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Title: Post Op troubles
Post by: EveDesai on September 30, 2018, 09:05:27 PM
Hi my name is Eve

I wanted to ask if there is anyone out there that can help me with my problem.

I had my surgery last year from DR barssard. I followed all the instructions giving to me for post-op care. Yet my depth has gone down in my cavity and I feel no pleasure from my clitoris. I just feel pain when I try to touch my clitoris.

I sent email messages to my surgeon for advice and help, but I kept on getting shrugged off.
I have started to question if there is any point to living.


Title: Re: Post Op troubles
Post by: Gabrielle66 on September 30, 2018, 09:19:41 PM
Oh Eve,

I'm sorry to hear about your post op setbacks. Sweetheart there is always a reason to live. Please don't give up on your life. You will not have another chance. Contact a GP if you are unable to reach your surgeon. Maybe the pain is from some kind of infection. Just please don't throw away your opportunity at life. It's just too precious. I'm praying for you Eve. Love and faith.

Gabrielle
Title: Re: Post Op troubles
Post by: Complete on September 30, 2018, 09:32:36 PM
I am not sure what you mean by being "shrugged off". Have you tried scheduling a follow up appointment wit Dr. Brassard?  It seems like a reasonable request .
Title: Re: Post Op troubles
Post by: EveDesai on October 02, 2018, 05:23:29 AM
I did ask for a follow-up, I answered the questions they asked me and send them the response and i have yet to get someone to ask me for a date we can meet at.
Title: Re: Post Op troubles
Post by: Complete on October 02, 2018, 10:35:54 AM
This does not seem right. One year follow up consultations are pretty routine.
Title: Re: Post Op troubles
Post by: Sofie L on October 06, 2018, 05:33:04 PM
Try phoning their office, as opposed to emails. I find that I've gotten much better service on the phone. They are terrible for replying to emails in a timely manner. And demand a consult. They'll charge you for it, probably, but that's a small price to pay for getting the answers that you want. Don't give up.