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Title: im new and i never talked to any transsexual b4, i would have a few questions
Post by: adri on December 24, 2008, 06:30:19 PM
Post by: adri on December 24, 2008, 06:30:19 PM
so i still live as a girl, well i dont look like an ordinary girl hehe but maybe im kinda scared from the changes, and i live in a small city too
Title: Re: im new and i never talked to any transsexual b4, i would have a few questions
Post by: tekla on December 24, 2008, 06:32:29 PM
Post by: tekla on December 24, 2008, 06:32:29 PM
Hi. And a small city is at least better than a big town, which is whole lot better than a small town.
Title: yeah
Post by: adri on December 24, 2008, 06:35:25 PM
Post by: adri on December 24, 2008, 06:35:25 PM
thats true, but i have no idea how ppl would accept it, im kinda scared hahaha
Title: Re: im new and i never talked to any transsexual b4, i would have a few questions
Post by: sneakersjay on December 24, 2008, 07:01:04 PM
Post by: sneakersjay on December 24, 2008, 07:01:04 PM
We were all in your shoes at one time or another.
It boils down to this: can you continue to live as a girl or not? for most of us the answer at some point becomes NO, and the fear of transitioning fades as the discomfort of continuing to live as a female increases.
Everyone's path is a bit different, though there are many similarities. First step is to find a good gender therapist in your area. Second would be to ideally find another trans-guy to talk to locally. That was the biggest source of info, visuals, and support, in my case.
And welcome to Susan's.
Jay
It boils down to this: can you continue to live as a girl or not? for most of us the answer at some point becomes NO, and the fear of transitioning fades as the discomfort of continuing to live as a female increases.
Everyone's path is a bit different, though there are many similarities. First step is to find a good gender therapist in your area. Second would be to ideally find another trans-guy to talk to locally. That was the biggest source of info, visuals, and support, in my case.
And welcome to Susan's.
Jay
Title: WELL
Post by: adri on December 24, 2008, 07:07:51 PM
Post by: adri on December 24, 2008, 07:07:51 PM
thank u but i cant find any1 near me to talk about it, i mean i can talk to some of my friends, they try to understand me but i feel its not good enough, they cant know how i feel u know
Title: Re: im new and i never talked to any transsexual b4, i would have a few question
Post by: Janet_Girl on December 24, 2008, 07:22:45 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on December 24, 2008, 07:22:45 PM
Hi Adri,
Welcome to our little family. Over 1100 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion. Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member.
[Janet
Welcome to our little family. Over 1100 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion. Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member.
[Janet
Title: Re: im new and i never talked to any transsexual b4, i would have a few questions
Post by: Mister on December 24, 2008, 07:56:22 PM
Post by: Mister on December 24, 2008, 07:56:22 PM
Adri-
Where are you from?
Where are you from?
Title: Re: im new and i never talked to any transsexual b4, i would have a few questions
Post by: adri on December 24, 2008, 07:57:19 PM
Post by: adri on December 24, 2008, 07:57:19 PM
im from serbia n u?