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So i got a few packages in the mail yesterday and my wife told me to wait to open them till after she finished what she was doing. i was excited but I waited. then I had to go to the ladies room and when I got back she had already gotten the packages and was about to open them. i go "hey I wanted to open them" she kinda seemed annoyed and said "I just wanna be apart of opening them" I got annoyed a bit because its my thing to dress and its a little overwhelming. we got into a little argument about how she wanted to be involved. see were also seperating soon and maybe she was upset from why we were seperating but she seemed like she wanted to take charge in the whole thing and it wasnt about her. i know shes supportive in me being feminine but I felt like she was trying to be controlling over the whole thing. its not fun to want to dress up if shes taking over and all. the rest of the time it almost felt like there was tension while I showed her my clothes I tried on. i think she was projecting our seperating on the situation and all I wanted to do was have the opening of the packages more intimate to me. what do you think of this whole situation? 

Sisters normally do things together.  That is how they bond together.

I don't know your full reason behind separating, but maybe don't go down that path right now.  See how your wife and you handle your change right now.  Perhaps she's seen through your male facade for years and now she's afraid that she will loose that friend that she really likes.

Very limited information to go by but from what I read - sounds like you overreacted and made it about you and overlooked her kindness of wanting to participate. (I don't mean to sound harsh)

Just take a breath. This may be her way of accepting things and wanting to be involved. Don't think that she is trying to take over but she is trying to be involved. I don't know your relationship or the ins and out of either of your lives. If she is wanting to see you open packages this maybe her opening up to things

Is there any updates? Wishing you the best

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on January 21, 2026, 10:44:26 AMIs there any updates? Wishing you the best

We calmed down but I still modeled up my packages myself with her there.last night we chatted again.she tells me im moving on while she stays put besides the whole split thing.i have something to look forward to while shes left in the past.honestly it does feel that way but im letting her in with every new thing im doing so im atleast trying to involve her in my situation.if my new heels come in saturday im going to finally go out as myself for the first time to a mall.its an outdoor mall and I wanted her to come with but she has back issues and she didnt want to walk all that much,its not an excuse I know she really does have back issues,regardless ill be doing that if everything works out in my favor.ill probably walk the mall then get a bit to eat as as the new me.

I wish you the best. The only advice I have is keep her involved as much as she is willi5

Oops willing