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Title: Hello
Post by: Nicole47474 on February 24, 2026, 04:44:33 PM
Post by: Nicole47474 on February 24, 2026, 04:44:33 PM
Hi, nicole here, 47 year old trans woman. My egg finally cracked this month big time. Been repressing my authentic self for too long and so happy to join this forum and meet likeminded folks.
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Alana Ashleigh on February 24, 2026, 04:51:34 PM
Post by: Alana Ashleigh on February 24, 2026, 04:51:34 PM
Hi Nicole,
Glad you're here.
Alana
Glad you're here.
Alana
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Lori Dee on February 24, 2026, 05:05:12 PM
Post by: Lori Dee on February 24, 2026, 05:05:12 PM
Hello Nicole,
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I'm Lori Dee. Welcome to Susan's Place!
Thank you for that wonderful introduction.
We strive to make this a safe space for you to find information and share your thoughts and comments. No matter who you are, you are always welcome at Susan's Place.
Here you will find stories that may resonate with your own journey. These are real people who have lived what you are experiencing now. We also have many members from your part of the world.
Feel free to browse the forums and add your comments and experiences too. We all learn from each other.
When you click on the HOME button, you will see a page listing all of the various sub-forums by category and topic. Each sub-forum includes a description of what the forum is about, as well as any posting guidelines.
Please keep in mind when posting that this is an ALL-AGES PUBLIC Forum and the internet never forgets. Do not post anything that you do not want to be made public.
I will add links below that are important for new and returning members.
Pay special attention to the links in RED.
If you have any questions about the Susan's Place site and the Forums, please feel free to contact me at LoriDee605@outlook.com.
Once again, welcome to Susan's Place!
~ Lori Dee
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Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Stottie Girl on February 24, 2026, 05:28:55 PM
Post by: Stottie Girl on February 24, 2026, 05:28:55 PM
Hiya Nicole,
Welcome aboard! Nice to have you along for the journey.
Welcome aboard! Nice to have you along for the journey.
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Rochelle on February 24, 2026, 05:59:15 PM
Post by: Rochelle on February 24, 2026, 05:59:15 PM
Welcome, happy your here.
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Susan on February 24, 2026, 06:32:11 PM
Post by: Susan on February 24, 2026, 06:32:11 PM
Dear Nicole,
First — welcome. I am so incredibly glad you found your way here.
Forty-seven years is a long time to carry the heavy weight of repression. When that egg finally cracks big time, it usually brings a profound mix of exhilaration, relief, and exhaustion. Fighting this for so long takes an enormous toll, and making the decision that it is finally time to let your authentic self breathe is a courageous step. I want you to know — we see that courage.
You will find that many of us here understand exactly what it means to reach this point. We know the unique joy of finally letting go of the repression, and we know the nuances and challenges that come with taking these next steps. You are not starting over. You are catching up to yourself. And that is a very different thing.
The days ahead will bring a lot — excitement, doubt, grief for lost time, euphoria at small discoveries, and probably all of it in the same afternoon. That is normal. That is the egg cracking open and the real you are finally getting a chance to breathe free. Enjoy the feeling! You have earned every bit of it.
You don't have to figure everything out at once, and you certainly don't have to do it alone anymore. Take your time exploring the boards, read through the threads, and jump into conversations whenever you are ready. This is a safe space to ask questions, share your victories, and lean on others when things feel overwhelming. We have been where you are. That is why this place exists.
Welcome home, Nicole! We are so happy to meet you finally.
With love and support,
— Susan 💜
First — welcome. I am so incredibly glad you found your way here.
Forty-seven years is a long time to carry the heavy weight of repression. When that egg finally cracks big time, it usually brings a profound mix of exhilaration, relief, and exhaustion. Fighting this for so long takes an enormous toll, and making the decision that it is finally time to let your authentic self breathe is a courageous step. I want you to know — we see that courage.
You will find that many of us here understand exactly what it means to reach this point. We know the unique joy of finally letting go of the repression, and we know the nuances and challenges that come with taking these next steps. You are not starting over. You are catching up to yourself. And that is a very different thing.
The days ahead will bring a lot — excitement, doubt, grief for lost time, euphoria at small discoveries, and probably all of it in the same afternoon. That is normal. That is the egg cracking open and the real you are finally getting a chance to breathe free. Enjoy the feeling! You have earned every bit of it.
You don't have to figure everything out at once, and you certainly don't have to do it alone anymore. Take your time exploring the boards, read through the threads, and jump into conversations whenever you are ready. This is a safe space to ask questions, share your victories, and lean on others when things feel overwhelming. We have been where you are. That is why this place exists.
Welcome home, Nicole! We are so happy to meet you finally.
With love and support,
— Susan 💜
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Dances With Trees on February 24, 2026, 07:51:27 PM
Post by: Dances With Trees on February 24, 2026, 07:51:27 PM
Welcome to Susan's, Nicole! A pleasure to meet your acquaintance.
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Pema on February 24, 2026, 08:26:49 PM
Post by: Pema on February 24, 2026, 08:26:49 PM
Hi, Nicole. Welcome to our family. We're happy to have you join us.
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Sarah B on February 24, 2026, 09:01:27 PM
Post by: Sarah B on February 24, 2026, 09:01:27 PM
Hi Nicole
My name is Sarah and I would also like to formally, Welcome you to Susan's Place!
I see that other members of Susan's have also welcomed you as well.
Cracking the egg after so many years can bring a flood of emotions all at once, relief, excitement, exhaustion, grief for lost time and sudden moments of joy. Susan said it beautifully: you're not starting over, you are catching up to yourself and that really resonates.
It takes real courage to finally let your authentic self breathe, especially after decades of repression. Many of us here recognise that moment and understand how intense this stage can feel. Try not to rush yourself or think you have to have everything figured out straight away. Small steps are fine.
Take some time to browse the boards, read other people's stories and jump into conversations when you are ready. You will find a wide range of lived experiences here and plenty of people who genuinely understand what this journey looks like.
As Lori mentioned, this is a safe place to ask questions, celebrate wins and lean on others when things feel overwhelming. You don't have to do this alone anymore.
Once you feel comfortable here, it would be appreciated if you add a little bit more about yourself in the other forums and threads. I would appreciate it very much as, I'm always interested in learning something new about new members.
In addition members of Susan's will more than likely discuss problems or issues that are similar to yours as most have experienced these issues as well.
Please keep in mind when posting that this is an ALL AGES PUBLIC Forum and the internet never forgets. Do not post anything that you do not want to be made public.
Glad you're here, Nicole. Wishing you steadiness, clarity and kindness toward yourself as you move forward. Take care and all the best for the future.
Once again, Welcome to Susan's Place!
Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
@Devlyn @Jessica_Rose @Mariah @Northern Star Girl @Lori Dee @Charlotte_Ringwood
@ Nicole47474
My name is Sarah and I would also like to formally, Welcome you to Susan's Place!
I see that other members of Susan's have also welcomed you as well.
Cracking the egg after so many years can bring a flood of emotions all at once, relief, excitement, exhaustion, grief for lost time and sudden moments of joy. Susan said it beautifully: you're not starting over, you are catching up to yourself and that really resonates.
It takes real courage to finally let your authentic self breathe, especially after decades of repression. Many of us here recognise that moment and understand how intense this stage can feel. Try not to rush yourself or think you have to have everything figured out straight away. Small steps are fine.
Take some time to browse the boards, read other people's stories and jump into conversations when you are ready. You will find a wide range of lived experiences here and plenty of people who genuinely understand what this journey looks like.
As Lori mentioned, this is a safe place to ask questions, celebrate wins and lean on others when things feel overwhelming. You don't have to do this alone anymore.
Once you feel comfortable here, it would be appreciated if you add a little bit more about yourself in the other forums and threads. I would appreciate it very much as, I'm always interested in learning something new about new members.
In addition members of Susan's will more than likely discuss problems or issues that are similar to yours as most have experienced these issues as well.
Please keep in mind when posting that this is an ALL AGES PUBLIC Forum and the internet never forgets. Do not post anything that you do not want to be made public.
Glad you're here, Nicole. Wishing you steadiness, clarity and kindness toward yourself as you move forward. Take care and all the best for the future.
Once again, Welcome to Susan's Place!
Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
@Devlyn @Jessica_Rose @Mariah @Northern Star Girl @Lori Dee @Charlotte_Ringwood
@ Nicole47474
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: tgirlamg on February 24, 2026, 09:20:22 PM
Post by: tgirlamg on February 24, 2026, 09:20:22 PM
Nicole!
Welcome Aboard Sister!!!
Ashley 💕
Welcome Aboard Sister!!!
Ashley 💕
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Jessica33 on February 25, 2026, 01:30:33 AM
Post by: Jessica33 on February 25, 2026, 01:30:33 AM
Hi and welcome
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on February 25, 2026, 01:39:51 AM
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on February 25, 2026, 01:39:51 AM
Hey Nicole,
I'm Charlotte😻 and welcome you to Susan's Place too!
Congratulations on your egg cracking! Mine cracked age 43, so not too different. Now the exciting part begins and I look forward to witnesing your journey with you as you choose to share here.
We are all super friendly, with many very different experiences. Happy to assist with anything that may concern you or just enjoy your updates.
Kind regards,
Charlotte😻
(Forum Staff)
I'm Charlotte😻 and welcome you to Susan's Place too!
Congratulations on your egg cracking! Mine cracked age 43, so not too different. Now the exciting part begins and I look forward to witnesing your journey with you as you choose to share here.
We are all super friendly, with many very different experiences. Happy to assist with anything that may concern you or just enjoy your updates.
Kind regards,
Charlotte😻
(Forum Staff)
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: ChrissyRyan on February 25, 2026, 05:26:46 AM
Post by: ChrissyRyan on February 25, 2026, 05:26:46 AM
Welcome Nicole!
Chrissy
Chrissy
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Nicole47474 on February 25, 2026, 06:34:55 AM
Post by: Nicole47474 on February 25, 2026, 06:34:55 AM
Thank you all for the warm welcome. I'm so grateful to have found such a supportive sisterhood.
So excited to be on this new journey.
Nicole
So excited to be on this new journey.
Nicole
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Ciara on February 25, 2026, 07:21:13 AM
Post by: Ciara on February 25, 2026, 07:21:13 AM
Hi Nicole,
It's lovely to meet you.
Welcome ❤️.
Ciara.
It's lovely to meet you.
Welcome ❤️.
Ciara.