Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Astxl on April 10, 2019, 07:59:11 PM Return to Full Version
Title: About my boyfriend
Post by: Astxl on April 10, 2019, 07:59:11 PM
Post by: Astxl on April 10, 2019, 07:59:11 PM
The truth is, my boyfriend knows that I take hormones since I was very young, and all that, but sometimes he talks about my bottom part as "vagina" (we have not had sex yet, and I'm still not operated because I'm just 16 and I have to wait until 18) and that makes me feel uncomfortable.
And sometimes I feel that he forgets that I am trans, and that causes me a little fear, although he's not transfobic, and I consider myself and, I am a normal girl, but you know, I have that part below, and if one day we had sex, I would be afraid to reach that point and he would forget that I have that and act violent.
I don't know what to do about it, please, help :)
And sometimes I feel that he forgets that I am trans, and that causes me a little fear, although he's not transfobic, and I consider myself and, I am a normal girl, but you know, I have that part below, and if one day we had sex, I would be afraid to reach that point and he would forget that I have that and act violent.
I don't know what to do about it, please, help :)
Title: Re: About my boyfriend
Post by: Charlie Nicki on April 10, 2019, 08:34:46 PM
Post by: Charlie Nicki on April 10, 2019, 08:34:46 PM
Well talk to him about it. He does know you're trans, does he know you haven't had SRS? If not, you have to tell him.
Title: Re: About my boyfriend
Post by: Astxl on April 10, 2019, 09:28:31 PM
Post by: Astxl on April 10, 2019, 09:28:31 PM
Quote from: Charlie Nicki on April 10, 2019, 08:34:46 PM
He does know you're trans, does he know you haven't had SRS? If not, you have to tell him.
Obvious, but I feel like he forgets that, and makes me feel weird.
Title: Re: About my boyfriend
Post by: Charlie Nicki on April 12, 2019, 10:19:35 AM
Post by: Charlie Nicki on April 12, 2019, 10:19:35 AM
Quote from: Astxl on April 10, 2019, 09:28:31 PM
Obvious, but I feel like he forgets that, and makes me feel weird.
You'll be fine.
Title: Re: About my boyfriend
Post by: Maddie on April 12, 2019, 12:54:35 PM
Post by: Maddie on April 12, 2019, 12:54:35 PM
If it makes you feel weird, please stop and listen to your intuition.
Especially if you are worried he may get violent.
If you have reason to believe he may get violent, and if you feel unsafe, its okay to slow down and protect yourself, Astxi
Especially if you are worried he may get violent.
If you have reason to believe he may get violent, and if you feel unsafe, its okay to slow down and protect yourself, Astxi