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Hi Gals!

My first post. Be gentle please.. ☺️

I have been a long term cross dresser and a true tg at heart.

Since the beginning of the year, I finally bought myself the first dildo and that's the first anal play I had. But that was a painful experience. I was looking for lube and came across vagina cream. I hence bought them and found it just fine if the "job" and the fact that it is a estrogen based cream give me that extra kick...

Almost 5 months in... I find lately I am having a hard time to get an erection and my ejeculation is like watery.. and I start to get worried since last week I tried numorous time but can't really maintain an half erection to achieve a orgasam. Other than that I don't realised much of a changes in my body other than I do feel my nipples are hard and sensitive all time.. plus I get a little emotional at time. That's all.

I read, the vaginal cream are suppose to be NON effective for tg.

Kinda worried.

Not consulted a doc yet cause I am not really to go full time tg.

Really appreciate all your kind feedbacks.

Love,
Belinda


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Hi Belinda,

Welcome to the Forum.

I would very strongly advise not to use such creams and potions. I would stop using them straight away.

Modern bioidentical hormonal reassignment under medical supervision and with the help of a good therapist is the way to go.

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Quote from: BelindaA on June 06, 2018, 03:55:25 AM

I read, the vaginal cream are suppose to be NON effective for tg.

Kinda worried.

Not consulted a doc yet cause I am not really to go full time tg.

Premarin Vaginal Cream is very effective in restoring Estrogen blood levels when used as directed. Since you are using this as a anal lubricant, you will still get some absorption of Estrogens into your blood system. Estrogen blood levels have a tendency to decrease your own Testosterone production.

The increase in Estrogens are responsible for your decreased libido and thin ejaculate.  This is a well known side effect of Estrogens and if you stop using the Premarin Vaginal Cream your Testosterone production should return to normal.

One positive note from your experience is that you now know what a more female libido is like. If full transition is in your future, you can judge whether the loss of libido is acceptable in order to live as female.

If you need an anal lubricant, I suggest KY Jelly or even petroleum jelly.

Quote from: BelindaA on June 06, 2018, 03:55:25 AM
I read, the vaginal cream are suppose to be NON effective for tg.

Its not that it won't work, but its not safe or effective as modern forms of HRT. You definitely should not use it.

Actually no one should be using it, but when you have a billion dollar business what corporation wants to give that up for the greater good.

Premarin contains horse estrogens, not human estrogens. Its named Premarin because its made from pregnant mare urine.

Quote from: AnonyMs on June 06, 2018, 06:02:56 AM
Its not that it won't work, but its not safe or effective as modern forms of HRT. You definitely should not use it.

Actually no one should be using it, but when you have a billion dollar business what corporation wants to give that up for the greater good.

Premarin contains horse estrogens, not human estrogens. Its named Premarin because its made from pregnant mare urine.

Premarin is still approved for use in the US.

As with all medications, you must compare the risks and benefits to see if they are acceptable.

Years ago, Premarin was all we had. We now have better, safer choices for HRT.

Quote from: Dani on June 06, 2018, 06:08:00 AM
Premarin is still approved for use in the US.

Yes, still a billion dollar business.

I found Premarin from quarter horses improved my running time on the track.

Just kidding... my endocrinologist prescribed an estradiol patch and that's all I have ever used.  In many countries this type of prescription is routinely covered by health insurance after talking things over with a gender therapist.

Quote from: BelindaA on June 06, 2018, 03:55:25 AM
Hi Gals!

My first post. Be gentle please.. ☺️

I have been a long term cross dresser and a true tg at heart.

Since the beginning of the year, I finally bought myself the first dildo and that's the first anal play I had. But that was a painful experience. I was looking for lube and came across vagina cream. I hence bought them and found it just fine if the "job" and the fact that it is a estrogen based cream give me that extra kick...

Almost 5 months in... I find lately I am having a hard time to get an erection and my ejeculation is like watery.. and I start to get worried since last week I tried numorous time but can't really maintain an half erection to achieve a orgasam. Other than that I don't realised much of a changes in my body other than I do feel my nipples are hard and sensitive all time.. plus I get a little emotional at time. That's all.

I read, the vaginal cream are suppose to be NON effective for tg.

Kinda worried.

Not consulted a doc yet cause I am not really to go full time tg.

Really appreciate all your kind feedbacks.

Love,
Belinda


* dear Modrator if my post happen to be too blunt, please kindly take this down.. I am sorry*

@BelindaA
Hello Belinda,   Thank you for writing your very first post here on the Forums with not only your questions but also interesting details about your life.   We are so glad that you found your way here to Susan's Place.
It is great to see that you have taken the step to become a member of Susan's Place and that you have shared your  posting with us.   

Obviously you stated that have questions and concerns, this is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances. 
 
Be aware that there are lots of members here that can identify with what you may be going through.

***I see that @Cindy has already officially welcomed you,
... but please allow me to also WELCOME you to Susan's Place.  You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others  and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
It is nice that you had signed up so you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other members.
When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....

***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here. 

Please come in and get involved at your own pace. 

At the end of the Welcome Message that  @Cindy sent to you she included Important LINKS that will tell you about Susan's Place.  Included there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.... please be certain to look them over.
Again, Welcome.
Danielle

@BelindaA
Oh, by the way Belinda... so that the other members here on the Forums will know that you have become a member of Susan's Place please go to
the Introductions Forum (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,8.0.html) to introduce yourself and to briefly tell the other members here about yourself!   You will then have a better chance of getting the answers that you are looking for regarding your specific interests and you will be able to share with others as they share their experiences with you once they know that you have arrived.

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place,
Danielle