Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: SailorMars1994 on February 03, 2019, 02:17:30 PM Return to Full Version
Title: 2019!! My oh my this is it!
Post by: SailorMars1994 on February 03, 2019, 02:17:30 PM
Post by: SailorMars1994 on February 03, 2019, 02:17:30 PM
I just realized I haven't been on it posted anything in a while. So I figured I would do an update. So far 2019 has been the best year yet lol. Surgery is around the corner in a few months out. I made a lot of life changing thing this year already. And truth be told I was strongly inspired to do so after reading the bio stories of a fantastic woman who died back in 2001. Her name was Deora. Anyways after reading on her I knew I had to make life changes. I moved back into the city proper and started to volunteer. I'm being registered to be a big sister for big brothers big sisters and am getting some volunteer hours at animal shelter.
After a falling out at work I decided it was time to leave there too and on Friday I got a new job where I am going to keep a 40 hour work week and due to my last experience after training and if I keep doing well my newbkss said there will be a stop open for me for a management position (new store I may add). So in a nut shell I'm paying less for rent, going to be making more money and finally stopped putting off community work and am now involved.
Dysphoira? Well it's still kinda there between my times where I need to shave but it's not as bad as it was. I am still uncomfortable with whatever stubble may pop up at some time and also not happy with current formation of gentials but I am much better at not being stuck there and relaxing I only have to deal with these things here and ther. Infact unless it's shaving or I'm naked I don't even realize those things exist. I look in mirror and see me. My dysphoira has gone down I am able to sleep 8 hour nights and have done so basically everyday this year.
In short, I'm not sure the last time a year has been so good to me but im loving every moment of life these days! Hope you're all doing well too!!!!
After a falling out at work I decided it was time to leave there too and on Friday I got a new job where I am going to keep a 40 hour work week and due to my last experience after training and if I keep doing well my newbkss said there will be a stop open for me for a management position (new store I may add). So in a nut shell I'm paying less for rent, going to be making more money and finally stopped putting off community work and am now involved.
Dysphoira? Well it's still kinda there between my times where I need to shave but it's not as bad as it was. I am still uncomfortable with whatever stubble may pop up at some time and also not happy with current formation of gentials but I am much better at not being stuck there and relaxing I only have to deal with these things here and ther. Infact unless it's shaving or I'm naked I don't even realize those things exist. I look in mirror and see me. My dysphoira has gone down I am able to sleep 8 hour nights and have done so basically everyday this year.
In short, I'm not sure the last time a year has been so good to me but im loving every moment of life these days! Hope you're all doing well too!!!!
Title: Re: 2019!! My oh my this is it!
Post by: Northern Star Girl on February 03, 2019, 02:27:44 PM
Post by: Northern Star Girl on February 03, 2019, 02:27:44 PM
@SailorMars1994
It is wonderful to read your good report regarding you transition life events last year in 2018 !!!
Do know that the best is yet to come.
I will eagerly looking for your future updates about the things that you feel comfortable sharing with your followers!!
Wishing you well
HUGS AND MORE HUGS
Danielle
It is wonderful to read your good report regarding you transition life events last year in 2018 !!!
Do know that the best is yet to come.
I will eagerly looking for your future updates about the things that you feel comfortable sharing with your followers!!
Wishing you well
HUGS AND MORE HUGS
Danielle
Title: Re: 2019!! My oh my this is it!
Post by: Michelle_P on February 03, 2019, 04:43:14 PM
Post by: Michelle_P on February 03, 2019, 04:43:14 PM
@SailorMars1994
I am so happy to read this update. You've come such a long way, and it really is wonderful to read all the news. Best year yet! And, may you have many, many more!
We are all cheering for you on both the career and medical fronts. It's good to see that the dysphoria is under control, and you are sleeping well. And both volunteering at the animal shelter, and Big Brothers/Big Sisters! Wow!
You are living your life! Fully and authentically, even!
Congratulations, and hugs,
Michelle P.
I am so happy to read this update. You've come such a long way, and it really is wonderful to read all the news. Best year yet! And, may you have many, many more!
We are all cheering for you on both the career and medical fronts. It's good to see that the dysphoria is under control, and you are sleeping well. And both volunteering at the animal shelter, and Big Brothers/Big Sisters! Wow!
You are living your life! Fully and authentically, even!
Congratulations, and hugs,
Michelle P.
Title: Re: 2019!! My oh my this is it!
Post by: Rachel on February 03, 2019, 04:48:03 PM
Post by: Rachel on February 03, 2019, 04:48:03 PM
Wow, you have done a lot is a short period of time and all for the good, congratulations.
Title: Re: 2019!! My oh my this is it!
Post by: Linde on February 03, 2019, 05:29:57 PM
Post by: Linde on February 03, 2019, 05:29:57 PM
Congratulations on your achievements.
I have to say there is hardly anything more rewarding than volunteering and helping fellow humans to improve their lot in life!
Keep on going strong!
I have to say there is hardly anything more rewarding than volunteering and helping fellow humans to improve their lot in life!
Keep on going strong!
Title: Re: 2019!! My oh my this is it!
Post by: Alice (nym) on February 03, 2019, 06:18:51 PM
Post by: Alice (nym) on February 03, 2019, 06:18:51 PM
ooooo sleeping for 8 hour nights... lovely...
Great update! Loved reading the positivity, thank you for making me feel warm inside again.
love
Alice
Great update! Loved reading the positivity, thank you for making me feel warm inside again.
love
Alice
Title: Re: 2019!! My oh my this is it!
Post by: JudiBlueEyes on February 03, 2019, 06:56:28 PM
Post by: JudiBlueEyes on February 03, 2019, 06:56:28 PM
It sounds like everything is going your way! Congratulations.
Title: Re: 2019!! My oh my this is it!
Post by: Wendi on February 03, 2019, 07:29:12 PM
Post by: Wendi on February 03, 2019, 07:29:12 PM
I'm glad to hear that all is going well. It sounds like you're on the path to even more happiness. Congratulations.
Title: Re: 2019!! My oh my this is it!
Post by: SadieBlake on February 03, 2019, 09:13:21 PM
Post by: SadieBlake on February 03, 2019, 09:13:21 PM
Good for you babe, you've come so far from the Sailormars who didn't feel she could ever transition.
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Title: Re: 2019!! My oh my this is it!
Post by: pamelatransuk on February 04, 2019, 06:09:14 AM
Post by: pamelatransuk on February 04, 2019, 06:09:14 AM
Hello again
This is a wonderful uplifting summary to read and will be inspirational to many of us.
You have achieved so much.
I hope that the remaining 47 weeks of this year and future years are equally rewarding for you.
Hugs
Pamela
This is a wonderful uplifting summary to read and will be inspirational to many of us.
You have achieved so much.
I hope that the remaining 47 weeks of this year and future years are equally rewarding for you.
Hugs
Pamela
Title: Re: 2019!! My oh my this is it!
Post by: SailorMars1994 on February 04, 2019, 12:44:05 PM
Post by: SailorMars1994 on February 04, 2019, 12:44:05 PM
Thank you so much everyone! As I said I hope this year has been good to you all aswell! So many of you on this site have been such a great influence on me. Love ya <3