Community Conversation => Transitioning => Coming out of the closet => Topic started by: savin_glory on March 25, 2009, 12:30:51 PM Return to Full Version

Title: slowly coming out
Post by: savin_glory on March 25, 2009, 12:30:51 PM
starting to feel a little bit better lately, slowly telling my friends.
Told my partner about a week ago and have since told 3 or 4 friends as well. they have all been really supportive which is a big bonus.
following having seen a gay and trans support person and being told where my local clinic is i need to be refered to, i have made an appointment to go and see my doctor in 2 weeks. hopefully to get my referal to the clinic.

things are starting to look up  :) whoop whoop
Title: Re: slowly coming out
Post by: Wendy C on March 28, 2009, 02:20:06 PM
Congratulations Savin, it does realease a huge weight from your shoulders to finally start being yourself. It sounds like you are pacing yourself which will be a big help when you finally arrive at your destination. Hugs and best wishes.

Wendy
Title: Re: slowly coming out
Post by: HellHound77 on March 28, 2009, 02:58:03 PM
Yay! I just came out a few days ago and I feel pretty good about it. Hope everything goes well.  ;D
Title: Re: slowly coming out
Post by: savin_glory on March 28, 2009, 03:50:56 PM
cheers people. i hope it all goes well too. just taking it step by step really till i get to the end :)
Title: Re: slowly coming out
Post by: K8 on March 29, 2009, 07:45:40 AM
One step at a time.  Sometimes I look down the road and it gets a little scary.  But taking each step is doable.  My next step is to tell my sister, and that's scary enough.  One step at a time.  :)

- Kate
Title: Re: slowly coming out
Post by: savin_glory on March 29, 2009, 01:10:25 PM
yeah the majority of my closest friends no know and they all fine with it. I dread telling my family, and closely followed by telling an ex of mine that am still really good friends with, dont think she going to take it too well lol
Title: Re: slowly coming out
Post by: Mr. Fox on March 29, 2009, 08:03:52 PM
Good job coming out quickly!  It's best to get it over with.  I came out to my mother over a year ago and am on the verge of fulltime, and I still have most of my friends to tell.  Also, yay for clinic appointment.
Title: Re: slowly coming out
Post by: savin_glory on March 30, 2009, 05:36:18 AM
thanks, got to wait till the 9th to go for my appointment. bit nervous and excited all at same time