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Title: Over Five Years Transitioning
Post by: yaykat89 on November 19, 2018, 08:21:58 PM
Post by: yaykat89 on November 19, 2018, 08:21:58 PM
Hello Everyone,
I've lurked through this forum for over 12 years now from time to time.
I'm Katherine, I'm 28 and I started transitioning when I was 22. I currently work in commercial real estate finance and I'm proud to say I've grown my career as woman, albeit a trans woman and I'm proud of what I've accomplished.
Prior to transitioning I was in the drag scene and had been out as gay since I was 14, though I oddly never had sex as a boy. Regardless, drag was a huge gateway to giving me the confidence to transition.
When I was pretty early on in my journey I was an escort, and also had a relatively popular Youtube, and was part of a collaboration channel as well. I only escorted for a minute because it wasn't for me, and I'm not emotionally equipped to be a top tier escort. So I returned to mortgage and worked in there until this last summer where I made the change to commercial construction lending.
I had my GRS a few years ago and that solved a lot for me. I definitely feel much better in my body. I'm currently feeling great being single and enjoying my time, I've been in several relationships and they all taught me things of what I should seek in the man that is right for me.
Transitioning really saved my life tbh. I'm just this confident, strong being now. I'm very open about my identity and I love just being myself. I never had any doubts during my transition, yes, there were awful times, however I love who I am now, and those experiences made me one strong woman.
Here's a pic from this evening just feeling cute after work. :)
If you have any questions, I'm an open book. I wish the best for you all.
(https://i.imgur.com/avwKZNr.jpg)
I've lurked through this forum for over 12 years now from time to time.
I'm Katherine, I'm 28 and I started transitioning when I was 22. I currently work in commercial real estate finance and I'm proud to say I've grown my career as woman, albeit a trans woman and I'm proud of what I've accomplished.
Prior to transitioning I was in the drag scene and had been out as gay since I was 14, though I oddly never had sex as a boy. Regardless, drag was a huge gateway to giving me the confidence to transition.
When I was pretty early on in my journey I was an escort, and also had a relatively popular Youtube, and was part of a collaboration channel as well. I only escorted for a minute because it wasn't for me, and I'm not emotionally equipped to be a top tier escort. So I returned to mortgage and worked in there until this last summer where I made the change to commercial construction lending.
I had my GRS a few years ago and that solved a lot for me. I definitely feel much better in my body. I'm currently feeling great being single and enjoying my time, I've been in several relationships and they all taught me things of what I should seek in the man that is right for me.
Transitioning really saved my life tbh. I'm just this confident, strong being now. I'm very open about my identity and I love just being myself. I never had any doubts during my transition, yes, there were awful times, however I love who I am now, and those experiences made me one strong woman.
Here's a pic from this evening just feeling cute after work. :)
If you have any questions, I'm an open book. I wish the best for you all.
(https://i.imgur.com/avwKZNr.jpg)
Title: Re: Over Five Years Transitioning
Post by: Northern Star Girl on November 19, 2018, 10:36:46 PM
Post by: Northern Star Girl on November 19, 2018, 10:36:46 PM
@yaykat89
Dear Katherine:
WOW... 12 years of lurking and checking out the forums. Now that you have come out of the LURKER ZONE you can have TWO WAY give and take sharing of your thoughts with other members here.
I see that you just signed up as a brand new member of Susan's Place and that this is your very first posting. Thank you for telling us about yourself.
I am most pleased that you had decided to join Susan's Place and thank you for writing and telling us about yourself here on the Introductions Forum,
By now you know that this is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation as you continue to feel free to share it.
Please allow me to warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place.
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members. When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here.
Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.
I have included information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask.
Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle
Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that all new members should be familiar with:
Dear Katherine:
WOW... 12 years of lurking and checking out the forums. Now that you have come out of the LURKER ZONE you can have TWO WAY give and take sharing of your thoughts with other members here.
I see that you just signed up as a brand new member of Susan's Place and that this is your very first posting. Thank you for telling us about yourself.
I am most pleased that you had decided to join Susan's Place and thank you for writing and telling us about yourself here on the Introductions Forum,
By now you know that this is the right place for you to be to find out what others may have to say that may have been in your circumstances and with your questions and concerns.
There are a lot of members here that will be able to identify with your situation as you continue to feel free to share it.
Please allow me to warmly WELCOME you to Susan's Place.
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
As you are certainly aware you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other like-minded members. When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....
***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here.
Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace.
I have included information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask.
Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle
Here are some links to the site rules and stuff that all new members should be familiar with:
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Title: Re: Over Five Years Transitioning
Post by: V M on November 19, 2018, 11:18:15 PM
Post by: V M on November 19, 2018, 11:18:15 PM
Hi Katherine :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's Place :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Welcome to Susan's Place :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Hugs
V M
Title: Re: Over Five Years Transitioning
Post by: Janes Groove on November 19, 2018, 11:23:21 PM
Post by: Janes Groove on November 19, 2018, 11:23:21 PM
Welcome to the site yaykat89 and congratulations on 5 years of transition.
Title: Re: Over Five Years Transitioning
Post by: Charlie Nicki on November 20, 2018, 09:11:33 AM
Post by: Charlie Nicki on November 20, 2018, 09:11:33 AM
Beautiful girl! Welcome!
Title: Re: Over Five Years Transitioning
Post by: ChrissyRyan on November 20, 2018, 10:20:09 AM
Post by: ChrissyRyan on November 20, 2018, 10:20:09 AM
Welcome Katherine!
Chrissy
Chrissy