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I was going to do this in a poll but decided to see who would step up and be public.


The Fairy Goddess tells you that she will totally remake you into just an average looking woman, not beautiful nor horrid, just another everyday female.  You will be given a new job and location to start over.  Making the same average wage at an average job.  What you do from then on is your choice.

One catch, you would have no sexual sensation, ever.  Mental or physical!

Would you?

Leigh

The catch for me is the "You will be given a new job and location to start over." bit; Sex is a hinderance to me, I honestly would not miss anything to do with it, I think.


However, that forced relocation bit... lets just say it rubs my fur the wrong way.

I know this question is directed at the ladies, but
Hell NO!

Not a chance, dosen't sound like living

Hmmm, you'd have to define, "sexual sensation?"

If I can still feel passionate and affectionate and loving (giving up only physical orgasm)... then yes, in a faerie's heartbeat. Though I'll admit that I'll miss it. But it's a matter of priorities.

Quote from: Leigh on June 29, 2006, 11:21:51 PM
I was going to do this in a poll but decided to see who would step up and be public.


The Fairy Goddess tells you that she will totally remake you into just an average looking woman, not beautiful nor horrid, just another everyday female.  You will be given a new job and location to start over.  Making the same average wage at an average job.  What you do from then on is your choice.

One catch, you would have no sexual sensation, ever.  Mental or physical!

Would you?


Leigh

While it is a tempting offer at first read, I declined.  I'm the mistress of this vessel and I prefer to chart her course.

Steph

I'm very happy and content with my life as it is. Sure I would love to be thinner, but to lose my history, no I would not. I have history, though it was really not condusive to what I would have chosen, it is my history. So I would have to say no. As far as my sex life goes, well it doesn't exist anyway so it was already taken away from me. I really never had a sex life before being married and just a oh well sex life after. So I would say no.
Sheila

Leigh,

This is a very interesting question and I agree, at first it seemed like an easy decision to me. I am basically estranged from my parents and siblings.  Sexual gratification certainly has not been enough to counter the depression, anger and self-loathing that I have experienced as a result of being in the wrong body.  The  sense of releif that I would certainly feel from being a real woman would be enormous. And of course, lots of women, about 20% never experience orgasms thier entire life, it is part of the female experience for many women.  So I would not be out of the norm in that regard.

The other side of this coin is that having spent such a large amount of time not liking myself, sexual gratification has been one of the few gratifying things in my life, that no one can take from me.  Why would I want to give up one of the best things in my life?

To be honest, I kinda always planned on giving it up.  Before I ever researched SRS, which was just about a year and a half ago, I always assumed I would be giving up sexual sensation.  I have been conditioning myself for that since I was 11 years old.  I have since found out that SRS does not mean giving up sexual sensation and that some post-op TS's can actually acheive orgams.  That seems absolutely remarkable to me.

To a large degree, pain makes us who we are.  The pain we suffer as human beings change who we are, how we act and react.  I think I want to get to where I am going under my own power.  I can endure the challenges and the pain, I always have.  In many ways it defines who I am.  My struggle to become the woman I am, on the outside too.

It's a great offer, but I think I will pass.

Love always,
Elizabeth

Why would she give me something I already have?

Sex?  What is that?  Sensation does not matter if you are not active anyway.

From the opposite side of the fence, since the only bit I'm missing is the bit related to sexual performance and I'm already happy with my presentation in the community and appearance, I'd say no.

Dennis

After sitting on this for a while, I came to conclusion that I would say yes, on one condition: 'mental sensation' (which is a confusing term to me) does not include love or mental attraction.

I believe she meant the mental component of sexual stimulation.  Not love or attraction.

Melissa

QuoteOne catch, you would have no sexual sensation, ever.  Mental or physical!

Would you?

So is there a problem with this?

Terri

Quote from: Melissa on June 30, 2006, 03:06:37 PM
I believe she meant the mental component of sexual stimulation.  Not love or attraction.

Yea, but I don't think I could ever make a clear enough distinction. *Everything* is sexual to me, in a sense... or at least sensual, which is really the same thing - which is why I think I'm not particularly sexual physically. Eating ice cream, listening to my kind of music, watching particular movies...  heck, I've honesly become physically aroused when driving my car. Yea, I know, ewwww!, but I'm just sayin'... life turns me on.

So if I have to give up THAT, then there's no point in going on in ANY body.

But if I just have to give up the physical reaction... orgasm... then yes, make me female. Please.

Kate, nothing would be erotic to you.  It would just be as it is.  All activities would be taken at face value and not some underlying sexual motivation.

That's how it is for me both before and after hormones.  When I was much younger and more full of testosterone, I used to get turned on quite easily, but that has slowly died off since I was about 20 and had died off so much that hormones actually didn't do anything to my libido.

Melissa

Thus far, I've liked Steph's answer best because I too would prefer to be in control of my own destiny.  As it happens, I had a fairy prince and princess who have given me what you describe (Drs Zukowski and Bowers) without the need to relocate.  I did take that chance that I would be left without sensation but I've been thrilled to discover that the "electricity" works just fine and my libido is far from dead  ;)

Dawn

Quote from: DawnL on June 30, 2006, 06:40:07 PM
Thus far, I've liked Steph's answer best because I too would prefer to be in control of my own destiny...

I'm not sure I understand what "control" or destiny is lost by accepting the offer? You'd still be you, making decisions freely - only now as a genetic female, living an ordinary woman's life?

Well... you wouldn't be the 'you' that you made. The life, the history (unless the new GG you came out of thin air with no background? who are your parents? who are your children... are they the same, are you the mother, who is the father? who are the people that know the new you? where did the new you grow up? - when dealing with magic, things get complicated quick), and appearance of the new you would be creation of someone else. That said, even in 'our own' lives, there are life changing events that occur completely outside our control.

And even having to deal with all those changes... I think my answer is still a firm yes (as long as I can still enjoy cuddling!)

NEVER!!!!!!  Give up the the place where the people who mean most to me live..... not happening.... I am a nympho sothe no sex thing kills it..... and to be avrage.... that in itsself would be more hell than the last 2 months have been.  Id never give up what I have to be just avrage.

I have to agree with these answers here.  I would rather follow the path I am currently going down than to have somebody else put me in a situation that I wouldn't have control over.  Plus I know the potential of being a better than average looking woman is achievable for me.  I have a better than average job now and I know the potential of having feeling "down there" is also a possibility.

Melissa

Quote from: Melissa on July 03, 2006, 01:26:46 AM
I have to agree with these answers here.  I would rather follow the path I am currently going down than to have somebody else put me in a situation that I wouldn't have control over.  Plus I know the potential of being a better than average looking woman is achievable for me.  I have a better than average job now and I know the potential of having feeling "down there" is also a possibility.

Melissa

Quote from: MelissaH*ll yeah. 

Melissa

Hey no fair - no take backs :) Just kidding.

Steph

Hey!  You weren't supposed to find that.  I deleted it.  ;)

Melissa

Clever huh :)

Steph

I decline..........

Average is just to boring......Besides I wouldn't know how to act...

And sex
damn thats the ultimate deal breaker right there...Is this fairy on sumtin???LOL

Chynna

I think I would take the offer. When I was younger, sexual satisfaction was more inportant and I may have answered differently. ALthough I would love to experience sex as a woman and be physically responsive, the emotional side of being a woman is of more importance to me. I may not be answering the question you are asking, though.

I, too, would like to be in charge of my future, and my dreams would be to experience life to the fullest as a woman.

Steph

Quote from: Stephanie Craxford on July 03, 2006, 08:44:51 AM
Clever huh :)

Steph

I call it abuse of moderator power. :) Just kidding.

Melissa

 ;D

Steph

Quote from: cindianna_jones on July 03, 2006, 09:29:37 PM
Steph,

You do have a sense of humor.  It took me a moment to get it but now I can't hide this sheepish grin (as I see Brick take his attention away from the baseball game).

That was very funny indeed.

Cindi

Hey there Cindi

You don't have to be crazy to work here but it helps :)  Seriously though with the stress that we often encounter, it's good to able to laugh once in a while.  But now I'm preaching to the choir.  And while I'm at it, I realised that I didn't welcome you to Susan's so indeed welcome.  I see that you have found your way around the site and it's good to see those who have gone before return and share.

Chat later.

Steph

Quote from: Stephanie Craxford on July 04, 2006, 07:15:58 AM
You don't have to be crazy to work here but it helps :) 

HEY...I THOUGHT THAT WAS A REQUIREMENT?!

CHYNNA

I'm glad I don't work there as the interns at the mental facility that I'm staying at told me I wasn't crazy. I don't need a fairy goddess to tell another goddess how she should feel.
Love Sheila

H*** NO!!!!
I WOULDN'T!!!
I'D BE FOREVER SHAMED!!!
I'd be cheated of my journey, and I could never look myself in the mirror again.
I wouldn't have EARNED that female body.
I wouldn't have EARNED that job.
I wouldn't have EARNED anything.
ALSO, I wouldn't be able to have SEX which woudl SUCK.

I won't settle for being an "average" woman.
I won't settle for anything less than being an EXTRAORDINARY woman, a complete b-witch who is so smart and eccentric that everyone either loves her or hates her.
I won't settle for "average" looks.
I won't settle for anything less than being the object of every man's fantasy in both body, face, and mind.
I won't settle for an "average" job.
I won't settle for anything less than a CAREER which I've gone to college for, and am happy doing every single day!
I won't settle for starting over either.
I am PROUD of my past and for who it's made me.

That's my answer, and to anyone who says, "yes" to this, I offer my deepest pity to you.

Sincerely,
Annwyn.