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Title: Things To Do
Post by: Lisbeth on December 27, 2008, 01:18:20 PM

  • Assume people will like you.
  • Expect not to fail at anything you put your mind to.
  • Lighten up.
  • Refuse to let completely useless emotions like guilt and shame take refuge and thrive in your body.
  • Ditto self-loathing.
  • Laugh when people insult you.
  • Stop trying to win over those who don't approve of you.
  • Trust that you're worth knowing.
  • Reject nagging insecurity and fear that you're too un/whatever to deserve success and happiness.
  • Stop depending on lovers to make you feel worthy, attractive, smart, or whatever you wish you were.
  • Set a bold example.
  • Realize there's not one thing wrong in experiencing pleasure, even purely sexual pleasure with no other purpose or justification.
  • Risk failure. Making mistakes does not equal failing. Not trying equals failing.
  • Reject passivity, defensiveness, humorlessness.
  • Stop blaming yourself.
  • Stop blaming.

From Lesbianism Made Easy by Helen Eisenbach
Title: Re: Things To Do
Post by: lisagurl on December 27, 2008, 01:26:12 PM
QuoteSet a bold example.

Set a good example, "bold" will get into trouble every time. Be self confident.