Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Zoey421 on December 22, 2018, 12:22:39 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Fantasies
Post by: Zoey421 on December 22, 2018, 12:22:39 PM
Post by: Zoey421 on December 22, 2018, 12:22:39 PM
I hope this is appropriate.
One of the signs that led me to come out MtF was recognizing my fantasies during self-pleasure is focused on the desire to be a girl, a woman who is in the submissive role. These fantasies are still present even more so that I have accepted my feminine side.
I learned that as a male it was important to pleasure a woman during sex, to ensure the experience was satisfying for her, not just for me. I understood both people have to enjoy the experience. Getting to climax was always difficult for me and sometimes I would never climax at all. That was frustrating. I fantasize that I am the woman now who is pleasured by either a man or a woman. I am not attracted to men but still would like to feel how to be treated as a woman during sex.
What are the types of experiences others have fantasized about? Are my fantasies unusual?
Curious ... Zoey
One of the signs that led me to come out MtF was recognizing my fantasies during self-pleasure is focused on the desire to be a girl, a woman who is in the submissive role. These fantasies are still present even more so that I have accepted my feminine side.
I learned that as a male it was important to pleasure a woman during sex, to ensure the experience was satisfying for her, not just for me. I understood both people have to enjoy the experience. Getting to climax was always difficult for me and sometimes I would never climax at all. That was frustrating. I fantasize that I am the woman now who is pleasured by either a man or a woman. I am not attracted to men but still would like to feel how to be treated as a woman during sex.
What are the types of experiences others have fantasized about? Are my fantasies unusual?
Curious ... Zoey