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Title: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 17, 2026, 08:17:29 PM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 17, 2026, 08:17:29 PM
Greetings,
It was suggested by Sarah B. that I start a blog to track my journey of before, during and after GRS.
I've compiled what I've already posted to keep it together. Let's see where it leads.
On 1 August 2026, I will begin one of the most important journeys of my life. I will travel to Bangkok, Thailand to undergo gender reassignment surgery at the Preecha Aesthetic Institute under the care of Dr Sutin. My surgery is scheduled for 6 August 2026.
Although this journey will take me thousands of kilometres from home, its true beginnings reach back much further. I have lived my life as a woman since I was seventeen. For more than four decades, I have built a life that reflects who I have always known myself to be. I have worked, travelled, formed friendships and experienced the many joys and challenges that have shaped me into the woman I am today.
Gender reassignment surgery has been a long time coming. It was never a decision I made lightly or impulsively. I needed to know that I was emotionally ready, financially prepared and mature enough to understand the significance of what I was choosing. After many months of research, planning and communication with the surgical consultation team, I reached a point where I knew the timing was right.
Paying the deposit and securing my surgery date was a defining moment. It transformed an idea that had lived quietly in my mind for many years into something real. From that moment, I began counting down the months, then the weeks and now the days.
Before I could organise the journey itself, I needed to complete an important personal chapter. I successfully updated the name and sex descriptor on my birth certificate. This process gave me a sense of freedom and closure after carrying the burden of outdated documents for almost forty years.
Receiving my new Australian passport was another deeply meaningful milestone. For the first time, I could prepare for international travel with identification that accurately reflected who I am. Holding that passport in my hands made the journey feel even more real. It represented more than permission to travel. It represented recognition, dignity and the completion of a long administrative process that had once seemed overwhelming.
With my documents complete, I was able to finalise my flights and accommodation. The consultation team in Bangkok has organised a clear, concise schedule covering my appointments, assessments, surgery and recovery. They have also arranged transport from the airport, to my consultations, to the hospital and later to my accommodation after I am discharged. Knowing these details have been carefully planned gives me peace of mind. It means I can focus on my health and recovery rather than worrying about navigating an unfamiliar city during such an important time.
My preparation has also involved a series of medical tests. I have completed blood tests, a urinalysis, an electrocardiogram and a chest X-ray. A requirement because I am over 45 (I'm now 59), these checks are required to confirm that I am medically able to cope with the procedure and anaesthetic.
My regular doctor is away on maternity leave so I met with another doctor named Dr Emma. She was kind, respectful and genuinely interested in helping me. There was no judgement or disapproval when I explained that I was preparing for gender reassignment surgery. She simply asked what I needed and did everything she could to assist me. Her warmth and professionalism reminded me how important compassionate medical care can be.
I received my electrocardiogram result immediately and it was completely normal. That news brought a great sense of relief. The remaining results were then prepared to be sent to the surgical team in Bangkok.
My hormone treatment is also part of my preparation. After many years of taking oral hormones and injections, my doctor changed me to Sandrena oestrogen gel. The purpose of this change was to prevent any damage to the live and kidneys as everything that is ingested goes via these organs. I apply it to the tops of my thighs and have experienced no problems with it. In preparation for surgery, I will stop my hormone treatment two weeks beforehand and restart it according to the surgeon's instructions, usually around seven days after the procedure.
There are many smaller practical matters to organise as well. I need to prepare my luggage, complete my travel documents, arrange mobile phone connectivity and make sure I have a suitable universal power adaptor. I also need to complete the Thai Digital Arrival Card before entering Thailand. I've been following a vlogger on You Tube who does regular updates on Thai visa requirements, changes and lifestyle. Very informative that helps keep me on track and prevent any mishaps entering and leaving country amongst other things.
I do not plan to pack heavily. August will be hot and humid in Bangkok so I will take loose, comfortable clothing that will be suitable for the hospital and my recovery. Sarongs will probably become an essential part of my wardrobe. I also plan to purchase some of the things I need after I arrive, as many everyday items such as toiletries and sanitary pads/napkins etc, are affordable in Bangkok.
Before surgery, I will have several appointments, the main one being the surgery consultation, 2 x psychiatric assessments which will determine suitability, more blood tests and cardiogram. I have no concerns about these assessments and tests. I have lived my life openly as a woman for more than forty years and I know that I am ready for this final stage of my transition.
I am excited about arriving in Bangkok a few days before my surgery. I hope to explore some of the city, visit temples, see the cultural landmarks and experience the food and atmosphere. I know that I will not be able to do very much after the operation so those first few days will be my opportunity to enjoy some sightseeing before my focus turns completely towards surgery and recovery.
I am realistic about the recovery process. I know there will be discomfort, limitations and moments when I will need patience. I understand the importance of following the surgeon's instructions, taking the time to heal and remaining committed to my dilation schedule. I am not placing unrealistic expectations on myself. Every person heals differently and I will allow my body the time it needs.
I am not frightened by the operation itself. I know I will be asleep while the surgeon perform the procedure and I have confidence in the research I have completed. I have spent years studying the surgeons, the techniques, the facilities and the experiences of other patients. Knowledge has given me reassurance and clarity.
Of course, this is still uncharted territory for me. I like to understand every detail and make sure I have considered every possibility. Some people have advised me not to overthink the experience but this is a life-changing event. For me, careful planning is not a sign of fear. It is how I create a sense of security and prepare myself for what lies ahead.
One of the greatest sources of comfort will be having my dearest friend Sarah B beside me.
Sarah and I have been friends for thirty-seven years. Over those years, she has become much more than a friend. She is family, a sister and one of the people who understands me best. She will travel with me, support me through my appointments and help care for me during my recovery.
Knowing Sarah will be there means more to me than I can fully express. There will be times when I am tired, uncomfortable or emotionally vulnerable. Having someone I trust completely will give me the support and reassurance I need. She will be the familiar face in an unfamiliar place and her presence will make the journey feel less daunting.
I am forever grateful that she has chosen to share this experience with me. A friendship lasting thirty-seven years carries a lifetime of memories, laughter, challenges and understanding. To have that friendship beside me during such a significant moment is a gift I will never take for granted.
This journey is not simply about travelling to Thailand or undergoing a surgical procedure. It is about completing a chapter that began when I was very young. It is about bringing my physical self into greater alignment with the woman I have always been.
I have reached this point through determination, research, patience and resilience. I have also reached it because of the people who have supported me along the way.
As the surgery date approaches, I feel excited, calm and ready. I know there will be challenges during recovery but I also know why I am doing this. This is my decision, my body and my future.
On 1 August, Sarah and I will board the flight to Bangkok. We will carry luggage, travel documents and carefully prepared plans but I will also carry something far more meaningful. I will carry the experiences of the woman I have been, the hopes of the woman I am becoming and the knowledge that I am finally completing a journey that has taken a lifetime.
This is not the beginning of who I am.
It is the final step towards fully honouring who I have always been.
Stay tuned for more...
It was suggested by Sarah B. that I start a blog to track my journey of before, during and after GRS.
I've compiled what I've already posted to keep it together. Let's see where it leads.
On 1 August 2026, I will begin one of the most important journeys of my life. I will travel to Bangkok, Thailand to undergo gender reassignment surgery at the Preecha Aesthetic Institute under the care of Dr Sutin. My surgery is scheduled for 6 August 2026.
Although this journey will take me thousands of kilometres from home, its true beginnings reach back much further. I have lived my life as a woman since I was seventeen. For more than four decades, I have built a life that reflects who I have always known myself to be. I have worked, travelled, formed friendships and experienced the many joys and challenges that have shaped me into the woman I am today.
Gender reassignment surgery has been a long time coming. It was never a decision I made lightly or impulsively. I needed to know that I was emotionally ready, financially prepared and mature enough to understand the significance of what I was choosing. After many months of research, planning and communication with the surgical consultation team, I reached a point where I knew the timing was right.
Paying the deposit and securing my surgery date was a defining moment. It transformed an idea that had lived quietly in my mind for many years into something real. From that moment, I began counting down the months, then the weeks and now the days.
Before I could organise the journey itself, I needed to complete an important personal chapter. I successfully updated the name and sex descriptor on my birth certificate. This process gave me a sense of freedom and closure after carrying the burden of outdated documents for almost forty years.
Receiving my new Australian passport was another deeply meaningful milestone. For the first time, I could prepare for international travel with identification that accurately reflected who I am. Holding that passport in my hands made the journey feel even more real. It represented more than permission to travel. It represented recognition, dignity and the completion of a long administrative process that had once seemed overwhelming.
With my documents complete, I was able to finalise my flights and accommodation. The consultation team in Bangkok has organised a clear, concise schedule covering my appointments, assessments, surgery and recovery. They have also arranged transport from the airport, to my consultations, to the hospital and later to my accommodation after I am discharged. Knowing these details have been carefully planned gives me peace of mind. It means I can focus on my health and recovery rather than worrying about navigating an unfamiliar city during such an important time.
My preparation has also involved a series of medical tests. I have completed blood tests, a urinalysis, an electrocardiogram and a chest X-ray. A requirement because I am over 45 (I'm now 59), these checks are required to confirm that I am medically able to cope with the procedure and anaesthetic.
My regular doctor is away on maternity leave so I met with another doctor named Dr Emma. She was kind, respectful and genuinely interested in helping me. There was no judgement or disapproval when I explained that I was preparing for gender reassignment surgery. She simply asked what I needed and did everything she could to assist me. Her warmth and professionalism reminded me how important compassionate medical care can be.
I received my electrocardiogram result immediately and it was completely normal. That news brought a great sense of relief. The remaining results were then prepared to be sent to the surgical team in Bangkok.
My hormone treatment is also part of my preparation. After many years of taking oral hormones and injections, my doctor changed me to Sandrena oestrogen gel. The purpose of this change was to prevent any damage to the live and kidneys as everything that is ingested goes via these organs. I apply it to the tops of my thighs and have experienced no problems with it. In preparation for surgery, I will stop my hormone treatment two weeks beforehand and restart it according to the surgeon's instructions, usually around seven days after the procedure.
There are many smaller practical matters to organise as well. I need to prepare my luggage, complete my travel documents, arrange mobile phone connectivity and make sure I have a suitable universal power adaptor. I also need to complete the Thai Digital Arrival Card before entering Thailand. I've been following a vlogger on You Tube who does regular updates on Thai visa requirements, changes and lifestyle. Very informative that helps keep me on track and prevent any mishaps entering and leaving country amongst other things.
I do not plan to pack heavily. August will be hot and humid in Bangkok so I will take loose, comfortable clothing that will be suitable for the hospital and my recovery. Sarongs will probably become an essential part of my wardrobe. I also plan to purchase some of the things I need after I arrive, as many everyday items such as toiletries and sanitary pads/napkins etc, are affordable in Bangkok.
Before surgery, I will have several appointments, the main one being the surgery consultation, 2 x psychiatric assessments which will determine suitability, more blood tests and cardiogram. I have no concerns about these assessments and tests. I have lived my life openly as a woman for more than forty years and I know that I am ready for this final stage of my transition.
I am excited about arriving in Bangkok a few days before my surgery. I hope to explore some of the city, visit temples, see the cultural landmarks and experience the food and atmosphere. I know that I will not be able to do very much after the operation so those first few days will be my opportunity to enjoy some sightseeing before my focus turns completely towards surgery and recovery.
I am realistic about the recovery process. I know there will be discomfort, limitations and moments when I will need patience. I understand the importance of following the surgeon's instructions, taking the time to heal and remaining committed to my dilation schedule. I am not placing unrealistic expectations on myself. Every person heals differently and I will allow my body the time it needs.
I am not frightened by the operation itself. I know I will be asleep while the surgeon perform the procedure and I have confidence in the research I have completed. I have spent years studying the surgeons, the techniques, the facilities and the experiences of other patients. Knowledge has given me reassurance and clarity.
Of course, this is still uncharted territory for me. I like to understand every detail and make sure I have considered every possibility. Some people have advised me not to overthink the experience but this is a life-changing event. For me, careful planning is not a sign of fear. It is how I create a sense of security and prepare myself for what lies ahead.
One of the greatest sources of comfort will be having my dearest friend Sarah B beside me.
Sarah and I have been friends for thirty-seven years. Over those years, she has become much more than a friend. She is family, a sister and one of the people who understands me best. She will travel with me, support me through my appointments and help care for me during my recovery.
Knowing Sarah will be there means more to me than I can fully express. There will be times when I am tired, uncomfortable or emotionally vulnerable. Having someone I trust completely will give me the support and reassurance I need. She will be the familiar face in an unfamiliar place and her presence will make the journey feel less daunting.
I am forever grateful that she has chosen to share this experience with me. A friendship lasting thirty-seven years carries a lifetime of memories, laughter, challenges and understanding. To have that friendship beside me during such a significant moment is a gift I will never take for granted.
This journey is not simply about travelling to Thailand or undergoing a surgical procedure. It is about completing a chapter that began when I was very young. It is about bringing my physical self into greater alignment with the woman I have always been.
I have reached this point through determination, research, patience and resilience. I have also reached it because of the people who have supported me along the way.
As the surgery date approaches, I feel excited, calm and ready. I know there will be challenges during recovery but I also know why I am doing this. This is my decision, my body and my future.
On 1 August, Sarah and I will board the flight to Bangkok. We will carry luggage, travel documents and carefully prepared plans but I will also carry something far more meaningful. I will carry the experiences of the woman I have been, the hopes of the woman I am becoming and the knowledge that I am finally completing a journey that has taken a lifetime.
This is not the beginning of who I am.
It is the final step towards fully honouring who I have always been.
Stay tuned for more...
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Northern Star Girl on July 17, 2026, 08:27:10 PM
Post by: Northern Star Girl on July 17, 2026, 08:27:10 PM
@VictoriasSecret
Everyone here on the Forum is wishing for your success and happiness.
You could not have found a better woman to be with you before, during and after your Surgery.
@Sarah B is a kind and knowledgeable woman who has traveled the
path that you are about to take. She will be of great assistance to you physically and mentally.
HUGS and Love from your Forum friends. ❤️
Danielle [Northern Star Girl]
The Forum Administrator Email: alaskadanielle@yahoo.com
Everyone here on the Forum is wishing for your success and happiness.
You could not have found a better woman to be with you before, during and after your Surgery.
@Sarah B is a kind and knowledgeable woman who has traveled the
path that you are about to take. She will be of great assistance to you physically and mentally.
HUGS and Love from your Forum friends. ❤️
Danielle [Northern Star Girl]
The Forum Administrator Email: alaskadanielle@yahoo.com
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 17, 2026, 08:32:43 PM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 17, 2026, 08:32:43 PM
@Northern Star Girl.
Hey Danielle
Thank you for your lovely words and support.
It's very much appreciated.
Big hugs. xx
Hey Danielle
Thank you for your lovely words and support.
It's very much appreciated.
Big hugs. xx
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Petunia on July 17, 2026, 09:06:22 PM
Post by: Petunia on July 17, 2026, 09:06:22 PM
Thank you for sharing Victoria. What a wonderful thing it must be to have had a friend for so long and be willing to go on the trip of a lifetime with you.
I wish you all the best.
(I assume you are an Aussie girl)
I wish you all the best.
(I assume you are an Aussie girl)
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 17, 2026, 10:09:32 PM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 17, 2026, 10:09:32 PM
Hey @Petunia,
Thank you for your well wishes.
Yes, I am an Aussies girl ☺️
Currently residing in Tasmania but thinking of relocating to back to Brisbane late 26 early 27. This will heavily depend on role transfers with the current company I work for or other full time work.
Thank you for your well wishes.
Yes, I am an Aussies girl ☺️
Currently residing in Tasmania but thinking of relocating to back to Brisbane late 26 early 27. This will heavily depend on role transfers with the current company I work for or other full time work.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Sarah B on July 17, 2026, 10:37:01 PM
Post by: Sarah B on July 17, 2026, 10:37:01 PM
Hi Victoria
You mentioned in your first blog post:
"
Well, that is not exactly correct and as you know me, I am going to correct you.
Yes, I suggested that you write a blog about yourself, either directly or indirectly, during several of our conversations. All right, perhaps it was only a couple of conversations, but I have been mentioning it for the past seven months. Still, let us not split hairs over the details.
Do you ever listen to me? Apparently not, and only when it suits you.
While we were discussing the idea, I suggested several times that the blog should be called Victoria's Journey. After all, you still have your whole story to tell, preferably in minute detail, so that others can get to know you better and benefit from your accumulated wisdom.
I do have to question that "wisdom" part after you suggested changing the title to Queen Victoria's Blog. Me face palm.
There are 3 things I'm going to annoy you with in the coming days and of course I will also annoy you about them in our future conversations, before I get serious with this post.
1) Your dislike of Promite.
2) Bangkok is sinking.
3) Pronunciation of words like you say "tuh-MAH-toh" (British Dialect) and I say
"tuh-MAY-toh" (American Dialect)
I suppose I should stop nagging and annoying you for now. I have waited thirty-seven years for this part of your journey to happen.
I still remember the first time I saw you. You were walking down the hallway with me following behind. I remember thinking, "I like her." That moment remains as clear to me as if it happened yesterday.
You are a strong woman. You are intelligent, kind, hardworking and someone who stands for no nonsense. You also rarely miss an opportunity to give me grief.
It should be noted that we Australians tend to give the people we care about a fair amount of stick. There are no holds barred and nobody is treated as being above anyone else, regardless of where we may be in life. In slightly less polite language, we take the mickey out of each other.
Why would we treat our friends and family that way? Because we love them unconditionally.
Victoria, when I once referred to you as my friend, you quite rightly corrected me. As you said so elegantly, you are my sister. You are not simply a friend. You are part of my family.
So yes, I am going to Thailand to support you emotionally and to provide moral support. I am also going to annoy you as I usually do and I have no intention of stopping. I may even run a few errands to keep you quiet although I suspect that may well be beyond my abilities.
Most importantly, I will be there to honour and support you as the woman you have always been. I will be there to witness this long-awaited part of your journey and to see the happiness, freedom and opportunities that I hope it brings you in the years ahead and to see that happen for you as it did for me.
This is a declaration of my love for you, but definitely not in that way, so do not get any ideas.
I'm also proud to call you my sister and honoured to be beside you for this journey and I will be waiting for you on the other side.
Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
@VictoriasSecret
You mentioned in your first blog post:
"
Quote from: VictoriasSecret on July 17, 2026, 08:17:29 PMIt was suggested by Sarah B. that I start a blog to track my journey of before, during and after GRS.
Well, that is not exactly correct and as you know me, I am going to correct you.
Yes, I suggested that you write a blog about yourself, either directly or indirectly, during several of our conversations. All right, perhaps it was only a couple of conversations, but I have been mentioning it for the past seven months. Still, let us not split hairs over the details.
Do you ever listen to me? Apparently not, and only when it suits you.
While we were discussing the idea, I suggested several times that the blog should be called Victoria's Journey. After all, you still have your whole story to tell, preferably in minute detail, so that others can get to know you better and benefit from your accumulated wisdom.
I do have to question that "wisdom" part after you suggested changing the title to Queen Victoria's Blog. Me face palm.
There are 3 things I'm going to annoy you with in the coming days and of course I will also annoy you about them in our future conversations, before I get serious with this post.
1) Your dislike of Promite.
2) Bangkok is sinking.
3) Pronunciation of words like you say "tuh-MAH-toh" (British Dialect) and I say
"tuh-MAY-toh" (American Dialect)
I suppose I should stop nagging and annoying you for now. I have waited thirty-seven years for this part of your journey to happen.
I still remember the first time I saw you. You were walking down the hallway with me following behind. I remember thinking, "I like her." That moment remains as clear to me as if it happened yesterday.
You are a strong woman. You are intelligent, kind, hardworking and someone who stands for no nonsense. You also rarely miss an opportunity to give me grief.
It should be noted that we Australians tend to give the people we care about a fair amount of stick. There are no holds barred and nobody is treated as being above anyone else, regardless of where we may be in life. In slightly less polite language, we take the mickey out of each other.
Why would we treat our friends and family that way? Because we love them unconditionally.
Victoria, when I once referred to you as my friend, you quite rightly corrected me. As you said so elegantly, you are my sister. You are not simply a friend. You are part of my family.
So yes, I am going to Thailand to support you emotionally and to provide moral support. I am also going to annoy you as I usually do and I have no intention of stopping. I may even run a few errands to keep you quiet although I suspect that may well be beyond my abilities.
Most importantly, I will be there to honour and support you as the woman you have always been. I will be there to witness this long-awaited part of your journey and to see the happiness, freedom and opportunities that I hope it brings you in the years ahead and to see that happen for you as it did for me.
This is a declaration of my love for you, but definitely not in that way, so do not get any ideas.
I'm also proud to call you my sister and honoured to be beside you for this journey and I will be waiting for you on the other side.
Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
@VictoriasSecret
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 17, 2026, 11:09:36 PM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 17, 2026, 11:09:36 PM
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Petunia on July 18, 2026, 12:41:08 AM
Post by: Petunia on July 18, 2026, 12:41:08 AM
Thanks to both of you.
It's stories like this which restores my faith in humanity
It's stories like this which restores my faith in humanity
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Finally Anna on July 18, 2026, 01:19:34 AM
Post by: Finally Anna on July 18, 2026, 01:19:34 AM
@VictoriasSecret and @Sarah B : This is just beautiful, all of it. Victoria's story is one of fulfilment and determination and then Sarah's declaration of her sisterly love.
And I get tears in my eyes when reading...
I am sending my best wishes to both of you, but specifically to Victoria.
Godspeed!
And I get tears in my eyes when reading...
I am sending my best wishes to both of you, but specifically to Victoria.
Godspeed!
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 18, 2026, 02:10:18 AM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 18, 2026, 02:10:18 AM
@Petunia thank you for your lovely words.
Yes, we all have to stay positive and make the most of what life gives us.
Having a sister such as Sarah, shows us the good in the world we live in.
It's taken us decades to forge that sisterhood of good, bad and ugly!!!
Yes, we all have to stay positive and make the most of what life gives us.
Having a sister such as Sarah, shows us the good in the world we live in.
It's taken us decades to forge that sisterhood of good, bad and ugly!!!
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 18, 2026, 02:12:32 AM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 18, 2026, 02:12:32 AM
@Finally Anna thank you for your lovely words and well wishes.
I am very excited for this part of my journey. 😁🙏
I am very excited for this part of my journey. 😁🙏
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on July 18, 2026, 02:37:38 AM
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on July 18, 2026, 02:37:38 AM
Good luck. Hope it all goes well 🙂
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Stottie Girl on July 18, 2026, 02:56:51 AM
Post by: Stottie Girl on July 18, 2026, 02:56:51 AM
Very best of British to you Victoria! It must be so exciting, scary and beautiful all at once! I would love to read of your experiences when you are able to post.
Good luck and godspeed as they say!
Good luck and godspeed as they say!
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 18, 2026, 04:07:31 AM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 18, 2026, 04:07:31 AM
@Stottie Girl thank you for your well wishes.
Don't worry, I'll be posting almost daily as the trip gets closer and through the journey!!! 😁🙏
Don't worry, I'll be posting almost daily as the trip gets closer and through the journey!!! 😁🙏
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: davina61 on July 18, 2026, 08:05:36 AM
Post by: davina61 on July 18, 2026, 08:05:36 AM
Best wishes from myself as well.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 18, 2026, 11:29:56 PM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 18, 2026, 11:29:56 PM
@davina61 thank you so much. 🙏
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 18, 2026, 11:40:11 PM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 18, 2026, 11:40:11 PM
Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on July 18, 2026, 02:37:38 AMGood luck. Hope it all goes well 🙂Sorry @Charlotte Kitty I'm sorry i forgot to respond. Thank you so much for your well wishes.🙏
Title: Thailand - 1 week and counting!!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 25, 2026, 01:26:49 AM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 25, 2026, 01:26:49 AM
So, exactly 1 week from today, @Sarah B and I will be on the plane heading to hot and sunny Bangkok for the journey of a lifetime.
Today I went shopping to get a few things needed for the plane journey including some snacks for us to enjoy on the flight, hand sanitiser, anti bacterial wipes, tissues, zip lock bags to store things in my luggage and other essentials. Yes I'm being a bit of germ phobe but considering being on the plane with all those people I'm not taking any chances and will be wiping things down!!!
I also had my hair trimmed and layered so that it is fresh for the trip. The hairdresser did a superb job in framing my face and layering my hair without the need to take of excess amounts of hair.
I have a new friend on the surgical team named Bune and what a sweetie he has been. We have been communicating to finalise paperwork and ensuring the last of my tests including another chest XRay, ECG and MRI on my lumbar spine ( I have some degeneration on my L3 ) has been performed and results sent across. They have been very thorough in ensuring that I am covering all my bases for safe surgery. This puts my mind at ease.
Today I went shopping to get a few things needed for the plane journey including some snacks for us to enjoy on the flight, hand sanitiser, anti bacterial wipes, tissues, zip lock bags to store things in my luggage and other essentials. Yes I'm being a bit of germ phobe but considering being on the plane with all those people I'm not taking any chances and will be wiping things down!!!
I also had my hair trimmed and layered so that it is fresh for the trip. The hairdresser did a superb job in framing my face and layering my hair without the need to take of excess amounts of hair.
I have a new friend on the surgical team named Bune and what a sweetie he has been. We have been communicating to finalise paperwork and ensuring the last of my tests including another chest XRay, ECG and MRI on my lumbar spine ( I have some degeneration on my L3 ) has been performed and results sent across. They have been very thorough in ensuring that I am covering all my bases for safe surgery. This puts my mind at ease.
This week, I will be at work Mon - Wed only. This gives me Thursday to go and do banking for the trip and get any other last minute things before I pack.
Friday I will fly from Tasmania to Melbourne to meet Sarah where we will stay in a local motel overnight. Saturday morning we will go back to the airport at 10.00am to check in, go through customs and then chill in the departure lounge before boarding at approximately 1.00pm.
Time has flown very quickly these last few weeks. I've been doing more research on places to visit and go shopping.
There is a you tuber called Sam Tyler whom I have been following and his vlogs have been very informative. Another You tuber who has been a valuable source of information regarding visa information, currency exchange and esim / internet connections has been Cal. Check him out as well should you need information regarding what to do when you arrive.
I'm excited to check out some of the shopping malls as from what I can see, they are humongous!!! I'm going to do the touristy thing and buy a knockoff Louis Vuitton bag and scarf because I can't justify paying full price for a designer label.
Stay tuned, more to come!!!
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Stottie Girl on July 25, 2026, 03:51:23 AM
Post by: Stottie Girl on July 25, 2026, 03:51:23 AM
Ooooh that's getting exciting! It's the very definition of a life changing holiday experience!
I did not realise Sarah B was going with you too. That's so awesome! Nice one Sarah!
I hope the two of you have a wonderful time over there. I wish I had the support that you have. I look forward to any updates on your experiences.
Best of British!
I did not realise Sarah B was going with you too. That's so awesome! Nice one Sarah!
I hope the two of you have a wonderful time over there. I wish I had the support that you have. I look forward to any updates on your experiences.
Best of British!
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Lori Dee on July 25, 2026, 09:34:27 AM
Post by: Lori Dee on July 25, 2026, 09:34:27 AM
Safe travels to both of you!
It is such an exciting time, and having Sarah B with you will make it extra special. Looking forward to updates on how it all went.
It is such an exciting time, and having Sarah B with you will make it extra special. Looking forward to updates on how it all went.
Title: Re: Thailand 1 week and counting!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 25, 2026, 06:30:12 PM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 25, 2026, 06:30:12 PM
@Stottie Girl. Thank you for your well wishes. Having @Sarah B along for the ride is making things easier.
Alot of us go that journey alone and I planned to do so but everyone around me said I needed someone with me and not to go alone.
Don't give up hope as I'm sure when the time comes you will have someone to tag along and be with you.
I will be documenting as much as I can along the way so that it helps keep everyone informed as to what, how and why it happened. It should be invaluable information for those seeking to take the surgery path.
@Lori Dee thank you for your well wishes.
There will be lots to tell as it happens. I'm sure the first couple of days post surgery will be a bit blurry but I will definitely document when the fog lifts!!!
@Sarah B is taking this trip in her stride and not as excited as I am. I have to keep her happy with snacks on the plane and other bits and bobs as the trip plays out!!! lol
Alot of us go that journey alone and I planned to do so but everyone around me said I needed someone with me and not to go alone.
Don't give up hope as I'm sure when the time comes you will have someone to tag along and be with you.
I will be documenting as much as I can along the way so that it helps keep everyone informed as to what, how and why it happened. It should be invaluable information for those seeking to take the surgery path.
@Lori Dee thank you for your well wishes.
There will be lots to tell as it happens. I'm sure the first couple of days post surgery will be a bit blurry but I will definitely document when the fog lifts!!!
@Sarah B is taking this trip in her stride and not as excited as I am. I have to keep her happy with snacks on the plane and other bits and bobs as the trip plays out!!! lol
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: ChrissyRyan on July 25, 2026, 06:31:46 PM
Post by: ChrissyRyan on July 25, 2026, 06:31:46 PM
I hope all goes well for you Victoria.
Hugs,
Chrissy
Hugs,
Chrissy
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 25, 2026, 06:34:38 PM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 25, 2026, 06:34:38 PM
@ChrissyRyan Thank you Chrissy!!! 😁
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: ChrissyRyan on July 25, 2026, 07:13:16 PM
Post by: ChrissyRyan on July 25, 2026, 07:13:16 PM
If you do a Web search on
TUBI Bangkok Airport
You can watch free a documentary that not only talks and shows about the airport but things to do in Bangkok.
Episode 1. Airport of smiles
There is a second episode for the Bangkok airport in the same airport series, I have not got to see it yet.
TUBI Bangkok Airport
You can watch free a documentary that not only talks and shows about the airport but things to do in Bangkok.
Episode 1. Airport of smiles
There is a second episode for the Bangkok airport in the same airport series, I have not got to see it yet.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: davina61 on July 26, 2026, 02:16:37 AM
Post by: davina61 on July 26, 2026, 02:16:37 AM
I wont say good luck as the universe will look after you so I say I hope it all turns out fine.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on July 26, 2026, 03:22:42 AM
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on July 26, 2026, 03:22:42 AM
Good luck and hope it all goes well! Sounds like you have a few bits planned too!
Charlotte ❤️
Charlotte ❤️
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Finally Anna on July 26, 2026, 07:54:23 AM
Post by: Finally Anna on July 26, 2026, 07:54:23 AM
I can't even imagine the feeling, the excitement.
Safe travels! 💕
Safe travels! 💕
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: KristaFairchild on July 26, 2026, 04:18:16 PM
Post by: KristaFairchild on July 26, 2026, 04:18:16 PM
Thank you very much for sharing your journey with us! ❤️
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Petunia on July 29, 2026, 04:36:34 PM
Post by: Petunia on July 29, 2026, 04:36:34 PM
Hi Victoria
I thought I had better write this a bit early in case I forget.
I wish you all the best for next week.
I can't imagine how you are feeling but it must be fantastic to have Sarah by your side.
I hope the trip is not stressful and you get a bit of sightseeing and shopping in.
💗 P
I thought I had better write this a bit early in case I forget.
I wish you all the best for next week.
I can't imagine how you are feeling but it must be fantastic to have Sarah by your side.
I hope the trip is not stressful and you get a bit of sightseeing and shopping in.
💗 P
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Lori Dee on July 29, 2026, 09:11:41 PM
Post by: Lori Dee on July 29, 2026, 09:11:41 PM
Bon Voyage, safe travels, and quick healing.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: ChrissyRyan on July 29, 2026, 10:07:53 PM
Post by: ChrissyRyan on July 29, 2026, 10:07:53 PM
Have safe travels and I wish you the best of results.
Chrissy
Chrissy
Title: 7 Days and Counting - The Crescendo to The Big Day!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 30, 2026, 01:23:24 AM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on July 30, 2026, 01:23:24 AM
Yesterday was my last day of work prior to surgery.
This time tomorrow I will be boarding the plane from Tassie to Melbourne to meet up with @Sarah B who will be making the journey down from the north of the continent.
Today I did the last of my washing and laid everything out to pack. The decisions on what to pack, how much to pack and not taking enough or overdoing it, is a challenge. Trying to leave space to brings some goodies home is another problem, a good one but still a problem.
As I sit at my PC contemplating all the things that need to be done and ensure that I don' forget anything, I need to remember to breathe and take it one step at a time.
This trip atm moment seems surreal. The enormity of what is to come hasn't hit me yet, not that I have any doubts or concerns but, just taking it all in and mentally preparing myself is such a big thing. Anyone can say, don't worry, you will be fine. Don't stress or panic. All those feelings and emotions are what makes us human and we are entitled to have them. I will do my very best to take in the sights and sounds of Bangkok and take lots of photos to keep busy until Thursday next week.
More to come soon.😁
This time tomorrow I will be boarding the plane from Tassie to Melbourne to meet up with @Sarah B who will be making the journey down from the north of the continent.
Today I did the last of my washing and laid everything out to pack. The decisions on what to pack, how much to pack and not taking enough or overdoing it, is a challenge. Trying to leave space to brings some goodies home is another problem, a good one but still a problem.
As I sit at my PC contemplating all the things that need to be done and ensure that I don' forget anything, I need to remember to breathe and take it one step at a time.
This trip atm moment seems surreal. The enormity of what is to come hasn't hit me yet, not that I have any doubts or concerns but, just taking it all in and mentally preparing myself is such a big thing. Anyone can say, don't worry, you will be fine. Don't stress or panic. All those feelings and emotions are what makes us human and we are entitled to have them. I will do my very best to take in the sights and sounds of Bangkok and take lots of photos to keep busy until Thursday next week.
More to come soon.😁
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Finally Anna on July 30, 2026, 02:06:25 AM
Post by: Finally Anna on July 30, 2026, 02:06:25 AM
Sending my support and repeating my words from before: Determination and fulfilment. I am totally convinced that you've got this. Enjoy Bangkok!
💕
💕
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Sarah B on July 30, 2026, 02:27:39 AM
Post by: Sarah B on July 30, 2026, 02:27:39 AM
Hi Victoria
I will be boarding a plane from Brizzy to Melbourne tomorrow on Friday at 11:50 to catch up with Victoria that night.
I'm not worried about this trip or excited, the only thing that would get me excited is if I get to go to another galaxy.
Yes, I tell her she will be fine and not to stress, panic or worry and I have given her somemotherly sisterly advice on what she can expect to happen in depth and in detail.
I'm going to give her some real stick when I catch up with her tomorrow (just joking). However I admire the research and planning she has done and of course I praise and bow down to her superior knowledge on all her travels plans that she has made for both of us.
See you soon sis. A lifetime of memories await us.
Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
@VictoriasSecret
I will be boarding a plane from Brizzy to Melbourne tomorrow on Friday at 11:50 to catch up with Victoria that night.
I'm not worried about this trip or excited, the only thing that would get me excited is if I get to go to another galaxy.
Yes, I tell her she will be fine and not to stress, panic or worry and I have given her some
I'm going to give her some real stick when I catch up with her tomorrow (just joking). However I admire the research and planning she has done and of course I praise and bow down to her superior knowledge on all her travels plans that she has made for both of us.
See you soon sis. A lifetime of memories await us.
Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
@VictoriasSecret
Title: Arrival in Bangkok!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on August 03, 2026, 10:20:52 AM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on August 03, 2026, 10:20:52 AM
Well Sarah and I left on Saturday morning at 10am by shuttle bus, a complimentary service from the motel to Melbourne airport. It was a pretty straight forward journey taking roughly 10 minutes.
We then headed towards the international terminal to check our luggage in which again was was pretty easy. The attendant was incredibly helpful with us checking in and tagging our bags.
Then off to the security screening and customs with no issues. Sarah had a little hiccup with the chip in her passport being read so they took her to a counter to have it read again which was fine. Phew!!!
The international concourse heading towards the boarding lounges was a long walk. We took our time getting to our gate and being early, we just sat and relaxed and watched the 100s of people fill up the two boarding lounges. The terminal next to us was bound for Singapore and ours to Bangkok.
It's interesting to see the way people move and interact with each other. The majority of people had their faces in their phones and were not communicating whereas the older passengers were chatting and watching what was going on around them. The age of technology has definitely changed people, I dare say, for the worst.
Finally we boarded the plane, being part of the last few passengers. Again people all flock and rush to be the first ones to get to the gate and be on the plane. The same can be said for the way people rush to get up out of there seats to get off the plane when the doors haven't even opened yet. Where do they think they're going? We just decided to take our time and get comfortable. The plane wasn't taking off without us.
In spite of the fact that the flight was 8 plus hours, we survived it fairly well. I had to get up a couple of times to use the bathrooms and stretch my legs. I was wearing compression socks to prevent DVT and blood clots forming. They were very firm and by the time we were about 20 minutes from landing, I had to get them off. They are definitely worth the investment though.
After we landed in Bangkok, we had no idea just how big the airport was. It felt like we walked for miles from the plane to customs. Thank god for the travelators along the way to save our legs.
Just before we arrived at customs, we could see the mass of people waiting to get their passports checked and stamped before collecting their luggage. That process took us about an hour before we finally reached the counter to have our passport checked, stamped, our photos taken and our fingerprints scanned. Was it customs or a detention centre?? lol
Then we had the joy of trying to find our luggage. The screens listed the flights that had landed and the belt number where our bags can be found. After a couple of searches on the screen, we found our luggage would be on belt 10. Simple? Not really because when we arrived at belt 10, there was no luggage and the carousel was not moving!!! My first instinct was to question what happened to our bags and how did we get it wrong. Little did I realise that once I walked around to the other side of the belt, there was our luggage sitting in the middle of the concourse and thankfully, still in one piece!!!
After breathing a sigh of relief, we had to make our way to gate 4 to meet the driver from the PAI. After some more walking, we found the driver with a sign with my name on it in bold. Saman was very friendly and accommodating and took us to his car. More walking and escalators and then as we walked out into the carpark, BAM!!! the heat hit us!!! It was something like 29 degrees celsius and this was 9.30pm!!!
It was great to get into the car and to be chaffered to our hotel which took approximately 30 or so minutes.
By this time, we were absolutely exhausted. When trying to check in an pay for the room, my brain went to mush and could not think straight. If it hadn't of been for Sarah to be an extra set of ears, I probably would have crumbled.
Finally after paying for the room, the lovely young porter put our bags onto a trolley and escorted us up to our room. He was also incredibly helpful and accommodating. Our suite is a twin room with everything we could need and is incredibly spacious.
After all that was said and done, we both showered and changed for bed. It was a very long travel day but considering it being the first time we both have stepped into a foreign country, it went surprisingly smooth!!
More to come.... xx
We then headed towards the international terminal to check our luggage in which again was was pretty easy. The attendant was incredibly helpful with us checking in and tagging our bags.
Then off to the security screening and customs with no issues. Sarah had a little hiccup with the chip in her passport being read so they took her to a counter to have it read again which was fine. Phew!!!
The international concourse heading towards the boarding lounges was a long walk. We took our time getting to our gate and being early, we just sat and relaxed and watched the 100s of people fill up the two boarding lounges. The terminal next to us was bound for Singapore and ours to Bangkok.
It's interesting to see the way people move and interact with each other. The majority of people had their faces in their phones and were not communicating whereas the older passengers were chatting and watching what was going on around them. The age of technology has definitely changed people, I dare say, for the worst.
Finally we boarded the plane, being part of the last few passengers. Again people all flock and rush to be the first ones to get to the gate and be on the plane. The same can be said for the way people rush to get up out of there seats to get off the plane when the doors haven't even opened yet. Where do they think they're going? We just decided to take our time and get comfortable. The plane wasn't taking off without us.
In spite of the fact that the flight was 8 plus hours, we survived it fairly well. I had to get up a couple of times to use the bathrooms and stretch my legs. I was wearing compression socks to prevent DVT and blood clots forming. They were very firm and by the time we were about 20 minutes from landing, I had to get them off. They are definitely worth the investment though.
After we landed in Bangkok, we had no idea just how big the airport was. It felt like we walked for miles from the plane to customs. Thank god for the travelators along the way to save our legs.
Just before we arrived at customs, we could see the mass of people waiting to get their passports checked and stamped before collecting their luggage. That process took us about an hour before we finally reached the counter to have our passport checked, stamped, our photos taken and our fingerprints scanned. Was it customs or a detention centre?? lol
Then we had the joy of trying to find our luggage. The screens listed the flights that had landed and the belt number where our bags can be found. After a couple of searches on the screen, we found our luggage would be on belt 10. Simple? Not really because when we arrived at belt 10, there was no luggage and the carousel was not moving!!! My first instinct was to question what happened to our bags and how did we get it wrong. Little did I realise that once I walked around to the other side of the belt, there was our luggage sitting in the middle of the concourse and thankfully, still in one piece!!!
After breathing a sigh of relief, we had to make our way to gate 4 to meet the driver from the PAI. After some more walking, we found the driver with a sign with my name on it in bold. Saman was very friendly and accommodating and took us to his car. More walking and escalators and then as we walked out into the carpark, BAM!!! the heat hit us!!! It was something like 29 degrees celsius and this was 9.30pm!!!
It was great to get into the car and to be chaffered to our hotel which took approximately 30 or so minutes.
By this time, we were absolutely exhausted. When trying to check in an pay for the room, my brain went to mush and could not think straight. If it hadn't of been for Sarah to be an extra set of ears, I probably would have crumbled.
Finally after paying for the room, the lovely young porter put our bags onto a trolley and escorted us up to our room. He was also incredibly helpful and accommodating. Our suite is a twin room with everything we could need and is incredibly spacious.
After all that was said and done, we both showered and changed for bed. It was a very long travel day but considering it being the first time we both have stepped into a foreign country, it went surprisingly smooth!!
More to come.... xx
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: ChrissyRyan on August 03, 2026, 11:02:05 AM
Post by: ChrissyRyan on August 03, 2026, 11:02:05 AM
Victoria,
Do consider wheelchair service on your visits to each airport after your surgery. You will not need to walk as far and you will go through customs and to baggage pickup quicker. The wheelchair and porter should be meeting you at the arrival gate. You both do not need to get this service and both of you can be whisked together through your stops as you use it. This should be a time saver and easier on your body.
Yes, if either of you need to use the bathroom, the porter will wait for either of you to use it. A small gratuity should be provided each time with this service, say $5 US or $5 Euros. You can even ask for this when you book your tickets or check in your baggage, or ask for it online or even as late as at the gate. No charge to book the service.
Each airport is different, and the porter will use the best route to get you at all the stops that need to be made for you. Airports can be confusing.
Obviously this service is not like an indoor taxi, people can abuse it. It is for people that have a true need for physical help to get around.
Some people not needing this wheelchair service use the service to board or exit the aircraft earlier than others, it is both sad and amusing to see 40 wheelchairs emptied at the gate and all but a few really apparently needing them. One truly never knows though as some disabilities are not obvious but those with them need physical help. The Internet has many videos that show such scenes. Disgraceful when there are abusers but some people try to beat the system. One wonders if such antics delays wheelchair service for those that truly need it.
I wish you the best!
Chrissy
Do consider wheelchair service on your visits to each airport after your surgery. You will not need to walk as far and you will go through customs and to baggage pickup quicker. The wheelchair and porter should be meeting you at the arrival gate. You both do not need to get this service and both of you can be whisked together through your stops as you use it. This should be a time saver and easier on your body.
Yes, if either of you need to use the bathroom, the porter will wait for either of you to use it. A small gratuity should be provided each time with this service, say $5 US or $5 Euros. You can even ask for this when you book your tickets or check in your baggage, or ask for it online or even as late as at the gate. No charge to book the service.
Each airport is different, and the porter will use the best route to get you at all the stops that need to be made for you. Airports can be confusing.
Obviously this service is not like an indoor taxi, people can abuse it. It is for people that have a true need for physical help to get around.
Some people not needing this wheelchair service use the service to board or exit the aircraft earlier than others, it is both sad and amusing to see 40 wheelchairs emptied at the gate and all but a few really apparently needing them. One truly never knows though as some disabilities are not obvious but those with them need physical help. The Internet has many videos that show such scenes. Disgraceful when there are abusers but some people try to beat the system. One wonders if such antics delays wheelchair service for those that truly need it.
I wish you the best!
Chrissy
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Lori Dee on August 03, 2026, 12:08:38 PM
Post by: Lori Dee on August 03, 2026, 12:08:38 PM
Good luck, Victoria!
Thoughts and prayers are with you, Sarah, and your medical team.
Thoughts and prayers are with you, Sarah, and your medical team.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Finally Anna on August 03, 2026, 12:13:16 PM
Post by: Finally Anna on August 03, 2026, 12:13:16 PM
I'm excited for you. Envious about you. Curious about your experience. Hopeful about results.
But most of all impressed by the determination about fulfilment.
Awesome!
And to have a sister like Sarah, priceless!
💕
But most of all impressed by the determination about fulfilment.
Awesome!
And to have a sister like Sarah, priceless!
💕
Title: Bangkok - Sunday August 2nd - Day 2
Post by: VictoriasSecret on August 04, 2026, 01:52:51 AM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on August 04, 2026, 01:52:51 AM
Sunday was a day of rest in the morning for both Sarah and I. We put the Do Not Disturb sign up on the door so housekeeping could do the other rooms. Considering we had been in the room less than 12 hours, it was no point having them clean the room needlessly.
We went out to the supermarket to get a few items and was relatively easy. The supermarket is open 24/7 in the building next door which is super convenient. Grabbed what we needed and came back to the room.
Later in the afternoon we decided to brave the city and go to the MBK centre, which is a giant shopping mall out of the city centre about 30 mins drive. There is an app you can use called Grab to hire a car to take you to wherever you need to go and relatively cheap.
Our mission was to find a Louis Vuitton bag for Sarah's niece. We had a budget of $150 AUD which is about 3,500THB. As Sarah wasn't up to walking around, I left her in the food court whilst I went searching.
After checking out a few places that had designer copies, and lots of haggling, I was able to find a gorgeous little bag with crystals and flowers on it, the exact replica of the original normally retailing from $7,000 - $8,000 AUD for a mere $150 AUD. Lots of these stores have back rooms with the knockoffs displayed around the room. They look so beautiful. The reason for that is if they display in the open, they will be taken by the authorities.
After a successful find, we decided it was time for dinner. I could only handle 3 floors and then I got over it. We decided on Thai food, as you do. My food was delicious but I'm not so sure Sarahs seafood dish did her any favours as she was toilet bound the next morning!!!
Once we'd had enough, we went out of the building to get a car via the Grab app. We got bombarded with cab drivers to get into their cars. I learned a little trick to ask if they will use their meter before agreeing to get in. The driver I chose said yes he would.
Big mistake getting in the car because when we started on our journey, he decided to call a friend on video call and thought it was funny to show who he had in the car with him. I got annoyed and told him not to video me. The nerve of him.
I decided to follow his direction on google maps to see if he was going to take us off the beaten track. When he started to go off the most direct route, I told him to take the most direct route. Well he didn't like that very much and started rambling about the choices he made and all that. Finally when we got back to the hotel he decided to pull into the Centre Point Grande next door instead our building. I told him it was the wrong one but decided to bite the bullet, pay him and get out and walk across.
The moral to this story, use the Grab app every time to book a car to go sightseeing or shopping. The cab drivers off the street will take advantage.
When we got to our room, all we could do is just shower, get into our pajamas and relax.
We needed decent sleep anyway as I had the first lot of appointments the next morning.
more to come.....
We went out to the supermarket to get a few items and was relatively easy. The supermarket is open 24/7 in the building next door which is super convenient. Grabbed what we needed and came back to the room.
Later in the afternoon we decided to brave the city and go to the MBK centre, which is a giant shopping mall out of the city centre about 30 mins drive. There is an app you can use called Grab to hire a car to take you to wherever you need to go and relatively cheap.
Our mission was to find a Louis Vuitton bag for Sarah's niece. We had a budget of $150 AUD which is about 3,500THB. As Sarah wasn't up to walking around, I left her in the food court whilst I went searching.
After checking out a few places that had designer copies, and lots of haggling, I was able to find a gorgeous little bag with crystals and flowers on it, the exact replica of the original normally retailing from $7,000 - $8,000 AUD for a mere $150 AUD. Lots of these stores have back rooms with the knockoffs displayed around the room. They look so beautiful. The reason for that is if they display in the open, they will be taken by the authorities.
After a successful find, we decided it was time for dinner. I could only handle 3 floors and then I got over it. We decided on Thai food, as you do. My food was delicious but I'm not so sure Sarahs seafood dish did her any favours as she was toilet bound the next morning!!!
Once we'd had enough, we went out of the building to get a car via the Grab app. We got bombarded with cab drivers to get into their cars. I learned a little trick to ask if they will use their meter before agreeing to get in. The driver I chose said yes he would.
Big mistake getting in the car because when we started on our journey, he decided to call a friend on video call and thought it was funny to show who he had in the car with him. I got annoyed and told him not to video me. The nerve of him.
I decided to follow his direction on google maps to see if he was going to take us off the beaten track. When he started to go off the most direct route, I told him to take the most direct route. Well he didn't like that very much and started rambling about the choices he made and all that. Finally when we got back to the hotel he decided to pull into the Centre Point Grande next door instead our building. I told him it was the wrong one but decided to bite the bullet, pay him and get out and walk across.
The moral to this story, use the Grab app every time to book a car to go sightseeing or shopping. The cab drivers off the street will take advantage.
When we got to our room, all we could do is just shower, get into our pajamas and relax.
We needed decent sleep anyway as I had the first lot of appointments the next morning.
more to come.....
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on August 04, 2026, 03:38:10 AM
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on August 04, 2026, 03:38:10 AM
Sounds like you're having a great start at least. Have you got long before your surgery?
When I go I'm landing 7am then pre op tests at 12am same day and then my op the day after! My flight was cancelled and moved a day later!!
When I go I'm landing 7am then pre op tests at 12am same day and then my op the day after! My flight was cancelled and moved a day later!!
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: davina61 on August 04, 2026, 09:46:55 AM
Post by: davina61 on August 04, 2026, 09:46:55 AM
When I went to Wimbledon I got there at10 am and was out of surgery by 4pm same day!
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on August 04, 2026, 12:07:54 PM
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on August 04, 2026, 12:07:54 PM
Quote from: davina61 on August 04, 2026, 09:46:55 AMWhen I went to Wimbledon I got there at10 am and was out of surgery by 4pm same day!
Were you kept in though? I'm not out of the hospital for 5 days. Think thats time for the skin graft to take while the bandages stay on.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: davina61 on August 05, 2026, 01:49:00 AM
Post by: davina61 on August 05, 2026, 01:49:00 AM
Yes there for a week, out of bed after a few days and walking up the corridor on day 5.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on August 05, 2026, 05:16:23 AM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on August 05, 2026, 05:16:23 AM
Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on August 04, 2026, 03:38:10 AMSounds like you're having a great start at least. Have you got long before your surgery?
When I go I'm landing 7am then pre op tests at 12am same day and then my op the day after! My flight was cancelled and moved a day later!!
Hi Charlotte,
Surgery is scheduled for 8.00am tomorrow morning, I am checking into the hospital tonight at 9.00pm. The Driver will come to collect us both at 8.00pm from the hotel.
I did prep with a liquid laxative this morning. It was disgusting but a necessary evil!!! More about that in coming posts.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on August 05, 2026, 05:30:47 AM
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on August 05, 2026, 05:30:47 AM
Quote from: VictoriasSecret on August 05, 2026, 05:16:23 AMHi Charlotte,
Surgery is scheduled for 8.00am tomorrow morning, I am checking into the hospital tonight at 9.00pm. The Driver will come to collect us both at 8.00pm from the hotel.
I did prep with a liquid laxative this morning. It was disgusting but a necessary evil!!! More about that in coming posts.
Wishing you all the best. It will be amazing 🙂
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on August 05, 2026, 05:37:28 AM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on August 05, 2026, 05:37:28 AM
Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on August 05, 2026, 05:30:47 AMWishing you all the best. It will be amazing 🙂
Charlotte,
I am staying positive and surprisingly not nervous about what is to come. I'll add the details soon.
Will be glad when they put me under and I don't need to think about it.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Gina P on August 05, 2026, 07:41:24 AM
Post by: Gina P on August 05, 2026, 07:41:24 AM
Best wishes Victoria!
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Sarah B on August 06, 2026, 02:30:49 AM
Post by: Sarah B on August 06, 2026, 02:30:49 AM
Hi Everyone
Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
❤️🎂🎁🎊🎉🎉🎉💕💕🎉🎉🎉🎊🎁🎂❤️
Its a GIRL
Congratulations Victoria
❤️🎂🎁🎊🎉🎉🎉💕💕🎉🎉🎉🎊🎁🎂❤️
May all her dreams and wishes come true.
Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
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Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Devlyn on August 06, 2026, 03:38:51 AM
Post by: Devlyn on August 06, 2026, 03:38:51 AM
Congratulations, Victoria! Speedy healing!
Hugs, Devlyn
Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Petunia on August 06, 2026, 05:04:46 AM
Post by: Petunia on August 06, 2026, 05:04:46 AM
That is a fantastic post Sarah.
I wish Victoria all the best with the healing.
And to you, what a genuinely beautiful friend
I wish Victoria all the best with the healing.
And to you, what a genuinely beautiful friend
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Lori Dee on August 06, 2026, 09:06:54 AM
Post by: Lori Dee on August 06, 2026, 09:06:54 AM
Congratulations!
Give Victoria a big hug from all of us.
Give Victoria a big hug from all of us.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Finally Anna on August 06, 2026, 10:32:08 AM
Post by: Finally Anna on August 06, 2026, 10:32:08 AM
Fantastic! The fulfilment!
And @Sarah B, you are a superstar of a companion/friend/sister to have aboard on a journey like Victoria's.
🥰
And @Sarah B, you are a superstar of a companion/friend/sister to have aboard on a journey like Victoria's.
🥰
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Stottie Girl on August 06, 2026, 11:37:45 AM
Post by: Stottie Girl on August 06, 2026, 11:37:45 AM
Congratulations Victoria!
Best of luck with the recovery!
Sarah B you are a legend!
Best of luck with the recovery!
Sarah B you are a legend!
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: davina61 on August 10, 2026, 02:30:17 AM
Post by: davina61 on August 10, 2026, 02:30:17 AM
Speedy recover my dear XXXX
Title: 1 Week Post Op. Slow and Steady Wins The Race!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on August 13, 2026, 12:48:58 AM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on August 13, 2026, 12:48:58 AM
HI All,
Just a heads up that I'm still alive and kicking.
Today is the first day that I've been able to sit at the PC without discomfort.
I'm having my 1 week post op check up this afternoon.
Fingers crossed I have done everything correctly to the letter.
I will sit down tonight if I have the energy and bring you up to speed.
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart, all the well wishes you've sent. It's greatly appreciated.
More to come soon. xx
Just a heads up that I'm still alive and kicking.
Today is the first day that I've been able to sit at the PC without discomfort.
I'm having my 1 week post op check up this afternoon.
Fingers crossed I have done everything correctly to the letter.
I will sit down tonight if I have the energy and bring you up to speed.
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart, all the well wishes you've sent. It's greatly appreciated.
More to come soon. xx
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Stottie Girl on August 13, 2026, 02:06:57 AM
Post by: Stottie Girl on August 13, 2026, 02:06:57 AM
Get well soon Victoria, wishing you a speedy recovery.
The other sarah xx
The other sarah xx
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Lori Dee on August 13, 2026, 09:57:08 AM
Post by: Lori Dee on August 13, 2026, 09:57:08 AM
Glad to know all is well.
Thanks for the update.
Heal and be well.
Thanks for the update.
Heal and be well.
Title: 6 Weeks Post Operative - the changes!!!
Post by: VictoriasSecret on September 13, 2026, 12:36:41 AM
Post by: VictoriasSecret on September 13, 2026, 12:36:41 AM
Hi All,
It's been a while since I've posted but I've had some challenges along the way.
Currently I'm 6 weeks post operative and appear to be on track ( I think!!)
I tried to go back to work two weeks ago but only lasted a day and have been off work since.
Since then, I developed an infection which appeared to be around my urethra. From what I could see, I thought it was sloughing skin cells and took on a whitish appearance. Unfortunately that wasn't the case and was indeed the by product of the infection.
So a trip to the Urgent Care Clinic to have it assessed was the next step. The nurse who triaged me was lovely and assessed my situation for the Dr on duty.
The Dr who came in to assess and examine me was just gorgeous and looked like a young Patrick Dempsey. To say that he could touch me anywhere was an understatement. His beside manner was A1 and he was very gentle when he examined me a took a swab.
When all was said and done, I was prescribed the same antibiotics I was on in Bangkok but on a higher dose. I still have a few days till they're finished but the whitish appearance on my urethra and the infection seems to have gone.
Tomorrow I will be going in to work as I've made progression comfort wise and the swelling has subsided more.
The great thing is I'm not walking around like John Wayne. Still some swelling but no where near as bad as two weeks ago.
Friday night I went out with some friends from work to an outdoor event and it was quite cool.
I had only been out 2.5 hours and it became very cold. Sitting on a plastic chair and being exposed to the elements did not do me any favours even though I thought I was adequately dressed for warmth and comfort.
When I got home, I turned on the heat and had a very warm shower to bring my body temperature back up.
The unfortunate thing was when I was ready to dilate, the cold had created more swelling than I was aware of and prevented insertion of the dilator. I unfortunately created surface tears and a little light bleeding from applying the normal pressure to get it in and became futile.
It was then I asked AI what the cause could have been and it gave me the answer that the cold and the elements caused the excess swelling and would be temporary.
After I got that answer, I decided to wait 24 hours for the swelling and the micro bleeds to subside.
This morning I resumed the dilation routine and lost half an inch of depth, clearly indicating that there is still some residual swelling from Friday night. When doing my routine tonight, I will take some Panadol and Ibuprofen an hour before dilation to help reduce the swelling further
Did I panic? no. I knew there would be a reasonable explanation for this setback.
It's still all a learning curve. The sensation of some superficial internal stiches popping is surreal but know it's part of the healing process and the connective tissues reforming.
I can feel there are deep anchor stiches still not dissolving as yet and will take another couple of weeks or so before they do their thing.
All in all I'm doing well. There is still so much more I can share with you but that will come with time.
At this point in time all I can say is, if you are about to have surgery or have just done so, Listen To Your Body!!! Don't rush anything and don't feel obligated to go back to work when you know you're not feeling up to it.
You only get one chance at it and you don't want to be fixing things because you're rushing the process of healing. You can't go any faster than your body will allow.
@Tills, I hear you've just had your surgery. Be well my friend and take it nice and slow. xx
If anyone has any questions they would like to ask, please don't hesitate. xx
It's been a while since I've posted but I've had some challenges along the way.
Currently I'm 6 weeks post operative and appear to be on track ( I think!!)
I tried to go back to work two weeks ago but only lasted a day and have been off work since.
Since then, I developed an infection which appeared to be around my urethra. From what I could see, I thought it was sloughing skin cells and took on a whitish appearance. Unfortunately that wasn't the case and was indeed the by product of the infection.
So a trip to the Urgent Care Clinic to have it assessed was the next step. The nurse who triaged me was lovely and assessed my situation for the Dr on duty.
The Dr who came in to assess and examine me was just gorgeous and looked like a young Patrick Dempsey. To say that he could touch me anywhere was an understatement. His beside manner was A1 and he was very gentle when he examined me a took a swab.
When all was said and done, I was prescribed the same antibiotics I was on in Bangkok but on a higher dose. I still have a few days till they're finished but the whitish appearance on my urethra and the infection seems to have gone.
Tomorrow I will be going in to work as I've made progression comfort wise and the swelling has subsided more.
The great thing is I'm not walking around like John Wayne. Still some swelling but no where near as bad as two weeks ago.
Friday night I went out with some friends from work to an outdoor event and it was quite cool.
I had only been out 2.5 hours and it became very cold. Sitting on a plastic chair and being exposed to the elements did not do me any favours even though I thought I was adequately dressed for warmth and comfort.
When I got home, I turned on the heat and had a very warm shower to bring my body temperature back up.
The unfortunate thing was when I was ready to dilate, the cold had created more swelling than I was aware of and prevented insertion of the dilator. I unfortunately created surface tears and a little light bleeding from applying the normal pressure to get it in and became futile.
It was then I asked AI what the cause could have been and it gave me the answer that the cold and the elements caused the excess swelling and would be temporary.
After I got that answer, I decided to wait 24 hours for the swelling and the micro bleeds to subside.
This morning I resumed the dilation routine and lost half an inch of depth, clearly indicating that there is still some residual swelling from Friday night. When doing my routine tonight, I will take some Panadol and Ibuprofen an hour before dilation to help reduce the swelling further
Did I panic? no. I knew there would be a reasonable explanation for this setback.
It's still all a learning curve. The sensation of some superficial internal stiches popping is surreal but know it's part of the healing process and the connective tissues reforming.
I can feel there are deep anchor stiches still not dissolving as yet and will take another couple of weeks or so before they do their thing.
All in all I'm doing well. There is still so much more I can share with you but that will come with time.
At this point in time all I can say is, if you are about to have surgery or have just done so, Listen To Your Body!!! Don't rush anything and don't feel obligated to go back to work when you know you're not feeling up to it.
You only get one chance at it and you don't want to be fixing things because you're rushing the process of healing. You can't go any faster than your body will allow.
@Tills, I hear you've just had your surgery. Be well my friend and take it nice and slow. xx
If anyone has any questions they would like to ask, please don't hesitate. xx
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Lori Dee on September 13, 2026, 01:28:04 AM
Post by: Lori Dee on September 13, 2026, 01:28:04 AM
Thanks for the update, Victoria!
Infections can be pretty common after surgery, but I'm glad you are on top of it and healing.
That is good news!
Infections can be pretty common after surgery, but I'm glad you are on top of it and healing.
That is good news!
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: davina61 on September 13, 2026, 03:28:38 AM
Post by: davina61 on September 13, 2026, 03:28:38 AM
Just make sure your dilators and douche are sterilised , I got an infection I think from leaving my douche in the shower and it got fungus/mould in the bulb. Had to have silver nitrate to clear it and its left a sore patch.
Title: Re: Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!
Post by: Tills on September 13, 2026, 05:05:26 AM
Post by: Tills on September 13, 2026, 05:05:26 AM
Quote from: VictoriasSecret on Today at 12:36:41 AMHi All,
It's been a while since I've posted but I've had some challenges along the way.
Currently I'm 6 weeks post operative and appear to be on track ( I think!!)
I tried to go back to work two weeks ago but only lasted a day and have been off work since.
Since then, I developed an infection which appeared to be around my urethra. From what I could see, I thought it was sloughing skin cells and took on a whitish appearance. Unfortunately that wasn't the case and was indeed the by product of the infection.
So a trip to the Urgent Care Clinic to have it assessed was the next step. The nurse who triaged me was lovely and assessed my situation for the Dr on duty.
The Dr who came in to assess and examine me was just gorgeous and looked like a young Patrick Dempsey. To say that he could touch me anywhere was an understatement. His beside manner was A1 and he was very gentle when he examined me a took a swab.
When all was said and done, I was prescribed the same antibiotics I was on in Bangkok but on a higher dose. I still have a few days till they're finished but the whitish appearance on my urethra and the infection seems to have gone.
Tomorrow I will be going in to work as I've made progression comfort wise and the swelling has subsided more.
The great thing is I'm not walking around like John Wayne. Still some swelling but no where near as bad as two weeks ago.
Friday night I went out with some friends from work to an outdoor event and it was quite cool.
I had only been out 2.5 hours and it became very cold. Sitting on a plastic chair and being exposed to the elements did not do me any favours even though I thought I was adequately dressed for warmth and comfort.
When I got home, I turned on the heat and had a very warm shower to bring my body temperature back up.
The unfortunate thing was when I was ready to dilate, the cold had created more swelling than I was aware of and prevented insertion of the dilator. I unfortunately created surface tears and a little light bleeding from applying the normal pressure to get it in and became futile.
It was then I asked AI what the cause could have been and it gave me the answer that the cold and the elements caused the excess swelling and would be temporary.
After I got that answer, I decided to wait 24 hours for the swelling and the micro bleeds to subside.
This morning I resumed the dilation routine and lost half an inch of depth, clearly indicating that there is still some residual swelling from Friday night. When doing my routine tonight, I will take some Panadol and Ibuprofen an hour before dilation to help reduce the swelling further
Did I panic? no. I knew there would be a reasonable explanation for this setback.
It's still all a learning curve. The sensation of some superficial internal stiches popping is surreal but know it's part of the healing process and the connective tissues reforming.
I can feel there are deep anchor stiches still not dissolving as yet and will take another couple of weeks or so before they do their thing.
All in all I'm doing well. There is still so much more I can share with you but that will come with time.
At this point in time all I can say is, if you are about to have surgery or have just done so, Listen To Your Body!!! Don't rush anything and don't feel obligated to go back to work when you know you're not feeling up to it.
You only get one chance at it and you don't want to be fixing things because you're rushing the process of healing. You can't go any faster than your body will allow.
@Tills, I hear you've just had your surgery. Be well my friend and take it nice and slow. xx
If anyone has any questions they would like to ask, please don't hesitate. xx
Oh my gosh Victoria.
I am so sorry for the tough time you have been through . .. but oh my goodness I can resonate with what you have shared. Almost identical situation with the white stuff and infection ;(in my case hospital-acquired). It was pretty scary for a bit when the infection took hold but same thing: into A&E, some brilliant doctors, and strong I/v and oral antibiotics.
I 'think' I'm now through the worst but your cautionary tale about not overdoing it too soon ties in with something @SoupSarah shared.
I'll post an update on mine when things have settled down but I wanted to thank you for your post and acknowledging me.
You're doing brilliantly.
Thinking of you and sending healing vibes,
Tills
Xx