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I have a new GF in my life. Besides being married to my husband, also attracted to pre op transsexual women as well and he is supportive of me on this. I discovered this through my transition. Good thing is I did tell my husband this when we started dating and he took it well knowing this is me. Her name is Ashley and she is a pre op of a year. Before she transitioned 3 years ago, was married and divorced. Then like me, discovered that she liked pre op transsexual women. Had been with a couple before me, were too bossy to her. I met her 3 weeks ago and we have on 3 dates so far which is going well with our relationship. I have been open to her and she has been open to me. I already met her family whom has been supportive. Ashley met my family and my husband, went good. Does know she has a place to stay when she moves in with us when it comes time to do it. I learned from her, she was struggling in her life when she was married to her ex wife and the marriage fell apart. It was after the divorce, she finally came out at age 41 and decided to transition. Ashley says I understand her and is finally happy.

Relationships like this make a lot of sense.

Ashley lives in an apartment she is renting right now, looks like in October or November she moves in. We have a bedroom  beside our bedroom she will have when she does move in with us. Knows my story too and she bottled it up as well. Ashley has two kids,18 and 20 with her ex wife that have been good to her. I will be getting to meet them hopefully this weekend.

I am happy you have found someone you are drawn to, sweetie. And who is drawn to you. That is always awesome!

As someone who is asexual and rarely ever feels attraction to anyone, I have very little experience in this area. So if it's okay, could I ask... what is it that you find attractive?

That's awesome. It is an interesting dynamic but if it makes sense to you and works for everyone then that's great. Congratulations.