Susan's Place Transgender Resources

I'm Zoey. I'm a 45-year-old introvert in rural South Carolina who likes video games, horror movies, and playing around with the ukulele.

I had my egg crack moment about twelve years ago and have kind of been coming to terms with my gender identity since.

Earlier this year, my dysphoria started getting bad again, at which point I came out to my doctor (who seemed supportive), who suggested I see a counselor (also supportive), who suggested I try to connect with the community, so here I am.

I'm still figuring out where to go from here, but after all this time, it feels like I'm closer to taking concrete steps than ever before, which is both exhilarating and nerve-wracking.

Anyway, how is your day?  :)

 Welcome Zoeynel,

 My day is going great.  I played 18 holes of golf in the morning and then went grocery shopping.  I now have dinner cooking in a slow cooker--boneless short rib in a ketchup BBQ sauce.  I'll take a nap then do some gardening in a couple of hours.

I also got my Orvis clothing order.  An orange sun defense 1/4-zip top and a pair of lilac quick dry shorts.

Marion

Hey Zoey!

Welcome aboard sister!

Exhilarated and nerve racked are pretty standard for the place you find yourself right now but, fear not... you hold the steering wheel and can take your life anywhere you need to go... You'll find many friends here who have gone from a life lived to the expectations of others to a life that far better serves the needs of the soul within them... All the answers you seek are out there and will be worth your time to seek out!

Onward!

Ashley 💕

Quote from: zoeynell on August 07, 2025, 01:16:26 PMEarlier this year, my dysphoria started getting bad again, at which point I came out to my doctor (who seemed supportive), who suggested I see a counselor (also supportive), who suggested I try to connect with the community, so here I am.

Hii, Zoey!

Welcome to Susan's Place. 💓


~ Lilis 🌷

Hi!


Welcome Zoey!


Chrissy

Hi Zoey,

Alana

Hello Zoey,

I'm Lori Dee. Welcome to Susan's Place!

Thank you for that wonderful introduction.

We strive to make this a safe space for you to find information and share your thoughts and comments. No matter who you are, you are always welcome at Susan's Place.

Congratulations! It is an exciting time, taking those first steps. But you did it successfullY. Coming out to your doctor and seeing a counselor or therapist is the first and most crucial step. From here, where you go and how far is totally up to you. It is your life, so you get to make the decisions about how you want to live it. If you have questions, ask. If you feel good about an achievement, we will rejoice with you. If you hit a rough patch, we will be there to support you through it.

Now for your official Welcome and site tour.  ;D

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@zoeynell
@Sarah B
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Quote from: zoeynell on August 07, 2025, 01:16:26 PMI'm Zoey. I'm a 45-year-old introvert in rural South Carolina who likes video games, horror movies, and playing around with the ukulele.

I had my egg crack moment about twelve years ago and have kind of been coming to terms with my gender identity since.

Earlier this year, my dysphoria started getting bad again, at which point I came out to my doctor (who seemed supportive), who suggested I see a counselor (also supportive), who suggested I try to connect with the community, so here I am.

I'm still figuring out where to go from here, but after all this time, it feels like I'm closer to taking concrete steps than ever before, which is both exhilarating and nerve-wracking.

Anyway, how is your day?  :)

@zoeynell
Dear Zoey:
I am pleased to see that you registered as a new Member here on the Forum.
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Hi Zoey,

I just joined yesterday, I've gotten to some great replies so far- I'm quite sure you will too!  I'm fairly close to your neck of the woods, just a bit north.  I definitely think it helps to talk to people about what you're experiencing, I tried to just slog through alone for a long time- too long.  Glad you signed up! 

Hi Zoey

My name is Sarah and I would also like to formally, Welcome you to Susan's Place!

I see that other members of Susan's have also welcomed you as well.

It's great to have you here.  It sounds like you've been on quite a thoughtful and personal journey over the past twelve years and I'm glad you've found supportive people along the way.  Taking those next steps can definitely feel like a mix of excitement and nerves, but it's wonderful that you're feeling closer than ever to moving forward.

Your love for video games, horror movies and the ukulele sounds like a great mix of creativity and fun and I hope you will find plenty of people here who share those interests.  This is a good place to connect, ask questions and just be yourself without judgement.

Looking forward to seeing you around and hearing more about your journey when you feel ready to share.

Once you feel comfortable here, it would be appreciated if you add a little bit more about yourself in the other forums and threads.  I would appreciate it very much as, I'm always interested in learning something new about new members.

In addition members of Susan's will more than likely will discuss problems or issues that are similar to yours as most have experienced these issues as well.

Please keep in mind when posting that this is an ALL AGES PUBLIC Forum and the internet never forgets.  Do not post anything that you do not want to be made public.

Take care and all the best for the future.

Once again, Welcome to Susan's Place!

Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
@Devlyn  @Jessica_Rose  @Mariah  @Northern Star Girl  @Lori Dee
@zoeynell

Thanks for the welcome, everybody! I'm looking forward to being part of the community.

Welcome to Susan's Zoey!!!  I am so happy to hear that you are working with a therapist in shaping your journey into self-discovery. It will really help you plan your way ahead. We are here to help as we can!!

Hi Zoey,
It's lovely to meet you. Welcome to Susans Place.
I'm sure you are going to make lots of friends here.

Ciara.