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Title: who asks who?
Post by: mickie88 on February 05, 2009, 06:56:49 PM
Post by: mickie88 on February 05, 2009, 06:56:49 PM
hypothetically speaking: ok so you are in a same gender relationship and you want to get "married" to your partner. how do you decide if you want to ask your partner to be theirs forever? or do you wait for them to ask you?
what do you do if you both end up asking each other on the same night? (i know the logical answer, but i would like hypothetical answers..lol)
how do you decide in an androgynous relationship? pansexual/omnisexual? between two transgender/transsexual persons?
what do you do if you both end up asking each other on the same night? (i know the logical answer, but i would like hypothetical answers..lol)
how do you decide in an androgynous relationship? pansexual/omnisexual? between two transgender/transsexual persons?
Title: Re: who asks who?
Post by: Nero on February 05, 2009, 07:05:10 PM
Post by: Nero on February 05, 2009, 07:05:10 PM
well imo, the man asks the woman, but if you are both women, i guess whoever thinks of it first? :)
Title: Re: who asks who?
Post by: Janet_Girl on February 05, 2009, 07:13:34 PM
Post by: Janet_Girl on February 05, 2009, 07:13:34 PM
IMHO. If you love each other then anything goes. And in this day and age, if I am in love with a man I am not going to wait for him to come around. As for being in love a woman, you would both know it was time I think.
Janet
Janet
Title: Re: who asks who?
Post by: Lachlann on February 05, 2009, 07:22:03 PM
Post by: Lachlann on February 05, 2009, 07:22:03 PM
I agree with Janet.
I see no problem with the girl initiating first.
I see no problem with the girl initiating first.
Title: Re: who asks who?
Post by: myles on February 05, 2009, 07:56:59 PM
Post by: myles on February 05, 2009, 07:56:59 PM
I asked my SO we are both women, or were then, and we had a ceremony 15 years ago. Then last night she asked me if I would marry her when I am done with transition . I guess its whoever asks first.
Myles
Myles
Title: Re: who asks who?
Post by: Jeatyn on February 05, 2009, 08:13:08 PM
Post by: Jeatyn on February 05, 2009, 08:13:08 PM
I was wondering the other day if I ever asked a boyfriend to marry me, would I be expected to present an engagement ring? Engagement rings seem a very girly prospect
Title: Re: who asks who?
Post by: mickie88 on February 06, 2009, 08:59:01 AM
Post by: mickie88 on February 06, 2009, 08:59:01 AM
Quote from: Jeatyn on February 05, 2009, 08:13:08 PM
I was wondering the other day if I ever asked a boyfriend to marry me, would I be expected to present an engagement ring? Engagement rings seem a very girly prospect
kind of why i was asking cause my boss is gay and seems to be the more feminine of the two of them, but i don't really talk to him much anymore..lol
thanks for the responses!!! ;D ;D :D
Title: Re: who asks who?
Post by: deviousxen on February 06, 2009, 09:13:37 AM
Post by: deviousxen on February 06, 2009, 09:13:37 AM
Quote from: Nero on February 05, 2009, 07:05:10 PM
well imo, the man asks the woman, but if you are both women, i guess whoever thinks of it first? :)
LOL so relevant! Like... I'm expected to be the initiator of anything... ANd I hate that crap.
Title: Re: who asks who?
Post by: tekla on February 06, 2009, 10:27:09 AM
Post by: tekla on February 06, 2009, 10:27:09 AM
Which ever one stand to lose the house and 1/2 their income to the other one when they get divorced should do the asking.