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OK, originally I was going to ask about inseams. I'm having trouble trying to figure out what pants length to buy since mango ran out of chocolate 3.5 packers and I don't want to get rid of too many of my old boy clothes.

But...I figure this new question will cover the inseam thing?

DJs got back to me about their chocolate packers...they're having some sort of trouble getting it supplied so it's gonna cost me 90 bucks for a 4 incher. The price makes me wince, but I'm not likin the customer service I'm getting with the U-tube AND I still can't figure out the proportional dimensions for my cheap-sock-packing, so I'm thinking maybe I should just shell out the 90 bucks? I know it's more than DJs usually charges but I'm having a hard enough time as it is finding a packer my skin tone pre-made, and 4 inches is really the size I was going for anyway.

I think in the long run I'm going to go with the packer, no matter the price because the U-tube was just going to be temporary until I could find the right packer....I really like DJs too. So until my packer comes in I need to know how to measure inseam and everything so my packer fits with my clothing. (Most clothes are on a killer sale right now!!)

I just bought some 30x32 pants but I have a feeling the 32 isn't long enough for the 4 incher, so how long should I go? 30x36? or more? I'm a small dude, so any pants length longer than 34 and I have to roll them up near the ankles, but it'll be fine as long as my packer fits, that's all I care about.

I don't see the correlation between the inseam on your pants and what's in your underwear. 

Maybe I'm not using the right terminology? I just don't want a freakish erection-resembling bulge when I sit down like I think I might if I keep wearing my size 18 boy shorts with a four inch packer.

Hey, sorry I can't help you with the inseam question, but just wanted to suggest you check out Good Vibrations and look at their SoftPacks. They have "carmel," "vanilla," and "coffee." I don't know if any of them is the right shade you're lookin' for because to me it looks like GV's darkest is darker than DJ's chocolate, but if you don't want to end up spending $90 GV is there. I just ordered a packy from them, but haven't got it yet so I can't really tell you much else unfortunately. That really sucks that you're having a hard time finding one, I hope it works out soon!

I'm the worst person you want to get advice from on this topic but I'll put in my two cents anyway  :laugh:

I'm about to order the 3.5 Pink Pantstuffer from Mango.  I was originally going to get the 5.5 inch but then decided not to after Jay told me the pros and cons of each. 

I'm not sure what inseam to get because I always LIKE the huge bulge lol.  I still wear some masculine girl's jeans and I know that a sock bulges out of those.  So,  I would say just wait until you get the packy then go shopping and see what looks best.  Embrace the bulge :) lol

Quote from: Kevin on August 07, 2008, 04:09:49 AM
Hey, sorry I can't help you with the inseam question, but just wanted to suggest you check out Good Vibrations and look at their SoftPacks. They have "carmel," "vanilla," and "coffee." I don't know if any of them is the right shade you're lookin' for because to me it looks like GV's darkest is darker than DJ's chocolate, but if you don't want to end up spending $90 GV is there. I just ordered a packy from them, but haven't got it yet so I can't really tell you much else unfortunately. That really sucks that you're having a hard time finding one, I hope it works out soon!

Ah thanks dude but I want an STP as well as a packer :) 2 in 1 for 90 bucks.

Quote from: Brady on August 07, 2008, 09:38:51 AM
I'm the worst person you want to get advice from on this topic but I'll put in my two cents anyway  :laugh:

I'm about to order the 3.5 Pink Pantstuffer from Mango.  I was originally going to get the 5.5 inch but then decided not to after Jay told me the pros and cons of each. 

I'm not sure what inseam to get because I always LIKE the huge bulge lol.  I still wear some masculine girl's jeans and I know that a sock bulges out of those.  So,  I would say just wait until you get the packy then go shopping and see what looks best.  Embrace the bulge :) lol

Helpful XD 4 inches is as close as I can get without getting TOO huge. My only prob is that I need clothes before I go back to school since the majority of clothes I have are too feminine (ie I'd break the STP because there's no place for it at all LOL). I wanted to go back to school this semester as Nate, not Tai. I guess it just depends on how long it takes for them to ship.

Oh, and most of the clothes I want are on a 50 - 75% off sale this week :( I wish I had my STP right now so I could try them on...

Hmmmm I would say just try to eyeball it.  Give yourself enough room for it, and if they are too tight, who cares?  ;D

As for cheaper clothes, the Kid's Abercrombie is my best friend.  The clothes are so freakin cheap for kids and they fit me a lot better (5'4", 115 pounds), but it gives the illusion that I fill out adult A&F clothes. So, if you are small give Kids Gap, Abercrombie, or just the kids section in any store!

Quote from: trapthavok on August 07, 2008, 10:04:35 AM

Ah thanks dude but I want an STP as well as a packer :) 2 in 1 for 90 bucks.

Oh sorry, it completely went over my head that it's an STP, I don't know what I was thinking!

Quote from: Brady on August 07, 2008, 10:32:04 AM
Hmmmm I would say just try to eyeball it.  Give yourself enough room for it, and if they are too tight, who cares?  ;D

As for cheaper clothes, the Kid's Abercrombie is my best friend.  The clothes are so freakin cheap for kids and they fit me a lot better (5'4", 115 pounds), but it gives the illusion that I fill out adult A&F clothes. So, if you are small give Kids Gap, Abercrombie, or just the kids section in any store!

5'6 120 lbs, I'm not that much bigger than you. I could never afford AF no matter what, it's not my taste in clothes anyway.

I just tried measuring my 30x32 and I think it's not big enough unless I want my clothes as tight as yours! haha no I like mine slightly loose but not necessarily baggy

Quote from: Kevin on August 07, 2008, 11:09:49 AM

Quote from: trapthavok on August 07, 2008, 10:04:35 AM

Ah thanks dude but I want an STP as well as a packer :) 2 in 1 for 90 bucks.

Oh sorry, it completely went over my head that it's an STP, I don't know what I was thinking!

No worries dude! Do you use an STP? I figure not everyone does, so no fault on your part :)

Hmm. I've never heard of a guy buying jeans according to the size of his cock. Unless maybe he was very largely endowed.

Check out my new post, it corresponds with this :)

Quote from: Nero on August 07, 2008, 01:35:14 PM
Hmm. I've never heard of a guy buying jeans according to the size of his cock. Unless maybe he was very largely endowed.

HAHAHAHA

Thank you for that Nero. You're making me think my worries about this are moot.

I don't know I just thought it mattered if you didn't want to walk around with an erection all day hahaha

Quote from: trapthavok on August 07, 2008, 02:15:54 PM

Quote from: Nero on August 07, 2008, 01:35:14 PM
Hmm. I've never heard of a guy buying jeans according to the size of his cock. Unless maybe he was very largely endowed.

HAHAHAHA

Thank you for that Nero. You're making me think my worries about this are moot.

I don't know I just thought it mattered if you didn't want to walk around with an erection all day hahaha

Haha I like that look

I just find this topic sooo funny!!!!

Guys, I've got a 6.5 inch fully erect penis and when its
not erect, I don't think its longer than 3.5 inch.
If you've got a unerect 6 incher, then this would be a damn
sword once erect 10 inch!!!

Considering FTM are usually slighter framed than GM's I think
it would be totally ridiculous having anything bigger than 3.5 inch.

And I don't know any man on earth who selects his pant according
to his penis size erect or unerect unless he plans on wearing them
very very tight (that would probably a gay thing anyway...).

A good tailor will ask if your dress to the right or the left and adjust accordingly, but were not talking tailored suits here.

But I've never heard of that either.

Sounds like you're talking about waist size, not inseam.  Men's pants have a longer crotch than women's pants do...  so the inseam shouldn't be a problem.  Just don't buy jeans that are super tight and you won't freak people out in the grocery store.

Um, trapthavok, are you perhaps talking about rise? That's the distance between the waist and the crotch.

Since you are a biofem, I'm assuming that you have a fem pelvic girdle. If you choose pants with a regular rise, you might want to choose a waist size that is an inch too big and, correspondingly, an inseam that is an inch shorter than usual so that you can wear your pants a bit lower, more on your hips than your waist. This should give you a a more masculine look, since men and women tend to wear pants differently, and it should provide a little extra room in the crotch for your packy. Give it a try in the dressing room.

And don't forget to allow for shrinkage. Of the pants, I mean, if they are cotton--not the other thing (if you watch SEINFELD).  ;)

Do you know how guys buy pants?  They walk into a store, find something that looks close enough, find a size that's close enough, try one ONE pair, if it fits (close enough) they buy it and get the hell out of there. 

lol, precisely what I do, Tekla. With jeans, I know my size and preferred style so I don't even bother trying them on.

LOL  haven't seen any measurements on mens cloths that mean Inseam unless I missread them

 I never try things on. I hate it. In fact I never go shopping.  I never buy new clothes until Mom brings the laundry back and I realize stuff's missing (she throws out stuff she thinks is too worn or whatever).

hey man i'm 5'8" 130 lbs. i dont pack, but i wear 30W 30L  sometimes 29W 30L and you're smaller than i am. I couldn't imagine going with anything bigger than a 30W 30L because i think they would fall off of you and you would walk on the bottom of your pants. But that is just my opinion. good luck finding your clothes dude.

Jet

Inseam is the measurement from the crotch to the ankles BTW.  i.e. the inner seam on the pant, not the outer one.