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Title: Awkward interactions with cis people
Post by: swizzle on October 13, 2026, 05:14:43 PM
There have been so many dumb interactions I've had with cis people, so I've made a small list here.

Context: I am MtF

"You do know what periods are, right?"
"Are femboys like 50% transgender?"
"You're kind of like a futa in real life."

If you have any stories like these of your own, put them in the replies if you want, I'd like to read them.
Title: Re: Awkward interactions with cis people
Post by: Stottie Girl on October 13, 2026, 05:53:49 PM
I am not out yet Swizzle so have all these joyous moments ahead of me ha ha!

I'm not sure I should ask this, but what is a futa? Keep it clean mind, moderators are watching🤣🤣
Title: Re: Awkward interactions with cis people
Post by: Maid Marion on October 13, 2026, 06:04:16 PM
I wear skirts and colorful tops on the golf course.
I'm 5ft 2in with an hourglass figure.

Really? you look pretty!

Title: Re: Awkward interactions with cis people
Post by: Sarah B on October 13, 2026, 08:13:34 PM
Hi Everyone

My context is simply "Female", my answers are:

  • "Yes."
  • "I don't know." (I personally don't label people, or I just accept people as they are and move on.)
  • "Whats Futa?" (I looked it up 😁 so no).

And that's why I remain silent about what I did: I don't want to invite those sorts of degrading questions, comments or bigotry in my life.

Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
Global Moderator
@swizzle
Title: Re: Awkward interactions with cis people
Post by: big kim on October 14, 2026, 12:10:45 AM
I am under no obligation to explain myself or give you any information. Go suck a bag of d***s is my usual reply
Title: Re: Awkward interactions with cis people
Post by: Charlotte Kitty on October 14, 2026, 12:17:43 AM
Cant say I've had any awkward interactions like this. But then I avoid stupid people!
Title: Re: Awkward interactions with cis people
Post by: Stottie Girl on October 14, 2026, 01:18:27 AM
Quote from: big kim on <strong>Today</strong> at 12:10:45 AMI am under no obligation to explain myself or give you any information. Go suck a bag of d***s is my usual reply
Subtle, I like it!
Title: Re: Awkward interactions with cis people
Post by: Finally Anna on October 14, 2026, 01:36:52 AM
Quote from: Sarah B on <strong>Yesterday</strong> at 08:13:34 PMAnd that's why I remain silent about what I did: I don't want to invite those sorts of degrading questions, comments or bigotry in my life.
This speaks volumes to me and it is also how people normally behave.
How many persons tell deep and serious parts of their life's story to someone other than their really, really good friends?
Title: Re: Awkward interactions with cis people
Post by: Stottie Girl on October 14, 2026, 03:29:38 AM
Quote from: Finally Anna on <strong>Today</strong> at 01:36:52 AMThis speaks volumes to me and it is also how people normally behave.
How many persons tell deep and serious parts of their life's story to someone other than their really, really good friends?
Agree 100%. I will not be broadcasting my status once I'm out. It is in fact incredibly important to me. I will tell close friends, family and prospective partners but that is it (oh and anyone who happens to read Susans web pages of course lol!)
Title: Re: Awkward interactions with cis people
Post by: Lilis on October 14, 2026, 03:47:18 AM
Quote from: swizzle on <strong>Yesterday</strong> at 05:14:43 PMThere have been so many dumb interactions I've had with cis people, so I've made a small list here.

Context: I am MtF

"You do know what periods are, right?"
"Are femboys like 50% transgender?"
"You're kind of like a futa in real life."

If you have any stories like these of your own, put them in the replies if you want, I'd like to read them.

idk many cis and straight people say many mean stuff, but I'll be cautious acknowledging, entertaining, or internalizing their transphobia 💕

~ Lilis 🌷