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Title: Was this a compliment #2?
Post by: ChrissyRyan on February 20, 2026, 07:01:40 PM
Post by: ChrissyRyan on February 20, 2026, 07:01:40 PM
Was this a compliment?
Went to an off site lunch with someone at work, not a date. He said that he knows I do not have any interest in dating guys but that if I ever wanted to that I should have little trouble because I am very nice, thoughtful, smart, and cute.
In a way this was an odd statement because everyone at the office knows my sweetie is female.
I think he was giving me a compliment, rather laying on the flattery. I reiterated that I am happy with my female companionship for sure but thank you.
The linguine was good. We had a nice conversation about sports mostly.
Chrissy
Went to an off site lunch with someone at work, not a date. He said that he knows I do not have any interest in dating guys but that if I ever wanted to that I should have little trouble because I am very nice, thoughtful, smart, and cute.
In a way this was an odd statement because everyone at the office knows my sweetie is female.
I think he was giving me a compliment, rather laying on the flattery. I reiterated that I am happy with my female companionship for sure but thank you.
The linguine was good. We had a nice conversation about sports mostly.
Chrissy
Title: Re: Was this a compliment #2?
Post by: Athena on February 20, 2026, 08:03:59 PM
Post by: Athena on February 20, 2026, 08:03:59 PM
Creepy as it may be I think you should take it as a compliment. I would be cautious around him as this may signify interest.
Title: Re: Was this a compliment #2?
Post by: Jillian-TG on February 20, 2026, 09:24:55 PM
Post by: Jillian-TG on February 20, 2026, 09:24:55 PM
Quote from: Athena on Yesterday at 08:03:59 PMCreepy as it may be I think you should take it as a compliment. I would be cautious around him as this may signify interest.100% he's interested in Chrissy based on that story.
Title: Re: Was this a compliment #2?
Post by: Lori Dee on February 20, 2026, 10:11:37 PM
Post by: Lori Dee on February 20, 2026, 10:11:37 PM
I think it was a compliment.
He was just letting you know that if you decided to bat for the other team, he might be interested. And everything he said is true! You are all of those and more.
He was just letting you know that if you decided to bat for the other team, he might be interested. And everything he said is true! You are all of those and more.
Title: Re: Was this a compliment #2?
Post by: Paulie on February 21, 2026, 12:04:04 AM
Post by: Paulie on February 21, 2026, 12:04:04 AM
I think it was a compliment. I don't know if it was anything more than that, but congratulations on the compliment.