Susan's Place Transgender Resources

Quote from: Lori Dee on March 31, 2026, 02:26:03 PMCongratulations, Sarah! Welcome to the Blogosphere.

As Danielle said, this is your home here on Susan's Place. So you get to pick out the drapes, rearrange the furniture, and settle in as you see fit. How you decide to use it and what you choose to write about are up to you.

You can get ideas by reading other members' blogs to see how they use theirs.

Welcome home!

Hugs.

Quote from: tgirlamg on March 31, 2026, 02:46:06 PMSarah!

Awesomeness! Can't wait to see what wonderful things bloom here!!! 🌻🤗🌻

I know it sounds like I shouldn't get my hopes up but, I am holding out hope for pirates and car chases!!! Ninjas might be cool too!

Onward We Go Brave Sister!

A💕

Quote from: Pema on March 31, 2026, 02:44:12 PMHey, neat! I'm glad you're doing this.

You've read enough of other people's blogs to know that it's perfectly fine to talk about less-than-exciting stuff. Life brings what it will, and it's worth sharing.

Welcome!

Quote from: davina61 on March 31, 2026, 02:49:03 PMAs I like to say welcome to the basement (as this is at the bottom of the page!) . I just put stuff down of what I am up to, I find it good at clearing clutter out of my brain. Just everyday stuff, not much to do with being trans but after being fully out and fettled that is what my life is like.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on March 31, 2026, 02:52:29 PMYea you.
Im proud to be watching this grow. I'll try not to use this for insomnia.
I've pretty well decided to start mine right after my next therapy session. Keep me updated

Quote from: Stottie Girl on March 31, 2026, 03:00:48 PMThanks Pema! You were one of the first to welcome me to the site and I guess I haven't sent you to sleep so far!

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on March 31, 2026, 03:51:15 PMHow about aliens?? Can you add some aliens?? That would be fun.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on March 31, 2026, 04:07:13 PMSo I was in my car this afternoon with Captain Jack Sparrow chasing down this Ninja who had stolen the Captain's hat. When all of a sudden a huge spacecraft appeared overhead...........

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on March 31, 2026, 04:29:51 PMOh moving is a miserable experience and always more stuff than you imagine! Having moved 7 times since 2003 I'm not planning to ever move again!

I hope you're making good progress sorting everything out Sarah? It'll be done one day then you can enjoy your new place!

C😻

Quote from: tgirlamg on March 31, 2026, 04:36:09 PMNow we're talkin'!!! 😅👍

Quote from: Dances With Trees on April 01, 2026, 11:32:22 AMI loved the lengthy ramble and follow-ups!

Your blog is amazing despite the relative absence of aliens and pirates.

But I just gots to ask: What's a 'wendy'?

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on April 01, 2026, 01:18:58 PMIn British slang, commonly in Northern England, "Wendy" is
a description for a coward, a "wuss" or a weak person.

Quote from: Gina P on April 02, 2026, 07:33:12 AMOk, Wellies, strop? Bloody hell what is she saying?. It sound so sexy the way you say it. I can imagine the English accent. Here we just call wellies, muck boots.

No pirates but knights, cool!

Quote from: Gina P on April 02, 2026, 07:33:12 AMOk, Wellies, strop? Bloody hell what is she saying?. It sound so sexy the way you say it. I can imagine the English accent. Here we just call wellies, muck boots.

No pirates but knights, cool!

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 02, 2026, 11:44:10 AMOk now what is a brolly?

Is it like a slicker?

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 02, 2026, 12:06:38 PMSlicker is a rain coat.

Quote from: PhilippaRees on April 02, 2026, 12:13:51 PMIts true, you do learn something every day.

Quote from: Sephirah on April 02, 2026, 02:52:31 PM*peeks in and smiles*

It's your turn to educate people, Sarah. ;D English is a hundred different languages. :P

All I would say is that you could have pirates and car chases in the same thing. I can even see the movie title: "Pieces of V8!"

*monster hugs*

I will be watching from the shadows. :)

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 02, 2026, 03:27:15 PM@Stottie Girl
I bet if you went off on an American with a proper rant, the American would look at you as if you had 2 heads and a third growing.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 02, 2026, 03:57:57 PMThat sounds almost sinister Lauren ha ha!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 02, 2026, 04:00:54 PMOh dont get me mad, you wouldn't like me when I'm mad lol!

I can have a potty mouth too when I'm riled ha ha I can swear like a docker! Kind of ruins the image a little bit!

Quote from: Dances With Trees on April 02, 2026, 09:02:38 PMThanks Danielle and Sarah for the clarification. And to Charlotte and Lori for sharing my confusion. Wendy is firmly ensconced in my lexicon. I don't dare mention my ignorance of wellies but assume they're appropriate for crossing a bog. Photos when you get there, Sarah! Please.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 03, 2026, 03:55:05 AMThank you Lauren, Saved me the bother. They look pretty close to mine actually. Are they called gumboots in the good old US of A?

Woke up with excrutiating sciatica this morning😪 Sort of put paid to my plans for the day. Going to have to spend the early morning rolling around on the floor doing stupid exercises again. Feeling like it will clear up later though. I might still get up to some mischief today.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 03, 2026, 03:55:05 AMThank you Lauren, Saved me the bother. They look pretty close to mine actually. Are they called gumboots in the good old US of A?

Woke up with excrutiating sciatica this morning😪 Sort of put paid to my plans for the day. Going to have to spend the early morning rolling around on the floor doing stupid exercises again. Feeling like it will clear up later though. I might still get up to some mischief today.

Quote from: Sephirah on April 03, 2026, 04:08:13 AMI had to google that. It sounds horrible, Sarah. I am so sorry you have to deal with that. I really hope it clears up for you and that you can get back to... haha, mischief. Have you dealt with it for long, honey? It really doesn't sound pleasant at all.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 03, 2026, 04:15:31 AMThat's terrible news you've woken up in pain. Why on earth does that have to happen when you get a day off. I hope you can get it under control and make something nice of your day.

Sending you healing and hugs x

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 03, 2026, 04:31:06 AMIt's been there since September last year unfortunately, though it's not always this painful. It sort of has flareups every so often. It's just picked the bank holiday to do one. It normally eases off during the day though. It's a shame because I'm more of a lark than an owl so it feels like I'm wasting my day. Minor problem in the grand scheme of things though.

What's everyone else up to this Easter weekend?

Quote from: Dances With Trees on April 03, 2026, 10:32:31 AMMuck Boots.

I hope you're feeling better, Sarah!

Happy Easter!

Quote from: Courtney G on April 03, 2026, 02:43:02 PMHappy Easter Weekend, Sarah.

I'll be fishing on Saturday. Not quite sure about Sunday. It's just my wife and I, so not much fuss here.

So sorry to hear about your discomfort. I hope it feels better soon.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 03, 2026, 02:53:35 PMHappy Easter. Hope you enjoy it x

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 03, 2026, 02:53:52 PMNew wig day today.

What do you think? It's supposed to be the exact same style and colour as the old one but it's definitely different. More of a centre parting.

Didn't mean for my mug to be quite as big as that ha ha! Sorry if I scared anyone!

(https://i.ibb.co/ZR5K0ZWx/New-wig.jpg)

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 03, 2026, 02:53:52 PMNew wig day today.

What do you think? It's supposed to be the exact same style and colour as the old one but it's definitely different. More of a centre parting.

Didn't mean for my mug to be quite as big as that ha ha! Sorry if I scared anyone!

(https://i.ibb.co/ZR5K0ZWx/New-wig.jpg)

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 03, 2026, 03:31:00 PMThat's not me smiling, just for the record! Ha ha!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 03, 2026, 04:18:36 PMThanks Lori. It is a good match for my natural colour. I figure wearing my natural colour means the change wouldn't be so dramatic if/when I grow my own hair out.

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 03, 2026, 04:22:02 PMThat's good thinking, as it will maych your skin tone.

I went the opposite. Had dark brown hair most of my life, but always thought I should be blonde. I prefer a strawberry blonde, but most are too red. It is time to recolor, so I may try a salon again. The last few times were failures. I did a better job myself.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 03, 2026, 04:40:09 PMI love strawberry blonde and red hair in general. One of my good friends growing up had the most gorgeous long strawberry blonde hair. I was very envious of her. I think you would suit going a red shade personally Lori.

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 03, 2026, 04:46:46 PMI have a red wig, and I got a lot of compliments on it. Surprisingly, or not, they all came from sister redheads. I prefer blonde with just a touch of reddish tint.

This was too red. So I am looking to go somewhere between my profile pic and this one.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 03, 2026, 05:18:20 PMIt does work with your eyes. It's not my favorite. I like your blond look better

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 03, 2026, 05:22:15 PMI think it's bloody horrible personally but thanks kellie ha ha!

Quote from: tgirlamg on April 03, 2026, 11:04:32 PMLove the newest blondie! 💕🤗💕

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 04, 2026, 04:06:52 AMGentle day today I think. I'm feeling a little bit better from the Sciatica after another bumpy start this morning so I might salvage some of my favourite plants from my garden to take over to my new house once the jungle is tamed! My mums doing chicken fried rice for lunch and some of my relatives are joining us. Will be nice to catch up.

We are expecting storm force winds around 4pm today so I don't think I will get up to much mischief today.

Tomorrow looks canny though so I might see if I can get to that ruin maybe. Will remember my wellies this time though!

I wonder if it might be interesting to people if I did some visits to some of the interesting castles and other places local to me. I could pop a picture or two on here. Would people be interested in that or would I be boring the pants off everyone?

As an example, this is Howick Hall, The home of Earl Charles Grey (yes, the tea guy!) and still owned by the Grey family today.

(https://i.ibb.co/dJ6sGjd6/2JN6782.jpg)

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 02, 2026, 04:35:59 PMI can be a potty mouth as well. Military service and a lot more years in construction than I want to admit to. My mom should wash my mouth out, especially as a younger person. I try not to but....

Quote from: Emma1017 on April 04, 2026, 08:32:42 AMWow, castles and wigs.  I'm in!

My hair is a little thin and, unfortunately, I can't grow it out, but wigs are so much fun.  Unlike making a mistake with a stylist's haircut or dye job, you can just change the wig...or, as I have done...just throw it out.

I personally agree, both you and Lori look stunning as blondes!

Quote from: Dances With Trees on April 04, 2026, 09:52:39 AMI would love to view as many photos of your stomping grounds as you can post, Sarah!

Not only do I find the English countryside enchanting, you have an artist's eye for photography.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 04, 2026, 05:29:01 PMWoohoo! I just won £30 on the lottery off a free entry. Not sure I'll be able to retire on that win but a win nonetheless!

Quote from: Sephirah on April 04, 2026, 05:36:00 PMThat's half a takeaway!

Go you! <3

Sarah, you know what I think about your photography. It's an expression of you. It's your eye on the world, and.. I already have your work adorning my living room wall. You are exceptionally gifted. Please do this more!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 04, 2026, 06:11:37 PMAw thanks sweetness. If you see my images next other peoples in photo groups or on instagram, I'm distinctly average really but flattery will get you everywhere!

Sarah xx

Quote from: Sephirah on April 05, 2026, 11:01:59 AMI am always a little envious of people who can work with their hands like that, Sarah. Create something that lasts for years. It's a gift!

What would you make first?

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 05, 2026, 11:14:14 AMOooh that's a good question! I wouldn't mind making a coffee table. I quite like using recycled timber like scaffold boards so maybe that but I could also do with another bookcase to be honest. I have a pile of English oak stored at my folks house so I have enough timber.

I like doing as much as possible by hand, it's very threaputic.

Quote from: Sephirah on April 05, 2026, 11:20:08 AMMake a coffee table that you can store books beneath! Two birds, one carpenter!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 05, 2026, 11:46:38 AMHave you seen how many books I've got!!! The coffee table would need to be 10 ft wide and 10 feet tall! Good idea for some kind of book storage though.

Carpenter....ess? is that a thing?

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 06, 2026, 07:25:23 AMSorry for your sciatica. I hope you get feeling better.
If you didn't want to share pics you can just say so.  😋

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 06, 2026, 08:47:01 AMOi cheeky!

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 06, 2026, 09:37:06 AMI need a translation in to American 🤣

Or a can start saying y'all and pardner

Quote from: Emma1017 on April 06, 2026, 09:05:08 AMI am so sorry about your sciatica.  I had it years ago, and it was brutal.  Spent a lot of time on the floor, with my feet resting on a chair, watching TV or playing on my phone.

Hang in there, and it will eventually fade away.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 06, 2026, 09:57:21 AMIt means "How dare you mock me madame, I am quite perturbed!"

Thank ya pardner 🤣

Quote from: KathyLauren on April 07, 2026, 07:01:35 AMHow did I miss this thread?  That was some serious catching up I had to do, and the thread is barely a week old!  You look great in that wig; moving is always a PITA (we are moving soon, too), sorry about your sciatica.  I love your flying dream.  Now, about those pirates, aliens and ninjas...

Quote from: Gina P on April 07, 2026, 10:24:17 AMCastle is huge. Were you able to go inside? Cool way to spend a day.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 07, 2026, 11:02:19 AMBeautiful picture. Please keep them coming.

I love the history. I went to Washington DC and Boston. The history there is great. My wife likes to do the ghost tours. Not that we're looking for ghosts but you get a lot of the dirty history

Quote from: Sephirah on April 07, 2026, 05:07:32 PMHaha, I am like the 0.1% of people who never watched Game of Thrones. Kind of like Harry Potter. From what I gather it was the best thing since sliced bread, until people forgot how to slice bread.

I would kind of like your part of the world, Sarah, if it has people like you in it. :)

Quote from: Sephirah on April 07, 2026, 05:07:32 PMHaha, I am like the 0.1% of people who never watched Game of Thrones. Kind of like Harry Potter. From what I gather it was the best thing since sliced bread, until people forgot how to slice bread.

I would kind of like your part of the world, Sarah, if it has people like you in it. :)

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 09, 2026, 10:19:50 AMI never watched Game of Thrones either. My wife did and said it was really good. It just never seemed interesting to me.we can be 0.1% together

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 09, 2026, 10:19:50 AMI never watched Game of Thrones either. My wife did and said it was really good. It just never seemed interesting to me.we can be 0.1% together

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 09, 2026, 11:17:55 AMI never watched it either. But I haven't watched TV in almost 15 years. I don't miss it.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 09, 2026, 11:20:42 AMOne of the very few shows worth watching in my view. Chuck the telly away when you are done!

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 09, 2026, 11:43:44 AMI stopped watching because I absolutely hate commercial ads. They spend 20 minutes on ads and 10 minutes on content, for a 30-minute program. And it isn't even new and exciting products they advertise. They run the same tired ads about drugs that I can't buy without a prescription, for conditions I don't have. At least with a movie, I can watch it from start to finish without interruption.

I have heard many people say that Game of Thrones is good. Maybe someday, when I am too old to do anything else, I will buy a box set and watch it. For now, I have too much to do. The only time I watch a movie is when I am eating dinner.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 09, 2026, 12:08:39 PMSorry to hear about your discomfort. If I had a magic wand I would offer to take your pain away.
I read a book once, one of many, pain is the universe's way of telling you you're alive. I bet right now you feel very alive

Quote from: Sephirah on April 08, 2026, 03:48:34 AMGloucester, like Worcester and Leicester... breaks a lot of people's brains when they try to pronounce it, haha.

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on April 09, 2026, 12:28:37 PM@Sephirah  @Stottie Girl  @Charlotte Kitty
Dear Lauren, Sarah, Charlotte :
Again the British and Americans are separated by a common language.
Hugs, Danielle

Quote from: Sephirah on April 08, 2026, 03:48:34 AMGloucester, like Worcester and Leicester... breaks a lot of people's brains when they try to pronounce it, haha.

AI Overview
The city of Leicester in England is pronounced "Lester" (IPA: /ˈlɛstər/). It is a two-syllable pronunciation, despite the three-syllable spelling, with the emphasis on the first syllable and a silent "cei".

How do British people pronounce Worcester?  (also a city in the USA State of Massachusetts near Boston)
AI Overview
In the UK, Worcester is pronounced "WUSS-tuh" (sounds like woos + tuh), with the stress on the first syllable. It is /ˈwʊs.tə/ in IPA notation. The city name is a two-syllable word, often mistaken for having three or four syllables by non-natives, as the "ce" is silent.

Gloucester is pronounced GLOSS-ter (also a city in Massachusetts, USA)
). It is a two-syllable word with the stress on the first syllable, where the "ces" is silent. It rhymes with "foster" and follows the same silent-syllable pattern as British place names like Leicester (Less-ter) and Worcester (Wuss-ter).

AI Overview
Worcestershire sauce is widely known as the condiment no one can pronounce. Often referred to as "the big W" or "whore-sauce," it is actually pronounced "WUSS-ter-sher" (or "Wuh-stuh-sheer"). Originating from Worcester, England, this savory, fermented condiment is a complex blend of vinegar, anchovies, molasses, and tamarind.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 09, 2026, 12:35:07 PMAI Overview
The city of Leicester in England is pronounced "Lester" (IPA: /ˈlɛstər/). It is a two-syllable pronunciation, despite the three-syllable spelling, with the emphasis on the first syllable and a silent "cei".

How do British people pronounce Worcester?  (also a city in the USA State of Massachusetts near Boston)
AI Overview
In the UK, Worcester is pronounced "WUSS-tuh" (sounds like woos + tuh), with the stress on the first syllable. It is /ˈwʊs.tə/ in IPA notation. The city name is a two-syllable word, often mistaken for having three or four syllables by non-natives, as the "ce" is silent.

Gloucester is pronounced GLOSS-ter (also a city in Massachusetts, USA)
). It is a two-syllable word with the stress on the first syllable, where the "ces" is silent. It rhymes with "foster" and follows the same silent-syllable pattern as British place names like Leicester (Less-ter) and Worcester (Wuss-ter).

AI Overview
Worcestershire sauce is widely known as the condiment no one can pronounce. Often referred to as "the big W" or "whore-sauce," it is actually pronounced "WUSS-ter-sher" (or "Wuh-stuh-sheer"). Originating from Worcester, England, this savory, fermented condiment is a complex blend of vinegar, anchovies, molasses, and tamarind.

Well I would pronounce it as WUSS-TUH or WUSS-TUH-SHUH. But then I'm from the North East where we have a very distinct accent and dialect, supposedly the oldest in England apparently. Maybe Lauren and Charlotte could chime in with the way they say it

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 09, 2026, 02:00:27 PMI say it like this.

Worcester (https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Qj7MKhM6JGufWJb6o_ly90eogNOqUOGk/view?usp=drivesdk)

Sorry I been quiet. Been struggling a bit xx

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 09, 2026, 12:20:55 PMWell the universe can stop now thanks, I got the message! Thanks Kelly but if you had a magic wand could you turn me into the girl of my dreams instead, sod the sciatica! Fed up with it really it's been going on since September.

Talking of magic wands one of my former customers had an original Harry Potter wand from the first movie. Her son worked as a special effects artist for the movies and created them. It didn't work sadly, I tried it.
She also had a silicone mould of Angelina Jolie's lips (no idea why!) and mini me's fist from Austin Powers. Her son also made the batsuit from Batman Begins and kept it. He said it will be his retirement fund! Complete with pic of him and Christian Bale at the fitting, signed by Bale!

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 09, 2026, 02:30:43 PMBatman Beyond was one of my favorite movies.  It was the closest Hollywood got to portraying Batman correctly.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 09, 2026, 02:00:27 PMI say it like this. @Stottie Girl 

Worcester (https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Qj7MKhM6JGufWJb6o_ly90eogNOqUOGk/view?usp=drivesdk)

Sorry I been quiet. Been struggling a bit xx

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on April 09, 2026, 02:37:03 PM@Charlotte Kitty  @Sephirah  @Dawn Kellie  @davina61

Dear Charlotte, Sephirah, Kellie, Davina:
Thank you ladies for clarifying how some of these cities and words are pronounced in proper British.
This has always been a mystery to most of the Yankee born in the USA.

HUGS, Danielle [Northern Star Girl]

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on April 09, 2026, 02:37:03 PM@Charlotte Kitty  @Sephirah  @Dawn Kellie  @davina61

Dear Charlotte, Sephirah, Kellie, Davina:
Thank you ladies for clarifying how some of these cities and words are pronounced in proper British.
This has always been a mystery to me and most of the Yankees born in the USA.

HUGS, Danielle [Northern Star Girl]

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 09, 2026, 04:13:35 PMThere are those that speak English correctly and those that don't. This can easily be determined by asking the person in question to say the words bath and grass! 😂

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 09, 2026, 04:20:13 PMWell "correctly" is subjective! I would say it determines if you are a Northerner or a shandy drinking Southerner! lol!

Which side of the fence do you reside on? You've lived both North and South

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 09, 2026, 04:31:07 PMOh to be honest I'm a mongrel these days! There are little bits of Yorkshire in my generic nowhere twang. I use the word 'owt' a lot. But I'm also a bit urban using words like 'innit'. But I do pronounce bath and grass the southern way 😅

When I'm trying to talk feminine I just gravitate to posh sounding. Not really what I want!

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 09, 2026, 04:39:51 PMTsk Tsk there's no r in bath! It's not barth! And people say we can't talk properly, sheesh!

Bugs me when Southern people say "Newcarstle". No, it's New castle because they built a new castle there! Interestingly it was called Gotham town before NYC too!

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 09, 2026, 04:44:38 PMYou can tell I've had that banter with Northern folk a few times hehe. Its always fun to mix up your rose colours in Leeds too...you know that red rose!! Lol.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 09, 2026, 05:18:22 PMIf you head towards Boston the place you parked your car would be a " caa paak"  for what ever reason they seem to be afraid of saying "r" sounds

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 09, 2026, 05:25:16 PMI have heard them claim they paahked theh caah in the yaahd.

I like the scene in The Heat (Melissa McCarthy) where Sandra Bullock is trying to understand them as they ask her if she is a Narc (a Naaahk).

🤣

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 09, 2026, 05:47:19 PMSounds almost Mancunian that Lori!

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 09, 2026, 05:52:48 PM

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 11, 2026, 09:15:41 AMHope your assignment goes ok. Sure you'll ace it!

C😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 11, 2026, 09:19:38 AMCheers! Aren't you supposed to be doing furry things today?

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 11, 2026, 09:30:50 AMYeah all done. Going to head home shortly when train is due.x

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 11, 2026, 09:32:23 AMDid you enjoy yourself at least a little bit?

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 11, 2026, 09:42:59 AMIt was ok. Better then being at home I guess

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 11, 2026, 12:23:48 PMI have been thinking about how I have changed since I signed up here at the end of January. I have really started growing in confidence and I'm.....well, just happier. Before boring you all on here with my inane stories, I knew I was trans, that I've known since I was a wee nipper, but I guess maybe I didn't know how to become something more than just the feeling or concept. I'm not sure I'm making sense there.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 11, 2026, 03:12:16 PMThank you for that.
When my kids were still young I introduced  them to Monty Python and Dr Who. The girls latched on and still love both.
One time my wife, my youngest and I were at Disneyland. We were getting on a ride and a cast member was checking how many in our party. I told my daughter to play along. When asked I did the one, two five bit and my daughter said three sir. So I said. The cast member looked at as like we were stupid. We were both very upset he didn't get it.

I recently discovered the series Broadchurch. With David Tennant. Wow it's good.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 11, 2026, 03:40:33 PMI never knew the writer of Father Ted was a trans hater. Shame as I loved that too.

I guess my list of favourites is a little different! Keeping up appearances, Last of the summer wine and Some mothers do have em being ones I love.

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 11, 2026, 03:31:01 PMIn as straight a face as you can imagine said "all bleeding stops eventually" then walked away.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 11, 2026, 03:43:51 PMGraham Linehan is the writer. Doesn't change the fact that the comedy is brilliant. I'm not one for cancel culture.

I grew up around the birth of alternative comedy. Comedians like Alexie Sayle (still love his podcasts) and later Stewart Lee (one of my favorite comics) or earlier comedy shows like Blackadder, The Mary Whitehouse Experience, Red Dwarf. But it's surrealist humour that gets me the most. Things like the IT crowd and Toast of London or The league of Gentlemen. Totally nuts.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 11, 2026, 03:57:24 PMI used to watch red dwarf loads as a kid! Loved it. Trying to get Kryton to say smeg head 🤣

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 11, 2026, 07:37:53 AMMy football (proper football!) team is playing on TV tomorrow afternoon so I'll be keeping my dad company for that but hopefully Monday-Wednesday I will have an opportunity to get out and explore again.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 11, 2026, 03:57:24 PMI used to watch red dwarf loads as a kid! Loved it. Trying to get Kryton to say smeg head 🤣

Quote from: Sephirah on April 11, 2026, 05:55:40 PMI have to ask, Sarah. What football team is that? I am not huge on the sport but I know the rudimentary stuff. And... I mean my natural instinct is say Newcastle, haha. Please correct me. <3

Quote from: Sephirah on April 11, 2026, 05:59:31 PMYup. This is why I get you and Sarah, Charlotte. We are birds of a feather. Red Dwarf was my go to. Sarah... I love your taste also. I will admit some alternative stuff was a little bit "too" alternative. Shows like "The Young Ones". I just thought that was a more modern version of Monty Python. And equally silly.

Blackadder, absolutely. Rowan Atkinson is just.. he's one of a kind.

Did you ever watch "Peep Show" or "Spaced", Sarah?

Quote from: Sephirah on April 11, 2026, 06:31:11 PMGirl, every time I speak to you, I think I get you more, haha. It's rather awesome. <3

Both of them are shows that are somewhat uniquely British. I have kind of a thing for David Mitchell, though. I think he is singularly amazing.

I will say, however, for anyone who ever liked Red Dwarf.. there was another 90s show with Chris Barrie, called The Brittas Empire. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Brittas_Empire). It was very much of its time.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 11, 2026, 06:16:50 PMYeah it's Newcastle United. We have no choice, We pop out the womb and are handed our black and white stripes immediately. I'm not a die hard fan when compared to other geordies but football is different up here. We only have one club for the whole city. It really is united. Every man women and boy follows the team. When they do well everyone is smiling the next day, when they loose you can see it on peoples faces.

The ground is right in the heart of the city centre so when they are playing, it doesn't matter where you are in the town centre you know when we score because the roar is deafening everywhere. The ground is often called the cathedral on the hill and it is for good reason.

Quote from: Sephirah on April 11, 2026, 07:00:29 PMI will say, Bottom was somewhat of a guilty pleasure of mine. He played off with Ade Edmondson incredibly well. It was pure slapstick, haha.

Girl, you're talking to someone who grew up on 60s and 70s radio comedies. Never think you're an old fart, okay? Because I will see you, and raise you "Steptoe & Son" :P

Quote from: Sephirah on April 11, 2026, 07:08:08 PMIt's very much like the two Sheffield teams. United and Wednesday. People are born into it. I was never too much bothered with either, honestly. But one of my friends in school was a die hard Blade, so I kind of just went with it.

Haway the lads! <3 All I know about Newcastle is Kevin Keegan and Alan Shearer.

Quote from: Sephirah on April 11, 2026, 07:46:30 PMThe fact that you can share this with people is magical, Sarah. I kind of always admired that about sports. Doesn't matter what it is. Who is obsessed with it... it's a medium which brings people together.

I need to ask something, though. Newcastle Brown Ale... is that an actual thing or a myth?

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 11, 2026, 07:12:12 PMHey we have to have some differences otherwise it would get boring!

I listen to radio 4 too. I remember the Hitchikers guide on the radio before the TV series. I still listen to just a minute or I'm sorry I haven't a clue, The news quiz etc. Alexi Sayle sometimes has some funny shows on there too.

Quote from: Sephirah on April 11, 2026, 08:06:10 PMWhy do you call it The Dog?

I mean I am sure it probably has something to do with "Hair of the dog"... but I would rather hear it from you than an AI bot.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 12, 2026, 06:33:00 AMMy mum did a DNA test and it revealed. Her side of the family was 70% British. I must be returning to my roots 😀

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 12, 2026, 06:36:58 AMOk, I need the translator
Tipples?

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 11, 2026, 08:02:04 PMYeah "the dog" as we call it is real. It's been brewed for over 100 years and still going strong. No longer brewed in the city centre though or in newcastle to be fair. Shame I used to like the malty smell of the brewery wafting through the streets of the West End. Be careful with it though, it's loopy juice! apparently it became popular in the states for a while too.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 12, 2026, 06:46:53 AMI remember the smell in the city centre when the brewery was there. Early 2ks I think. When I was young I drunk quite a bit of it. Nothing tastes quite like it to be honest. Very lethal though.

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 12, 2026, 06:40:13 AMNot surprising considering the colonial past. Even the Irish were British back then. We did get about ha ha! "The sun never sets on the British Empire" was actually very true at one point.
Did it sugest a region? sometimes surnames can give an indication though with it being your mum the orignal surname would need to be traced.

How easy is it research family trees over there? Did the US always have acurate census data to track?

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 12, 2026, 07:27:53 AMDid you find any noteable connections?

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 12, 2026, 07:41:42 AMMy ancestry has some interesting stuff. I've seen pictures of ancestors at some famous battlefields in the American Civil War. My  maternal grandfather was a tank commander in WW2. My paternal great grandfather was a engineer for and friend of Henry Ford.

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 12, 2026, 10:15:53 AMI researched my family history for over forty years. My database has over 4,000 relatives dating back to the 1700s.

There is a lot of online genealogy databases online but most are crap. They are more of a collection of surnames and lack proper verification that the families are linked. It takes time to check records and cross-reference with other records to maintain accuracy.

I have certified birth, marriage, and death certificates for my direct lineage going back to Lincolnshire in the early 1800s.

Quote from: big kim on April 12, 2026, 11:18:31 AMMum was a Scot from Buckie. Dad son of an Irishman and English mother. Likely a bit of Viking in there too  as I'm tall and blonde/silver and Mum was tall and fair haired.
Would have liked the red hair of our Great Grandfather's, it skipped my parents and sister and myself but both her daughters are red heads and grandson.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 12, 2026, 11:17:33 AMLincoln is a lovely city Lori, very underated. I've been there with work before, very impressive cathedral, used to be the tallest in Europe for quite sometime.

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 12, 2026, 02:28:51 PMHe was born in Marsh Chapel in 1808. He moved to Leeds for work as a Potter. When the potteries shut down, they moved to Swinton. Then that one went bankrupt, so they moved to Louth, Lincolnshire. He is buried there. After his death, his wife and children moved back to Leeds.

I have read some books about Louth by local historians, but I would love to visit his grave someday. I would stop by the Parish church (St. Margaret's?) and have a peek at their registers to see if I can learn who his parents were.

While in Leeds, they married at Leeds Minster. I have some old photos of what it looked like before all the remodeling was done.

Quote from: KathyLauren on April 13, 2026, 01:34:48 PMYou have so much history there!  Around here, 1604 is as early as there is recorded history.  (Of course, there were people here long before then, and stuff happened, but that's when the first Europeans arrived and started recording history.) 

I used Google Maps to see where Bothal Castle was, and as I zoomed out to get my bearings, saw that there is another castle just down the road (Morpeth).  And didn't you show us yet another just a few days ago?  And weird to think that any of them are still private homes.  I imagine introducing myself to a neighbour and saying, "Hi, I'm Kathy.  My wife and I just bought the castle across the street."

Quote from: davina61 on April 13, 2026, 01:47:36 PMJust the other side of the hills to me is Eastnor Castle, not a proper castle its a privet residence for the family that owns Eastnor estate just built in a castellated style .1811 to 1820 is when it was built.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 13, 2026, 05:53:09 PMWell I've managed to make myself feel really flat and depressed tonight. Not how I thought my day would end.

Hopefully start afresh in the morning. Think it's going to be another good day weather wise so that should brighten my mood.

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 13, 2026, 06:00:02 PMI hope it wasn't something I said. If so, I apologize.

You are a warm and wonderful woman, and I would never intentionally try to make you feel bad.

Cheer up, petal! We love you here!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 14, 2026, 02:12:24 AMNo, it wasn't anything you said. Lori. It was what I said about feeling lonely. The truth hurts sometimes. Anyway it's a glorious day in paradise today so onwards and upwards as they say.

Thanks Charlotte and Kellie. It's good to know I have virtual friends at least! Sorry to moan on, I always try to present a positive happy front on here but I let things slip a bit last night.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 14, 2026, 02:46:59 AMYou're like one of the most positive and upbeat people I know. So don't apologise for being down last night. We all have tough times which don't define you. It can be hard not having so many people in your life so get that. You definitely deserve a life partner if that is indeed what you desire. I found my partner totally by accident at a fur meet. Started as friends and he wasn't really my type per se, but now totally my type. Life tends to throw things in the mix when you're least looking for them. I'm sure you'll get such opportunity, just got to know when to grab it!

Love Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 14, 2026, 02:58:34 AMThanks for saying that Charlotte.

I was OK without a partner for most of my life and didn't feel like I needed one or that I was missing out as I did have friends but one by one I've been ditched to where I only have 1 friend left but she has a family and I don't get to see her as much anymore. I think it's the realisation that when my parents go I will be totally alone that set me off feeling melancholly. I have time to rectify things though so I need to look at building confidence and self esteem (which I've never really had) so these episodes are a thing of the past.

I've got a lot to offer I think if I can only get a chance.

Quote from: davina61 on April 14, 2026, 04:09:19 AMI have friends in the hot rod club but the only other friend is Deb and she only gets in touch if she wants something now as she has turned into a recluse after her son got killed in a RTC.
 I live on my own but I like it as I can do what I like, easy to get bored sometimes though at night.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 14, 2026, 10:48:39 AMThanks Kellie. I've done it to myself I suppose. I can't help people ditching me for no reason but that didn't mean I had to retreat in on myself.

I'll figure it out, I can be strong when I need to be. I beat smoking, I beat alcohol, I lost 10 stone (held it off for about 15 years too so I can do it again), that takes a strong will.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 14, 2026, 10:59:48 AMI need the translator again. How much is a stone?

Quote from: KathyLauren on April 14, 2026, 11:21:16 AM6.36 kg.  Oh, you want that in American?  14 lbs.

I always get a giggle out of Brits measuring body weight (and nothing else) in stones.  I thought we Canucks had the market cornered on bizarre combinations of metric and imperial units.

(https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/55207468148_20eb3da70b_c.jpg)

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 14, 2026, 11:39:02 AMI thought Americans used imperial measurements?

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 14, 2026, 01:24:20 PMWhen I was a wee lad, (I did that for my English friends). The schools taught Pounds, inches, miles and the like. When I hit middle school (that's 7th & 8th grade where I was), schools started trying to push metrics. I have a general understanding. I have to convert to approximant American in my head. My wife uses metrics being a doctor. It will be a hard push to convert the USA completely. One thing I always found interesting is electricity is all metric. Watts, Ohms and voltage are all measured in the metric system. I understand that completely. Its hard changing what you have been taught as a kid.
Yet I was taught a boy is this a girl is that. Here I am learning that is wrong. I may have fiddily bits but I'm a girl. You can teach an old dog new tricks. The dog just has to want to learn 😁

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 16, 2026, 05:01:56 PMHaven't posted for two days, Nothing to report really. I've been a bit flat the last few days. I need to perk myself up at the weekend. Just struggling to get the positive energy going this week. We all have times like that though I suppose.

Hopefully a weekend free from packing stuff and going to the waste tip. Bored with that for now.

I can't wait to get moved into my new home but at the same time I will have to pack up all my clothes, shoes and other stuff and I won't be able to dress how I want for a week or two, maybe more as I will need to stay at my Mum & dad's place until the new house gets a rewire, heating system and a multitude of other things. It's going to be a bit hard for me to be honest.

Anyway I'll stop feeling sorry for myself and stop waffling on.

If the weather holds I might get out somewhere again. I enjoyed my little wander the other day.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 16, 2026, 05:17:39 PMDefinitely hard to be massively upbeat doing repetitive graft all week so totally understand! Hope you have a better weekend as you deserve. It's not far off now and I like you am totally ready for it as wiped out from work already!

Gonna be tough not having your clothes . I hope that time flies up to your moving in date.

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Sephirah on April 17, 2026, 11:28:38 PMGood grief, Sarah. 0-14 pages in the blink of an eye. Old Top Gear would be proud. <3

To go back to one of your much earlier posts... the last time I drank was on my 18th birthday, a brand called "Caffrey's"

It made me so loopy that I never touched alcohol again. I have thought about it a time or two since, but with the medication I am on, it would likely kill me.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 18, 2026, 08:17:21 AMI need the translator again
Gin Gan

Quote from: PhilippaRees on April 21, 2026, 04:07:42 AMI've not been about much recently so I'm just catching up and I don't know why but I love your new profile picture.

Quote from: Emma1017 on April 21, 2026, 08:01:17 AMSarah, I love the photos. You can feel the history in each one and what a great day to be out and about!

Love the avatar photo as well.

By the way, does this look familiar?

(https://i.ibb.co/gbkWt88s/haltwhistle-uk.jpg) (https://imgbb.com/)

Quote from: Emma1017 on April 21, 2026, 11:09:17 AMSarah, I'm glad I finally found out what that office was. The view is from the flat I rented over the years when I was excavating at Vindolanda.  I still have my pint glass from the Black Bull.

I'm sorry that I never got to Featherstone Castle.  Spent too much time excavating the local Roman ruins and drinking beer in the pubs like Twice Brewed.  Great memories.

Have a great trip to the castle!

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 21, 2026, 11:23:11 AMI've got work today and tomorrow.  Then off for 3 days.
I get ti see deer fairy regularly. I almost took out 4 last week. They ran across the road on my way to work.

Glad you got out with your mum. My parents are across the country from me. Get to see them every 3 or 4 years.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 21, 2026, 12:04:12 PMThis i from our house when we lived in California they were 50 feet from our front door

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 21, 2026, 02:07:16 PMWell poop it didn't work. Sorry I'll try again later

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 21, 2026, 02:07:16 PMWell poop it didn't work. Sorry I'll try again later

Quote from: Sephirah on April 21, 2026, 03:24:05 PMKellie, go to https://postimages.org/

You don't need an account with them. Just choose an image (or images) to upload to the site from your device. They will then give you a link to use to put between the IMG tags.

(You want the one that says "Direct Link" from the list of links they provide for you)

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 21, 2026, 05:11:35 PMI was trying to use the button up top.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 22, 2026, 03:19:01 PMHope that you can go full time sometime soon. I can't imagine how tough it is keeping all that caged, but I do understand your reasons.

Sounds like your new house will really help.

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 22, 2026, 03:13:25 PMTo those who managed to obtain a semi or reasonably passable female voice roughly how long did it take you? Were you able to do it without voice surgery?

I will also see if my finances might allow me to start electolysis soon though I think my money is going to be tied up with renovating the new house. I don't earn very much money so I can't spend as much as I would want to on this stuff.

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 22, 2026, 03:28:39 PMI would focus on the electrolysis first. It is a long process, but worth every penny spent. Voice coaching is available for free, and you can track your progress with free apps like Voice Tools.

I was able to get voice training for free from the VA, until a certain someone decided transgender veterans do not deserve any transition-related care. Fortunately, I have been seeing the voice therapist via video chat for six months, and only my last session was canceled.

I do not feel my voice is "passable" by any means. But I realized there are many women with deep voices, and people think that is sexy.

Kathleen Turner
Lauren Bacall
Emma Stone
Demi Moore
Suzanne Pleshette
Kirstie Alley
Grace Jones
P!nk
Janis Joplin
Kim Carnes

I figure we are in good company. Electrolysis will be the best investment, in my opinion.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 22, 2026, 04:08:10 PMIs £60 p/hour a reasonable rate for electrolysis? There might be a lady in my town of birth who might do transgender customers. How many sessions would you normally plan to have in a month?

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 22, 2026, 04:20:39 PMThats pretty reasonable to be honest. For facial hair I don't know how frequent, as I use laser for my face.

Only done electrolysis down there. You do need to grow the hair about 3-5mm long though.

C😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 22, 2026, 03:13:25 PMTo those who managed to obtain a semi or reasonably passable female voice roughly how long did it take you?

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 22, 2026, 03:57:24 PMI'm not sure if you can go do that sort of thing when in boymode either.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 22, 2026, 04:08:10 PMHow many sessions would you normally plan to have in a month?

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 22, 2026, 05:05:48 PMI understand getting the voice pitch higher will be tough without surgery but I have seen many examples of lower voices that are passable. I should be able to improve it from where I am now at least. I must admit I struggle with some of the concepts when it comes to voice training.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 22, 2026, 05:12:55 PMI had the same singing voice. Though my dog chimes in when I try. Seems everyone is a critic.

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 22, 2026, 05:13:36 PMThe best lesson I learned is that it is not about pitch. If you just raise your pitch, you'll sound like a cartoon character. The key is not to speak from your throat and chest, but to speak from your mouth. I struggled with understanding what the therapist meant by that. She had me put a straw in a glass of water and talk while blowing bubbles through the straw.

It took some practice, but I finally realized the difference. After that, I could speak through my mouth instead of the sound coming from my throat and chest. Experiment with it.

If you can master that, raising your pitch just a little and speaking a little softer is a huge help. I got ma'am-ed today, so I must be doing something right.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 22, 2026, 05:24:20 PMWell it still sounds an odd concept but I'll grab some straws next time I'm grocery shopping and give it a try. At least it sounds like a practical demonstration I could get my head around.

Thanks Lori

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 23, 2026, 12:54:45 AMI still need to try this as all other avenues just make my voice break and my throat get quickly congested due to ENT issues. I'm hoping this might help as i cant even sustain my male voice without problems

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 23, 2026, 09:07:33 AMI would laugh if Lori is just trolling us for a giggle! I can't help thinking I'm going to blow water all over the place!

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 23, 2026, 09:34:46 AMYes, you may blow water all over, but I'm not trolling you. It teaches you to use the breath from your mouth to speak, instead of using the air from your chest. It is called forward resonance and is helpful for many things, such as singing or other voice issues. There are other exercises for this, too; just do a search. This was the one that made it click, so I understood what she was trying to teach me.

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on April 25, 2026, 12:30:52 PMI hope you have been chilling out today.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 25, 2026, 12:52:15 PMBeen feeling a bit sorry for myself to be honest Chrissy. I'll snap out of it soon though.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 25, 2026, 12:26:09 PMI've not done anything much at all today. To be honest I've been really depressed and flat all day. I haven't even been bothered to cook anything for my tea.

I am somewhat neurodivergent and have an extreme sensitivity to sounds. It can be an alarm in the distance the sound of someone eating, rustling papers, someone clicking a pen or tapping their feet, people whistling, there are many examples. I even have a pair of indudtrial ear defenders that I have near me at home as I sometimes have to kill all noise to stop going crazy. It's either autism or misophonia according to my therapist, I'm not sure which, but I don't see the point in chasing a diagnosis as it doesn't really make any difference.

Anyway, I was in the office yesterday and there was a lot of "keyboard clackers" as I call them. People who hammer excessively hard on their keyboards or people with long nails tapping away loudly. It can be a real trigger for me and I had a bit of an overload/ attack yesterday and had to go home earlier than normal. For some reason, after I've had an attack like that, for the next few days I seem to be really depressed and have a really blue mood. I also get migraine headaches too. I'm guessing it's linked somehow but I don't know enough about it to be sure.

Anyway I'm hoping I'll snap out of this funk tomorrow and go and do something else or this blog will sound so miserable lol!

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 26, 2026, 03:49:04 AMHope you're feeling a bit better today Sarah? Sad to hear you been suffering since friday 😢

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 26, 2026, 04:50:57 AMThanks Charlotte. Jeez I was a bit of a moaning minnie last night! Sorry about that.

I slept from 11:30 ish to 9:00 this morning! That's not like me! I'm still not 100% but I'm feeling a fair bit better yes.

Think I will do a bit of cooking today to kick start my mood. I haven't even been showered or properly dressed yet! Lazy mornings aren't normally my thing!

Quote from: davina61 on April 26, 2026, 11:02:56 AMAbout like when I go to make something, nearly always short of recipe ingredients. Planning on making a fish pie for next week but will have to get a pint of milk!

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 26, 2026, 11:37:09 AMI like the solitude of the country. Besides, people get weird when you have horses, goats and chickens in town.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 26, 2026, 11:32:43 AMI guess this is why i like living in the suburbs. Local shops 5 mins walk away, supermarket about 2 miles and Walsall town centre 1 mile. Never a big issue to get things. Dont have such stunning countryside though!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 26, 2026, 12:16:07 PMOh there are shops closer Charlotte but they are all hell on earth on the weekend so I go to a newish one that's pretty quiet!

It has a neurodiverse hour in the afternoons where they turn off the music, turn down the volume of the beeps on the tills and don't do shelf stacking. It's bliss! Plus the local ones don't tend to have the more exotic ingrediants.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 26, 2026, 12:16:07 PMOh there are shops closer Charlotte but they are all hell on earth on the weekend so I go to a newish one that's pretty quiet!

It has a neurodiverse hour in the afternoons where they turn off the music, turn down the volume of the beeps on the tills and don't do shelf stacking. It's bliss! Plus the local ones don't tend to have the more exotic ingrediants.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 26, 2026, 12:27:59 PMI've heard of shops doing this. I wish there were more.
I don't know about your side of the pond but restaurants on this side had gotten so loud. I end up turning off my hearing aids and have to rely on my wife to deal with the wait staff. It gets painful. I wish restaurants would go back to a subtle noise level

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 26, 2026, 01:29:52 PMI'm going to sound like a real sad bugger here but I have no one to go to restaurants with so I haven't been to one for years. No idea if they are loud or not!

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 26, 2026, 01:33:10 PMI go to restaurants alone. I'm a bit out going and will start a conversation with anyone.  My daughters can't do this. I've had some great conversations and not so great. My daughters say I'm weird

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 26, 2026, 01:41:28 PMI go alone too. I don't go for conversation or just to be out. I go to EAT, and where I go depends on what I plan to eat. Alone, or with somebody, doesn't matter to me. It is nice to share a meal with friends, but that doesn't stop me from enjoying the foods I crave.

You can do it.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 26, 2026, 01:53:28 PMI just don't think I would enjoy it Lori, I'm too self concious. I love that you and Kellie can do it, but you are both stronger people than me.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 26, 2026, 01:53:28 PMI just don't think I would enjoy it Lori, I'm too self concious. I love that you and Kellie can do it, but you are both stronger people than me.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 26, 2026, 02:06:00 PMMaybe a day when you're feeling on top of the world is the day to try it. Take yourself out for a treat to celebrate a good day. Push that energy to your body and smile. Stand tall because you are great in yourself.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 26, 2026, 02:06:00 PMAwwww i wish I could give you some of my dont give a ____ energy! I totally get it though as i was similar at one time. But then I started my job and got sent to China, USA, Sweden etc all alone. So i ended up eating alone sometimes and those fears along with many others went.

Sometimes things come up in life that push you forwards however uncomfortable it is at first.

But honestly most people dont even notice you exist let alone care out there. But again its about holding your head high, shoulders up and walking in with conviction. Exude confidence even if you aren't. Takes energy and sonetimes a good day, but can be done.

Maybe a day when you're feeling on top of the world is the day to try it. Take yourself out for a treat to celebrate a good day. Push that energy to your body and smile. Stand tall because you are great in yourself.

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 26, 2026, 02:24:58 PMI don't have much self esteem or confidence for a multitude of reasons. I'm a bit broken on that front to be fair. I'm a solitary creature.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 26, 2026, 02:33:17 PMYou've still got to do things at your pace and that make you happy however. Please dont feel like I'm ever saying you should be a certain way,  as i know how tough it is when your mind is telling you something. Whats easy for one is impossible for another. But I'm here if you ever need encouragement or anything to help you along. We'll all get there...in our own time...our own way 🙂

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 26, 2026, 01:38:07 PM

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 26, 2026, 01:33:10 PMI go to restaurants alone. I'm a bit out going and will start a conversation with anyone.  My daughters can't do this. I've had some great conversations and not so great. My daughters say I'm weird

Apart from being too shy for that, I would feel like I'm table blocking. I don't even go into cafe's on my own. It's silly really, Single people have a right to enjoy the nice things in life too.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 26, 2026, 02:23:46 PMJust do something small. Go out and set in a café with a coffee or tea. Read the news. Just do that a few times then get a pastry one day. If it get overwhelming take the pastry home. You don't have to scream I'm here alone. Just enjoy a nice day or some kind of win in your life. You don't have to do it the first time, just getting into the mind set I want to do this will open you up.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 26, 2026, 04:57:24 PMThanks ladies. It's appreciated. I'm a bit of an emotional wreck at the moment. The loneliness is getting on top of me a bit here. I'm not much company so I think I'm going to turn in and try again tomorrow. Sorry if I'm being a bit of a debbie downer.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 27, 2026, 02:10:58 AMI don't know what came over me last night. I cried non stop for an hour and a half last night. I'm normally pretty upbeat. I think the enormity of having to deal with all this on my own just got to me a bit. Plus I might still be suffering a bit of a panic hangover from Friday.

I like to try to lift other people up on here and make them smile if I can, I'm not very good when I'm in the doldrums like last night. I don't like to post my woes on here if I can help it. Sorry for being miserable.

The sun is shinning this morning. I have a lecture at 12:00-14:00 which gives me some focus for the day so hopefully I will be a bit brighter.

Quote from: davina61 on April 27, 2026, 03:50:13 AMA bit late to this post but first time I went out to the shops I thought everyone would stare, not a look or glance! Be positive and no one will notice.I am a loner as well, always been happy in my own company as long as I have something to occupy my brain.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 27, 2026, 07:06:11 AMWhere I'm at we don't get a lot of rocks. It's mostly sand.
Why would you make a garden of stacked rocks?

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 27, 2026, 07:02:17 AMChange of subject needed!

Why do people do this with rocks? Is this just a UK thing?

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Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 27, 2026, 07:35:51 AMNever seen that before! But then i don't get out much. There's some serious effort there.

C 😻

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 27, 2026, 09:48:22 AMStone stacking, or rock balancing, is a meditative practice that has become a creative art form. On the meditative side, it involves finding the center of gravity of each of a wide variety of stones, then balancing them atop one another, sometimes precariously. This is the case when large stones are balanced on smaller ones. It requires a lot of focus, and sometimes multiple people.

If the stones just gradually get smaller from bottom to top, it is likely an art exhibit. That cave is clearly done for art based on the number, general size, shape, and colors of the stones used.

Quote from: Snowangel500 on April 27, 2026, 09:05:37 PMHello Stottie Girl! I wanted to pop in and say hi, I'm Kellie's daughter I finally managed to get on here! Thank you for all the love and support you've shown her and me💙

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 28, 2026, 02:56:43 AMHmmmm grey and miserable and cold today. I think that has put paid to my mini adventure plans for today but I'm off tomorrow too so hopefully I'll get another bite at it.

Off to Ikea instead to get some inspiration for my new kitchen. I need to get a design finalised before I move in as I will need the sparky to move the cooker point and sockets etc pretty much straight away.

Ikea is pretty cheap nasty for most stuff but they do have a good kitchen section.

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 28, 2026, 08:32:30 PMI like the stupid and not-so-stupid faces. Some just make me smile, others make me laugh. Keep them all.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 29, 2026, 01:44:58 AMAwwww your photo looks great and you do have a talent for cute comedic expressions.

Did you say you had a day off? If so hope you enjoy it. Looks like sunshine even if not mega hot.

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 29, 2026, 01:39:27 AMThanks Lori!

I try not to be boring lol!

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Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 29, 2026, 07:35:16 AMI think that smile is over the top. Kind of a joker look

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 29, 2026, 09:57:21 AMLovely pictures of Northumberland. Looks like you had a nice day too. Its been ages since I've been and my boyfriend has never been so will probably come up again sometime for a break.

Quote from: davina61 on April 29, 2026, 11:46:21 AMNot sure where my post went? Anyway I said the fly that low over here, if you are on the hills you look down on them flying up the valley. Pics are smashing my dear, all of them !!!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 29, 2026, 11:26:09 AMThat's the castle I think you went to Charlotte. Am I right? Obviously you would have been unlikely to see it from this angle though.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 29, 2026, 11:55:39 AMI still prefer f22 & f35.
I had a Mitchell Bomber take off from our local airport. Right over my place of work

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on April 29, 2026, 11:59:15 AMWent to both castles though didn't pay to go in as back then money was poor. But had a look around which was nice. Also went to Seahouses and Cragside. Stayed at Ashington in the Premier iNn as was cheap!! Just a 3 day visit.

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on April 29, 2026, 02:32:28 PMHow much is a ten pence coin (dated around 2015) worth?

1/10 of a pound?  Is it spendable now?

It is about the size of a USA or Canadian quarter. 

Quote from: KathyLauren on April 29, 2026, 05:41:20 PMYikes, now I feel OLD!  "Yes, sonny, I remember when you could get that $3 candy bar for 3 cents!"  😂

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 29, 2026, 01:47:09 PMMy favorite aircraft has to be the A10. It's just a flying brute.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 02, 2026, 04:28:14 PMWell, I wish I had something to report on here but as it's a British Bank Holiday and I don't like lot's of crowds I tend to keep my head down.

I'm in a much better place mentally this weekend.

I'm on week 9 of the conveyancing process for my house move. I'm told it takes typically 10-12 weeks to get a sale done so I mustn't be far from completion. I hope at least. Not looking forward to moving back in with my folks even if it is a temporary measure. I like my independence and it also means Sarah will have to stay hidden for a while. I'll be on here though, you aren't escaping me that easily!

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on May 02, 2026, 04:32:30 PMGlad that you're feeling better this weekend. Totally get not wanting to be back at your folks. You get used to being able to just do what you want!

Charlotte 😻

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 03, 2026, 07:39:35 AMIf you didn't mention it was a wig I would never have known

Quote from: big kim on May 03, 2026, 10:56:29 AMA big frog sunning itself on the edge of my friend's pond. Got frogspawn in there again but the fish usually eat the tadpoles. Been interested in wildlife since I was a kid in the 60s, love to see our few native reptiles.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 03, 2026, 02:42:36 PMI'm off Monday as well. I work Tuesday and Wednesday. Then I have Thursday Friday and Saturday off.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on May 03, 2026, 02:58:49 PMDamn am i the only one stipid enough to work 40 hours all 5 days! Doing something wrong lol

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 03, 2026, 03:10:28 PMAll my shifts are 12 hours. I do a 36 hour week. Then a 48 hour week the next. I would love a straight 40 hour week.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 03, 2026, 03:29:00 PMOur regional manager keeps trying to get members of our department to travel to other plants. No one in our department wants to travel. It's bad enough we have to travel a couple times a year for training.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on May 03, 2026, 02:58:49 PMDamn am i the only one stipid enough to work 40 hours all 5 days! Doing something wrong lol

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 04, 2026, 09:07:42 AMWhat is a bank Holiday? Our banks only close on major holidays like Memorial day, 4th of July and the like.

Quote from: big kim on May 04, 2026, 11:01:19 AMAlways worked shifts so usually worked bank holidays. Loving retirement.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 04, 2026, 11:04:48 AMWe have 11 national holidays, federal and state governments get all of those as holidays. I get 5 holidays where the plant is actually shut down. The ones where the plant is shut down I get paid for. For Christmas and Thanksgiving its a 2 day holiday. During Christmas through New Year's the plant is down and we do maintenance we have been putting off.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on May 04, 2026, 02:47:25 PMIt definitely differs amongst employers in the UK. I get 30 days but that is working full time. The company shuts between xmas and new year so those days are subtracted from our holiday entitlement without choice. I can't carry days over, so lose them if not taken. I can only gain days by working a day off like a weekend. Hours over during the week are unpaid.

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on May 04, 2026, 05:03:10 PM@Dawn Kellie  @Charlotte Kitty 
@Stotti Girl @Lori Dee

I am having a difficult time attempting to navigate with my employer, my work hours, sick time, holiday pay, unscheduled time off, PAID vacation time and possible bonuses.

Oh WAIT! I am self-employed, I have none (ZERO) of those benefits unless I PAY for them, and for 3 months during Federal income tax season I many times work 7 day weeks and long 15+ hour days. If I don't work there is no paycheck and no future growth in my business.

Now, mind you, I have worked with past employers for many years HOWEVER I am very happy with my present situation, I would make a terrible employee for any company.

Danielle [Northern Star Girl]

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on May 04, 2026, 05:03:10 PM@Dawn Kellie  @Charlotte Kitty 
@Stotti Girl @Lori Dee

I am having a difficult time attempting to navigate with my employer, my work hours, sick time, holiday pay, unscheduled time off, PAID vacation time and possible bonuses.

Oh WAIT! I am self-employed, I have none (ZERO) of those benefits unless I PAY for them, and for 3 months during Federal income tax season I many times work 7 day weeks and long 15+ hour days. If I don't work there is no paycheck and no future growth in my business.

Now, mind you, I have worked with past employers for many years HOWEVER I am very happy with my present situation, I would make a terrible employee for any company.

Danielle [Northern Star Girl]

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on May 04, 2026, 05:03:10 PM@Dawn Kellie  @Charlotte Kitty 
@Stotti Girl @Lori Dee

I am having a difficult time attempting to navigate with my employer, my work hours, sick time, holiday pay, unscheduled time off, PAID vacation time and possible bonuses.

Oh WAIT! I am self-employed, I have none (ZERO) of those benefits unless I PAY for them, and for 3 months during Federal income tax season I many times work 7 day weeks and long 15+ hour days. If I don't work there is no paycheck and no future growth in my business.

Danielle [Northern Star Girl]

Quote from: davina61 on May 05, 2026, 04:10:33 AMI did that for 8 years, trouble is once you have worked for yourself it make you a bad employee as you want to do stuff your way!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 06, 2026, 11:49:26 AMI woke up in a very good mood today with a smile on my face, even going to work and having to cover for two other people as well as my own job didn't lower my mood. The sun is shining too which helps.

Checked my email this afternoon and my buyers solicitor has agreed the contracts for my house sale so I'm signing the contracts at my end tonight. It's not legally binding yet but it's pretty darn close. Still waiting on the sellers of the house I'm moving to but that is near the finish line too. I could be gone in a few weeks hopefully.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 06, 2026, 11:49:26 AMI woke up in a very good mood today with a smile on my face, even going to work and having to cover for two other people as well as my own job didn't lower my mood. The sun is shining too which helps.

Checked my email this afternoon and my buyers solicitor has agreed the contracts for my house sale so I'm signing the contracts at my end tonight. It's not legally binding yet but it's pretty darn close. Still waiting on the sellers of the house I'm moving to but that is near the finish line too. I could be gone in a few weeks hopefully.

Quote from: KathyLauren on May 06, 2026, 01:55:42 PMHaving just been through that process myself, I know how that feels.  That is worth smiling about.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 06, 2026, 11:49:26 AMI woke up in a very good mood today with a smile on my face, even going to work and having to cover for two other people as well as my own job didn't lower my mood. The sun is shining too which helps.

Checked my email this afternoon and my buyers solicitor has agreed the contracts for my house sale so I'm signing the contracts at my end tonight. It's not legally binding yet but it's pretty darn close. Still waiting on the sellers of the house I'm moving to but that is near the finish line too. I could be gone in a few weeks hopefully.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 06, 2026, 02:41:11 PMI'd offer my truck but getting it there would take to long. I don't think it would fit on your streets

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on May 06, 2026, 03:04:59 PMWhen I was younger me and my housemate moved a few blocks away using a shopping trolley. Even put mattress and bed on it lol. Thats how classy we were living in one of Leeds roughest estates at the time!

C😻

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 06, 2026, 02:59:47 PMI don't know, you won't fit me some doors now you won't lend me your truck. I'm beginning to think you don't like me Kellie🤣🤣

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 06, 2026, 03:17:35 PMIt's that little bit of water I'd have to get past.

Quote from: davina61 on May 07, 2026, 03:44:38 AMWhen we moved from my parents place to our own house we put a box of stuff in the attic, it was still there 30 years later!

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 07, 2026, 03:12:24 PMI left this in the attic opening when we moved from our last house.
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Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 07, 2026, 03:12:24 PMI left this in the attic opening when we moved from our last house.
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Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on May 07, 2026, 03:07:39 PMAlways put things away for a later that never comes. I need to empty some junk my ex left in the loft.

Sarah might find interesting things in her new loft!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 07, 2026, 04:20:45 PMHa Ha you nutter Kellie! That could kill someone with a dicky ticker!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 08, 2026, 01:27:37 AMI mean it can but it can also just mean, as in this case, that you have a wicked sense of humour (like most Brits to be fair)

I can see why english is hard to understand for non speakers as context matters hugely. So many words in the UK have multiple meanings depending on the context. Is is not the same in the US?

There is a word used by Geordies (People from my area) that perfectly illustrates this, The word "Canny" can mean:

"She's a canny lass": She is a lovely/nice girl.
"These crisps are canny, like": These crisps are quite good.
"Gan canny": Go carefully / take care.
"Canny good": Very good.
"Canny job": You did a good job there.
"He's a canny man".Careful/Clever: Shrewd, knowing, cunning ("He's canny to your tricks").
It also sometimes acts as an intensifier (e.g., "I've been working canny hard")

Sometimes baffling to outsiders.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 08, 2026, 10:35:02 AMWell I'm glad my working day is over today. I have been covering for 3 other people today, to say today has been manic would be an understatement! Think I'm going to have a soak in the bath and unwind ready for the weekend, I might even use conditioner @KathyLauren lol!

Raining again here, hope it fairs up for the weekend.

Quote from: davina61 on May 08, 2026, 01:50:43 PMWe complain its cold but us Brits are made for cooler climates, mid 20s is as much as I can stand. Saying that any thing below 10c is a bit to cold for me!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 08, 2026, 04:49:47 PMHiya Hon!👋👋👋👋👋👋 nice to see you in my gaff!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 09, 2026, 02:03:54 PMWell I didn't manage to get out again today, awful weather. Going to have to go somewhere tomorrow, even if it's raining. Need to get out of the four walls, going stir crazy.

Quote from: Moonflower on May 09, 2026, 05:08:07 PMI like the perspective,

"The weather isn't the problem
The clothing is"

Or

"Weather is never unsuitable
There is always suitable clothing"

I hope this helps

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 09, 2026, 08:05:57 PMWith our summers you can only take off so much clothing. Then the prudes start complaining

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 10, 2026, 11:07:45 AMOK, opinion please.

a) Is this morally wrong to use dead animals as art?

b) Is my cat likely to want to eat this?

I've been to Fannies Emporium (a local antiques centre) and I really, really wanted to buy it! It's just soooo cute!

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Quote from: Sephirah on May 10, 2026, 03:08:50 PMTotally my kind of thing. But then I am not a cat person. I find the idea of Jerry being armed and slightly psychopathic kind of funny. Would have made the cartoons very different.

You could make an exhibit called "Sarah's Mouse of Horrors". I would come visit.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 10, 2026, 03:22:23 PMThere was a movie with Steve Carrell. His character made things like that. I cant find the movie now.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 10, 2026, 04:33:16 PMI found it. "Dinner for Schucks" it was made in 2010 and had Paul Rudd

Quote from: Sephirah on May 10, 2026, 06:08:52 PMI need to watch that movie, haha.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 12, 2026, 08:17:37 AMSarah's World Tour of Northumberland Part...??????
Sarah's continuing adventures in Northumberland!

Another cracking day in paradise! Honestly, you guys are going to think it's always blue skies and sunshine in the uk at this rate!

I had a little tootle up the coast to see another great Northumberland Castle and my personal favourite, the majestic ruin of Dunstanburgh Castle. Build in 1313 it's one of the more recent castles. It was hugely expanded in the 1380's by John of Gaunt, 1st Duke of Lancaster and was fought over and changed hands several times during the War of the Roses and it never recovered from those seiges. It occupies a large prominant site perched on top of a rocky outcrop overlooking the sea and is one of the most splendid ruins in England in my humble opinion.

Let me know what you think.

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Quote from: Lori Dee on May 12, 2026, 10:33:00 AMI love old castles, and your pics are beautiful!

Thanks for sharing.

Quote from: Gina P on May 13, 2026, 07:46:33 AMSuch beautiful pictures. I especially love the one with the flowers and the castle in the background. You are quite the photographer!

Quote from: Dances With Trees on May 13, 2026, 12:25:10 PMI hope you're remodeling the kitchen in your new home soon!

The ruins were magical!

Thanks.

Quote from: Lori Dee on May 13, 2026, 12:47:21 PMYou should take before/after photos to showcase what you have done.

I love doing that.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 13, 2026, 02:19:44 PMThanks Anni! one of my favourite walks that one. You start from the little fishing port of Craster which is home to the famous Craster Kippers. You might just be able to see the smokehouse at the top of the road in this picture I took on my way back.

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Quote from: Lori Dee on May 13, 2026, 03:28:54 PMI love this!

Really a beautiful shot, Sarah.

Quote from: Courtney G on May 13, 2026, 03:32:20 PMBeautiful photos, Sarah.

Quote from: Dances With Trees on May 14, 2026, 09:06:01 AMSuch a lovely looking town! Thanks, Sarah!

Of course, I'll be on the lookout for Craster Kippers.

A mutual friend strongly recommended Henderson's Sauce (Hendos, she called it, adding it goes on everything). So I ordered some. We'll see how it does on kippers.

Hugs,
Anni

Quote from: Sephirah on May 14, 2026, 12:52:47 PMHaha, can't think who that person was, Anni... *whistles*. If you ever find yourself in Full Monty country, Sarah, you should grab a bottle. For science. ;)

I am a big fan of Kippers. My grandad used to get them ALL the time. Mind you this was the guy who also used to swear by Tripe (you really don't want to know what that is) and beef dripping on sandwiches. The latter of which is actually very nice, but just don't ask what it does to your waistline.

Anyway... they have kind of a strong flavour from the smoke. I am not sure how much Hendos would add to them, if anything. Always worth a try though.

Sarah, I love your photography, but then you know this. You could have a sideline in making postcards from the UK. You would clean up!

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on May 15, 2026, 04:11:02 PMPuffins can be cute birds!

Quote from: big kim on May 15, 2026, 11:55:41 PMNot seen one living on the other coast. I get plenty of different bird habitats though. Surrounded by sea on 3 sides, lots of woodland,marshland and Marton Mere, a large freshwater lake and nature reserve.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 15, 2026, 04:22:05 PMYeah they are very cute. This is the closest I got last year as they had mostly left their burrows. I'm expecting much better opportunities this time round.

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Quote from: big kim on May 16, 2026, 05:37:39 AMNo bike. Visited the north east a few times when riding. Shincliffe,Guisborough, Whitley Bay

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 16, 2026, 06:23:00 AMI thought you had motorbikes?

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 16, 2026, 11:59:09 AMWhere is your next outing to? I so enjoy the pictures. I drove for 5 hours yesterday and only saw some Sandhill Cranes and a couple ponds i suspect had gators. Maybe I'll get some pictures of my wife's goats and share

Quote from: Sephirah on May 16, 2026, 01:51:11 PMSarah is the Sir David Attenborough of her generation.

"And here we see a Newcastle fan in their black and white finery. Watch how the fan becomes territorial when its claim to greatness is threatened. It truly is a wonder of the natural world!"

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 16, 2026, 03:04:48 PMLooks like a nice boat ride. Hope it is glass calm.

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on May 15, 2026, 05:45:56 PMI saw some in Iceland.  Was careful not to get too close to the cliff's edge.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 16, 2026, 02:57:40 PMOi!, you sayin I'm an old bloke like!

If I can't get any pictures on this trip I'm doing something wrong!

Quote from: Sephirah on May 16, 2026, 04:50:11 PMNo just that you see the beauty in the world. I am sorry.

Quote from: davina61 on May 17, 2026, 03:47:01 AMHave a good time my dear, went to Sweden on the ferry and sea was as calm as a mill pond on the way there. Choppy on the way back and my friend got so sea sick he was still green the next day when I dropped him off at his place!

Quote from: Lori Dee on May 17, 2026, 10:06:26 AMI hate neighbors like that. So inconsiderate. If they kept me up, I would wait until they went to bed and reciprocate with speakers in my window. If you want to keep me up all night, don't even think about getting any sleep yourself. Payback is a b*tch.

Quote from: Lori Dee on May 17, 2026, 10:06:26 AMI hate neighbors like that. So inconsiderate. If they kept me up, I would wait until they went to bed and reciprocate with speakers in my window. If you want to keep me up all night, don't even think about getting any sleep yourself. Payback is a b*tch.

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on May 17, 2026, 11:38:36 AMWhen i was about 16 to 17 I used to have a 2 x 150w and a bridged 350w amp running two big speaker cabs and a 15" subwoofer. Needless to say my neighbour was not happy when i got home from college or days off. I used to play tech step drum and bass with the clipping lights flashing on each amp. He'd go out in the garden looking for any random jobs to do!

I also remember the light falling off the ceiling downstairs due to the vibrations!

Of course would never be so antisocial as an adult now. Unless i had your neighbours. I'd connect an 18" sub to a signal generator at 35Hz sine then go away for the weekend!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 17, 2026, 09:55:41 AMI just hope my irritating neighbours aren't partying in their back garden with loud music again like they did last night. 12:15 and the music was still blasting😡 They have built a bar with hot tub complete with giant outdoor speakers in their garden and have regular parties whenever it's hot. That I will not miss!

Quote from: Sephirah on May 17, 2026, 12:17:14 PMA couple of burly Rotweilers would solve that issue in short order. Along with a subtle suggestion that parties make them irritable, they have a taste for inconsiderate, and know how to dig under fences. ;)

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 17, 2026, 01:48:54 PM3-1 to the toon! What a belta! a cracking day all round today then!

Excellent suggestions all round though I'm not sure my cat lucy would be overly keen on two rottweillers moving in!

Quote from: davina61 on May 17, 2026, 02:17:23 PMLow flying aircraft, I was sat on the sofa and a C10? flew past, from my 2nd floor flat I was looking at the side of it. What you need is my youngest lads old junior drag bike and fire that up, it was an RD 125 twin on expansion boxes and everyone complained it was painfull even at the drag track!

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 17, 2026, 02:55:22 PMHow did your football club do?

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 17, 2026, 03:19:26 PMAs  Gunners fan I'm happy this year

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on May 20, 2026, 01:11:06 PMDo those islands have lots of fjords?

Quote from: KathyLauren on May 20, 2026, 03:15:54 PMI had never heard of the Farne Islands.  But, from the name, I guessed they might be close to Lindisfarne, which I had heard of.  Sure enough, it is only a few km away.  Interesting place.  I am looking forward to seeing more pictures.

Quote from: Emma1017 on May 20, 2026, 04:35:03 PMStunning photos, Sarah and the birds are so cute!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 20, 2026, 04:37:01 PMThanks Kellie. How you doing today? Perked up any?

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 20, 2026, 03:36:23 PMIt is very close yes, you can see Lindisfarne and it's castle as well as Bamburgh castle and Dunstanburgh castle from the island. I'll nip over to Lindisfarne on one of my next trips so you can see what that's all about. Here's a couple more pics in the meantime.



Oops, forgot to edit the boat rail out of one of those!

Quote from: davina61 on May 21, 2026, 03:19:15 AMWell that put the seal on that!!!

Quote from: Sephirah on May 21, 2026, 02:19:29 PMI was going to say something about a kiss from a rose on the grey, but I'll refrain. ;)

Sarah, you know I love your photography. And I love that you can get to these incredible places to capture the beauty of the world. You have a real eye for this, sweetie. I will run out of space on my wall soon. I might have to use another room!

Quote from: davina61 on May 22, 2026, 11:46:47 AMWelding!! It was 27 on my car when I drove home. I am wearing the thinnest T shirt I have and a light skirt, time for an ice cream I think!!

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 22, 2026, 11:54:03 AMoooh ice cream the forbidden treat! I've had to ban it in my house as I cannot stop eating the stuff. It's like crack cocaine!!! I could murder a 99 right about now!

Quote from: Sephirah on May 22, 2026, 02:03:27 PMHaha, kids were addicted to the 99's. I am sure they still are. For folks who don't know what that is, it's a wafer cone with ice cream on top, and a Cadbury's Flake chocolate shoved into it. My local ice cream man used to shove 2 in there, one on each side.

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Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 22, 2026, 02:10:31 PMThat looks tasty. I don't do sweets that often, but I'd like to try it

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 22, 2026, 02:20:44 PMThey are nice, it's the flake that makes it. I'm not sure you guys have anything quite like the cadbury flake. They are lush!

Quote from: Sephirah on May 22, 2026, 02:28:21 PMI have seen reaction videos where US folks tried a Flake and yeah, I don't think it's a thing over there. Kind of like Aero. Because why have air in chocolate when you can have more chocolate? ;D

I can't stand any of the stuff, but I know it's like Kryptonite to most women, and people in general, haha.

LOL! You used to call that red stuff monkey's blood, too? That's awesome haha.

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 22, 2026, 02:49:53 PMIt's a Northern thing!

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 22, 2026, 02:33:23 PMIs it like a KitKat?

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 22, 2026, 02:53:59 PMCompared to the US you are all Northern. 🤣

Quote from: Sephirah on May 22, 2026, 02:28:21 PMBecause why have air in chocolate when you can have more chocolate? ;D

I can't stand any of the stuff, but I know it's like Kryptonite to most women, and people in general, haha.

Quote from: Sephirah on May 22, 2026, 03:28:38 PMHaha. I am allergic to refined sugars. Anything sweet makes me feel... really icky. There is definitely something wrong with me, lol. ;D Chocolate makes me want to throw up.

By latitude, Kellie is right. The UK is in the same kind of place as parts of Canada. So all of the continental US are southerners to us. Which is still rather weird to think about.

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 22, 2026, 04:15:23 PMI'm closer to the Tropic of cancer than y'all are to the Artic Circle

Quote from: Sephirah on May 22, 2026, 04:35:19 PMAnyone who says "Y'all" kind of pushes my buttons, haha. I have a thing for accents. *blushes*

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 22, 2026, 04:38:55 PMI thought you had an accent all this time.

Quote from: Sephirah on May 22, 2026, 05:33:27 PMYeah but it's not one anyone should be subjected to. :P Not if you value your ears.

Quote from: Sephirah on May 22, 2026, 05:33:27 PMYeah but it's not one anyone should be subjected to. :P Not if you value your ears.

Quote from: Sephirah on May 22, 2026, 02:28:21 PMI have seen reaction videos where US folks tried a Flake and yeah, I don't think it's a thing over there. Kind of like Aero. Because why have air in chocolate when you can have more chocolate? ;D

I can't stand any of the stuff, but I know it's like Kryptonite to most women, and people in general, haha.

LOL! You used to call that red stuff monkey's blood, too? That's awesome haha.

Quote from: Alana Ashleigh on May 22, 2026, 06:28:07 PMI've had flake many times. There's a few places that have it. Helps when you have family across the pond that send you some too.

Quote from: Lori Dee on May 22, 2026, 09:57:55 PMI have never had it.

But I have been called a "flake" a few times.

Does that count?

🤣

Quote from: Stottie Girl on May 23, 2026, 02:36:14 AMThe phrase "flake" doesn't come from the chocolate bar but it does kind of fit. Flakes crumble easily under the lightest of pressure! I think someone was being a bit harsh on you Lori, you don't strike me as someone who crumbles easily.

Quote from: davina61 on May 23, 2026, 02:57:11 PMNow get one on the Countryfile calendar!!

Quote from: Sephirah on May 23, 2026, 03:07:30 PMIs John Craven still alive? I haven't watched Countryfile in a hot minute. ;D