Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: AislinTgirl on February 07, 2008, 06:44:01 AM Return to Full Version

Title: Coming out to mum :)
Post by: AislinTgirl on February 07, 2008, 06:44:01 AM
A friend of mine pushed me to come out to my Mum today....so I did! Mum was incredibly supportive though she did confess she wasnt ok with it but she didn't scream at me or anything, just told me to make sure it's what I wanted. This now about day 9 since i discovered I was ts and what an amazing ride! I'm so happy, before I was extremely depressed just wanted to die and hate life.....I was asked how I was going to approach the journey infront of me and my reply was "Bring it on!!" *giggles happily* life is so wonderful at the moment, I was in tears of joy after I got off the phone with mum for being accepted. I love the new me it's just so amazing. Keep smiling :)

Love Aislin!
Title: Re: Coming out to mum :)
Post by: mickiejr1815 on February 07, 2008, 11:13:32 AM
Aislin,
i am ecstatic that yur mum hasn't disowned yu or anything.yu are quite lucky as i have found nothing to ever please that woman (mother means a lot different things to me than the way i was treated growing up)

congrats,

Mickie
Title: Re: Coming out to mum :)
Post by: Tanya1 on February 07, 2008, 02:06:31 PM
at least some burden is off your shoulder- sometimes you have to be careful who you tell, there's a lot of negative ppl
Title: Re: Coming out to mum :)
Post by: ErickaM on February 07, 2008, 03:27:46 PM
Aislin,
I too am glad that your mom took it so well; I know how unnerving that is I have recently came out to my parents and I was very nervous until it was completed, Congrats.
Title: Re: Coming out to mum :)
Post by: AislinTgirl on February 09, 2008, 05:57:41 PM
hehe  thanks for all the feed back :) yeah there are some negative people as i found out, already had my second beating for it..
Title: Re: Coming out to mum :)
Post by: Berliegh on February 10, 2008, 03:11:46 AM
Quote from: AislinTgirl on February 09, 2008, 05:57:41 PM
hehe  thanks for all the feed back :) yeah there are some negative people as i found out, already had my second beating for it..


It could go either way with familes and parents......it's always a gamble. I didn't come 'out' as I was never 'in' and I've always been the same as I am now since I was 13, so there wasn't any drastic change to present to anyone..