Site News and Information => Announcements => Topic started by: Susan on April 20, 2009, 12:31:07 AM Return to Full Version
Title: Hayden permbanned
Post by: Susan on April 20, 2009, 12:31:07 AM
Post by: Susan on April 20, 2009, 12:31:07 AM
Launched hateful attacks on multiple staff members and other users of this site...
9. If you disagree with transgender individuals, or activities which cross gender boundaries take your arguments to a more appropriate web site.
10. Bashing or flaming of any individuals or groups is not acceptable behavior on this web site and will not be tolerated in the slightest for any reason. This includes but is not limited to:
* Advocating the separation or exclusion of one or more group from under the Transgender umbrella term
* Suggesting or claiming that one segment or sub-segment of our community is more legitimate, deserving, or more real than any others
15. You may challenge the issue, but never people or groups.
Their actions were hateful and uncalled for, and they will never be allowed back. If they return they will be promptly re-banned without warning once detected.
Here's an example...
It was directed at me personally, and I can only pity the tortured soul that hoped to feel better about their pitiful existance by attacking myself and others. What a sad, lame, way to live.
You see in order for your words to have any power over the person you are attacking, they have to give a good god damn about your opinion to begin with, and I did not, and still do not care what anyone else thinks about my life. I live my life for me. Good day.
9. If you disagree with transgender individuals, or activities which cross gender boundaries take your arguments to a more appropriate web site.
10. Bashing or flaming of any individuals or groups is not acceptable behavior on this web site and will not be tolerated in the slightest for any reason. This includes but is not limited to:
* Advocating the separation or exclusion of one or more group from under the Transgender umbrella term
* Suggesting or claiming that one segment or sub-segment of our community is more legitimate, deserving, or more real than any others
15. You may challenge the issue, but never people or groups.
Their actions were hateful and uncalled for, and they will never be allowed back. If they return they will be promptly re-banned without warning once detected.
Here's an example...
Quote from: hayden. on April 19, 2009, 11:22:06 PM
you're an ugly man who can't pass for ->-bleeped-<-ing ->-bleeped-<-.
who do you think you're fooling?
you're the type that give us a bad name, when people hear "->-bleeped-<-" they think of some lowlife scum like yourself -- a man, poorly attempting to be a woman. the five o'clock shadow, masculine, disgusting.
what a stereotypical case.
and sad one, at that.
it's funny how you think you're all high-and-mighty because you run this site,
but in all truth, everyone just talks ->-bleeped-<- about you behind your back.
no one here really likes you at all.
just so you know ~
It was directed at me personally, and I can only pity the tortured soul that hoped to feel better about their pitiful existance by attacking myself and others. What a sad, lame, way to live.
You see in order for your words to have any power over the person you are attacking, they have to give a good god damn about your opinion to begin with, and I did not, and still do not care what anyone else thinks about my life. I live my life for me. Good day.
Title: Re: Hayden permbanned
Post by: V M on April 20, 2009, 12:58:08 AM
Post by: V M on April 20, 2009, 12:58:08 AM
Hayden did say some rather mean rude and inappropriate things there.
We all have our moods, but that was way over the top :P
I wouldn't put up with that kinda stuff that either ;)
We all have our moods, but that was way over the top :P
I wouldn't put up with that kinda stuff that either ;)
Title: Re: Hayden permbanned
Post by: imaz on April 20, 2009, 02:49:40 AM
Post by: imaz on April 20, 2009, 02:49:40 AM
You've done the right thing Susan, that was unbelievably rude and aggressive.
Absolute nutter IMHO...
Absolute nutter IMHO...
Title: Re: Hayden permbanned
Post by: Jay on April 20, 2009, 02:59:48 AM
Post by: Jay on April 20, 2009, 02:59:48 AM
Definetly a good move.
Hayden was extremly out of order. I am so glad I wasn't online when that was kicking off. As I do not appricate people talking about my second family in such a manner.
Ignorant much??
Jay
Hayden was extremly out of order. I am so glad I wasn't online when that was kicking off. As I do not appricate people talking about my second family in such a manner.
Quoteeveryone just talks ->-bleeped-<- about you behind your back.I have been hear nearly to years and never ONCE heard anything said about you.
Ignorant much??
Jay
Title: Re: Hayden permbanned
Post by: vanna on April 20, 2009, 04:21:57 AM
Post by: vanna on April 20, 2009, 04:21:57 AM
Sigh
what i would say would also break the rules but that is incredible, i cannot belive how bitter some peoples are in life. this life can be the worst but also the best in peoples it is just maddening to read things like that.
I have never heard bad word about Susan either, geese she has created a place that saves people or just helps them along or meet the most wonderful peoples
anyhooow i just go back to my safe shell on the sea :)
what i would say would also break the rules but that is incredible, i cannot belive how bitter some peoples are in life. this life can be the worst but also the best in peoples it is just maddening to read things like that.
I have never heard bad word about Susan either, geese she has created a place that saves people or just helps them along or meet the most wonderful peoples
anyhooow i just go back to my safe shell on the sea :)
Title: Re: Hayden permbanned
Post by: Cindy on April 20, 2009, 04:43:51 AM
Post by: Cindy on April 20, 2009, 04:43:51 AM
Dear Susan
I agree with your actions, I'm shocked that anyone can be so rude on a site that has been organised by you for people in need.
BTW I reckon Hayden also needs his vision checked. I absolutely don't see what he sees :-*
LoL and Thanks
Cindy James
I agree with your actions, I'm shocked that anyone can be so rude on a site that has been organised by you for people in need.
BTW I reckon Hayden also needs his vision checked. I absolutely don't see what he sees :-*
LoL and Thanks
Cindy James
Title: Re: Hayden permbanned
Post by: Sheila on April 26, 2009, 08:39:08 PM
Post by: Sheila on April 26, 2009, 08:39:08 PM
I have been on Susan's for a long time. I have heard some pretty bad verbage from some but I don't think I have ever heard anything like that. Too bad that some have to call names to think that they are important or to make themselves feel better. I do believe in Karma.
Sheila
Sheila
Title: Re: Hayden permbanned
Post by: imaz on April 27, 2009, 12:48:37 AM
Post by: imaz on April 27, 2009, 12:48:37 AM
You've done the right thing Susan. He was visually challenged.