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Title: I was asked out almost 3 years ago
Post by: Janet Merai on April 14, 2009, 02:10:44 AM
This is my story of how I was asked out, very positive and a life changing event :3

Back in 2006 I was posting artwork that I did online to a website (furaffinity.net/user/janetmerai, which I was active in for quite a number of years) and one day I began receiving messages from a user named "maus" who felt sorry for a friend I lost (he was an immature friend but I later became friend with him again) and re-gained.

After a while of these 'now-and-then' messages from maus, she took it to a chat room in MSN Messenger and asked me a lot of questions regarding who I am and what I do in particular... and I came out after a few days as being a transgendered woman and she is actually into transsexuals (female with a male genitalia/penis) and accepted me 100% right away.

After a while we began chatting regularly all day every day and moved to Google Talk which we continue to use to this day.

One day after what seemed to be a few weeks or possibly a month or so (I forgot how long) she was nervous about asking me out (I could tell) and finally asked me if I would be her girlfriend and I could tell she was nervous as hell, panicking and anticipating my answer because when I said yes she cried a lot and screamed like a kid in a candy store.
I told her I would be her girlfriend and we have been together since and I plan to move to Texas to be with her.

Her name is Sonia Maus and is transgendered as I am, but I have a more severe case of it (I am active and always need to be feminine while she can just take being a guy though she wants to be a girl as much a I do)

She told me already but she plans to marry me, it is a surprise most likely when she will do it, and have me be a part of her family.

Sonia is the highly dominant female in the relationship and I am the very submissive female (being dominant does nothing for me) so our chemistry is strong.

We have a lot in common and are probably just as geeky as your stereotypical nerd who fixes computers all day long.

I and Sonia are an artist and 3D Modeler.
However, she is more of a programmer and analyst while I more of a writer, singer and dancer while I also draw and 3D model, on-top of that I also animate 3D Models and apply textures.

We both want to get into the game industry as well and we have the same goal in mind.

Sonia Maus:
http://www.artbymaus.com (http://www.artbymaus.com)
http://www.furaffinity.net/user/maus (http://www.furaffinity.net/user/maus)

Janet Merai Aila:
http://www.furaffinity.net/user/janetmerai (http://www.furaffinity.net/user/janetmerai)
Title: Re: I was asked out almost 3 years ago
Post by: Jaimey on April 14, 2009, 11:09:34 PM
aw.  Congrats!