title: Re: How many weeks post op did you successfully have penetrative sex?
Post by: ashw on April 24, 2018, 07:15:09 PM
Post by: ashw on April 24, 2018, 07:15:09 PM
Quote from: big kim on April 11, 2018, 04:57:11 PM
286 weeks!
Playing it safe, I see ;D
I'd probably hold off for 286 weeks too given the nasty hook up culture among college students these days. I need plenty of dilating before I'm ready for that ...