Susan's Place Transgender Resources

Hi everyone! I've never done a summary like this before, so bear with me! I'm 15 and while my birth gender is female, I'm not sure if that's true anymore. While I enjoy "boy things" I like some of the perks of being a girl. I like to wear guy clothes, but I like to wear some girl clothes if it's not too girly. I like getting dirty, watching things explode, shoot em up games, but I like the color pink, being the only daughter, and looking at cute things. I'm not sure if I'm transgender, genderfuild, or if I'm just a tomboy! I'm think I'm straight, but I still find myself staring at girls, so  my sexuality is in question too. I prefer female pronouns, but sometimes I use they/them too. Thank you for reading and welcoming me.

Quote from: SallyChoasAura on July 22, 2018, 09:12:00 AM
Hi everyone! I've never done a summary like this before, so bear with me! I'm 15 and while my birth gender is female, I'm not sure if that's true anymore. While I enjoy "boy things" I like some of the perks of being a girl. I like to wear guy clothes, but I like to wear some girl clothes if it's not too girly. I like getting dirty, watching things explode, shoot em up games, but I like the color pink, being the only daughter, and looking at cute things. I'm not sure if I'm transgender, genderfuild, or if I'm just a tomboy! I'm think I'm straight, but I still find myself staring at girls, so  my sexuality is in question too. I prefer female pronouns, but sometimes I use they/them too. Thank you for reading and welcoming me.

@SallyChoasAura
Hello SallyChoasAura,  I am not trying to hijack your very first thread and post...
... but first things first,  since your are brand new here I am going to give you a warm welcome.. 
Thank you for coming to the Forums.

I am glad that you have taken the step to become a member of Susan's Place and that you have shared your  thoughts with other members that may read your posting.
I am thinking that you may lots more questions and concerns, this is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances.
 
Be aware that there are a lot of members here that can identify with what you may be going through.

WELCOME to Susan's Place.  You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others  and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
It is nice that you had signed up so you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other members.
When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....

***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here. 

Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace. 

Below I have included Important LINKS that will tell you about Susan's Place.  Included there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.   
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, there are answers to many questions that new members ask... .... please read them over..
Again, Welcome.
Danielle

Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that all new members should be familiar with:

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You sound like a  normal healthy teenager, SallyChoasAura. Society puts so much pressure on us; try not to let yourself obsess over questions like these and just enjoy being who you are.

Love, Virginia

@SallyChoasAura   One other thing I need to tell you, since you are one of our younger members ...
you might also want to go to and get involved in the  "Youth Talk Forums" (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,496.0.html) here on Susan's Place.   

There you will find other young member about your age that you can share you similar thoughts and stories with. 
Please explore all the Forum topics available here and feel free, as you are comfortable doing, to get involved as much as you want... post new topics that are of specific interest to you and start your own conversations with other like-minded members here.

Please enjoy your time here on Susan's Place.
Wishing you well, and again, Welcome to Susan's Place
Danielle 

Thanks for the warm welcome everyone! Sorry for responding late. I was at church lol. I do hope to make some more friends!

Hi Sally  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M

Thanks! I can't wait to make friends!

Welcome!

Youth is a crazy era in your life. Hormones exploding and the pressure from society to be someone and to be successful.

Just take it easy, there is no rush. The important thing is to find yourself, who you are, not what others think you are.

Take your time and explore yourself and learn who you are.


Tony

Welcome. Take your time in figuring out who you are. But might as well make some friends on the way! True friends will accept you for who you are. Keep that in mind.

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Aw~ Thanx everyone~☺

Hi Sally 🙋‍♀️ Welcome to Susan's Place! 
I'm glad you have found a place like this!
It's a wonderful way to gain information, perspectives and ideas from the many experiences of the other members.


Good luck, Jessica 💁‍♀️