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Title: New to Susan's Place
Post by: Jasminex69 on September 27, 2018, 11:21:43 AM
Hello all

My name is Jasmine and I'll have to first admit that I've been lurking around Susan's Place for awhile but finally joined the site.   I'm 47 and been CD'ing for the last 20 years and I have so much more to learn.  I just love all the positive vibes that surrounds this site and I can't wait to meet some new friends. 

Jasmine
Fresno Ca.
Title: Re: New to Susan's Place
Post by: Northern Star Girl on September 27, 2018, 11:35:24 AM
Quote from: Jasminex69 on September 27, 2018, 11:21:43 AM
Hello all

My name is Jasmine and I'll have to first admit that I've been lurking around Susan's Place for awhile but finally joined the site.   I'm 47 and been CD'ing for the last 20 years and I have so much more to learn.  I just love all the positive vibes that surrounds this site and I can't wait to meet some new friends. 

Jasmine
Fresno Ca.

@Jasminex69   
Dear Jasmine:
Thank you for sharing your thoughts here.... and writing your brief introduction posting...

The good news is that because of your posting many of our members are now aware of your arrival here and you can be expecting them to share their thoughts with you relevant to you questions and concerns.

This is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances.
Be aware that there are a lot of members here that can identify with your situation as you feel free to share it.

Please allow me to warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others  and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
It is nice that you had signed up so you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here. 

Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.

Included there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.   
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask.

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle


Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that all new members should be familiar with:

Things that you should read


Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
Standard Terms & Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
Cautionary Note (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,82221.0.html)
Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html)
News posting & quoting guidelines (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,174951.0.html)
Photo, avatars, & signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866)
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Title: Re: New to Susan's Place
Post by: Jasminex69 on September 27, 2018, 11:45:59 AM
Thanks for the warm welcome Danielle.

Jas
Title: Re: New to Susan's Place
Post by: V M on September 27, 2018, 12:58:56 PM
Hi Jasmine  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's Place  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M
Title: Re: New to Susan's Place
Post by: Anita43 on September 28, 2018, 12:59:28 AM
Quote from: Jasminex69 on September 27, 2018, 11:21:43 AM
Hello all

My name is Jasmine and I'll have to first admit that I've been lurking around Susan's Place for awhile but finally joined the site.   I'm 47 and been CD'ing for the last 20 years and I have so much more to learn.  I just love all the positive vibes that surrounds this site and I can't wait to meet some new friends. 

Jasmine
Fresno Ca.

Hi Jasmine! :) I bet I could learn a lot from you! I have so much to learn...... mostly, I just wanted to say hi, and I love your name, and I can prove it because my beautiful weimaraner is named Jasmine too! :)

Title: Re: New to Susan's Place
Post by: Jessica on September 28, 2018, 09:46:20 AM
Hi Jasmine, Welcome to Susan's Place, I'm Jessica!
I'm happy you have found it out of the "readers zone"!  It's so much easier to get all the support from the membership here.  We are a friendly group and love making new acquaintances.

Hugs and smiles from another California girl
Title: Re: New to Susan's Place
Post by: Jasminex69 on September 28, 2018, 10:54:36 AM
Thanks for all the warm welcomes, it's really nice to be in a place where you can be yourself. Anita43, I love weimaraner's.  I have a 4 yr old Chocolate Lab named Lola and she used to play with a weimaraner while we lived in Portland.  They are beautiful dogs.

Jas
Title: Re: New to Susan's Place
Post by: Anita43 on September 28, 2018, 02:37:12 PM
awww, Lola is a great name for a dog :)

AS far as a place for being yourself... I've made massive strides in a very short amount of time towards achieving that in my real life... the remainder of the way will probably be quite awhile though, however, you never know I suppose. A month ago I had a goal to actually go "out" in a skirt. My goal was to do that on New Years Eve. Well, one day after dark I brought Jasmine outside, and I was to lazy to take off the skirt and change. It was such a great night, I just said... "f it, I'm going for a walk", and off Jasmine and I went. I was so happy and excited to be out walking my dog with my skirt and new faux leather/fur boots :) I even stopped and spoke with several people, and I only felt slightly nervous.... getting closer and closer to being completely myself :) I'm so glad that you have found a place wehre you can be  yourself Jasmine... well, you know, all of us can. It is an amazing thing after 4 decades, that feeling of freedom of being yourself. It seems so simple... my mind wanders easily and I write the same way lol sorry ....

:)

Anita
Title: Re: New to Susan's Place
Post by: Carolina on September 29, 2018, 10:40:10 PM
Hi Jasmine.

  Welcome to Susan's.  I'm also a (quite closeted) cd, albeit somewhat more mature than you.  I'm happy that after a lurking for awhile, you've become comfortable enough to slip out of your closet while you're with us.  Good for you.  Its a fairly large emotional step. 

  So I'll look forward to seeing your responses on various issues and I'll try to notice when you start threads that I feel able to add to.  We're happy to have your company.

      Caroline
Title: Re: New to Susan's Place
Post by: Alice V on September 30, 2018, 03:31:26 AM
Hey Jasmine!

You're definitely right, people here so kind and supportive that it can make you cry. I actually did it few times since my first day here lol :D Welcome here, enjoy the athmosphere :)