Susan's Place Transgender Resources

Hi all,  I'm Pam.  I said I guess it's never too late because I'm 20 years post op and over that time I've slipped away from the community.  I feel a need to come back even though I've been away so long.

I just posted yesterday about having some current challenges when people "look" at me and lo and behold I got "sir'd" today.  Most of the time I pass but I think my voice did it today.  (Curse the dreaded voice!)

After 20+ years you'd think these things would not be an issue anymore (as they obviously aren't for some lucky folks) but I figured I might as well be honest; it's where I'm at today on this fascinating trip.  Some days are better than others, ya know?

I'm also married (divorced after I came out/remarried to a guy) and now retired.  One of these days I'll post an avatar of myself (after restrictions lifted).

Meanwhile I'll just browse and chime in if I think I can contribute.  Glad you all are here.  Good luck on your journeys.

Hello Pam,  I enjoyed reading your informative and interesting introduction post.  I am happy that you joined us and are now posting.

I see that @Jessica already sent you a Welcome Message today on "That Smirk" thread that you posted on.  Thank you for joining Susan's Place...  I see that you are new here and may have questions and concerns, this is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances. 
Be aware that there are lots of members here that can identify with the issues that you brought up in your introduction posting. 

You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others about your transition and to read about others transitions and their trials, tribulations, and successes in their transition journey. 
It is nice that you have signed up so you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other members.
When frustrated or if you have a successful moment in your journey you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....

***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here. 

Please come in and get involved at your own pace.  Be very sure to look at the Links that @Jessica posted, there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.
Again, Welcome.
Danielle

 Hi Pam,

  I'm Laurie. Welcome to Susan's. I thought you were going to be talking about age related transition. You know like in us older folk who didn't know enough to transition at a younger age. Yep that would be me because I didn't know what ailed me was my need to transition until I was 64.
  I like your "never too late" better than mine. Come on in girl and get comfy. I'm sorry you got sir'ed after so long. Voice can definitely be a pesky giveaway can't it? I have had some lessons but haven't really put what I learned into daily practice.
  Well anyway Pam, I'm glad you are here and I'm sure your insights can help others and perhap you can find what you need here.

Hugs,
  Laurie

Hi Pam  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

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