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Title: Hooray!
Post by: Kara on June 19, 2009, 08:57:02 AM
Post by: Kara on June 19, 2009, 08:57:02 AM
Everything just seems to be going right for me lately, it's amazing!
Earlier in the week, I scheduled to meet with my RD from college (Resident Director). She's here helping out with orientations and I told her that I'm trans. Of all the responses I expected, calm appraisal certainly wasn't one of them! :laugh:
Well I don't know if I made a friend or not, but it certainly does feel good to tell someone and be completely comfortable talking about it.
Earlier in the week, I scheduled to meet with my RD from college (Resident Director). She's here helping out with orientations and I told her that I'm trans. Of all the responses I expected, calm appraisal certainly wasn't one of them! :laugh:
Well I don't know if I made a friend or not, but it certainly does feel good to tell someone and be completely comfortable talking about it.
Title: Re: Hooray!
Post by: PinkSunshine on June 19, 2009, 04:45:55 PM
Post by: PinkSunshine on June 19, 2009, 04:45:55 PM
Good job girl! ;D Always nice to hear, it should makes things a little easier there for you :icon_yes:
Title: Re: Hooray!
Post by: K8 on June 19, 2009, 05:51:02 PM
Post by: K8 on June 19, 2009, 05:51:02 PM
Congratulations, Kara. It is nice to begin to open to others. Keep up the good work! ;)
*hugs*
Kate
*hugs*
Kate
Title: Re: Hooray!
Post by: gata123pr on June 19, 2009, 06:45:46 PM
Post by: gata123pr on June 19, 2009, 06:45:46 PM
good for you
i so envy you i haven't tell anyone, i guess i am not brave enough
i so envy you i haven't tell anyone, i guess i am not brave enough
Title: Re: Hooray!
Post by: K8 on June 19, 2009, 07:09:33 PM
Post by: K8 on June 19, 2009, 07:09:33 PM
Quote from: gata123pr on June 19, 2009, 06:45:46 PM
good for you
i so envy you i haven't tell anyone, i guess i am not brave enough yet.
;)
- K
Title: Re: Hooray!
Post by: Kara on June 19, 2009, 07:35:16 PM
Post by: Kara on June 19, 2009, 07:35:16 PM
Quote from: gata123pr on June 19, 2009, 06:45:46 PM
good for you
i so envy you i haven't tell anyone, i guess i am not brave enough
It just seems logical, you know? I'm gonna transition and soon I'll look different, I'll act different and all the people who know me will see a change. I think it's better to let them all know up front before the changes happen so they won't be surprised...and hopefully, they'll all be more accepting of it since I gave them fair warning and time to process it internally.
Title: Re: Hooray!
Post by: Cindy on June 20, 2009, 05:00:47 AM
Post by: Cindy on June 20, 2009, 05:00:47 AM
Good Girl
I think that's great. Sorry to sound like Mom, but I old enough to be that. Happy to be another Mom :-*
Cindy
I think that's great. Sorry to sound like Mom, but I old enough to be that. Happy to be another Mom :-*
Cindy
Title: Re: Hooray!
Post by: K8 on June 20, 2009, 07:54:57 AM
Post by: K8 on June 20, 2009, 07:54:57 AM
Quote from: Kara on June 19, 2009, 07:35:16 PM
It just seems logical, you know? I'm gonna transition and soon I'll look different, I'll act different and all the people who know me will see a change. I think it's better to let them all know up front before the changes happen so they won't be surprised...and hopefully, they'll all be more accepting of it since I gave them fair warning and time to process it internally.
Good for you, Kara. I agree completely (although I'm not sure you will act a lot differently ;)). I found it best to keep your friends and family informed and, if they are willing, along for the ride. Open, direct, honest communication makes this difficult process a lot easier.
It sounds like you are on your way. Wonderful! Have fun with it. ;D
- Kate
Title: Re: Hooray!
Post by: Kara on June 21, 2009, 05:11:32 PM
Post by: Kara on June 21, 2009, 05:11:32 PM
Well I came out to someone else today. I was a little nervous for about two minutes and then I just decided to do it and once it was done, I felt so much better!
I'm almost starting to feel like I could tell anyone. :laugh:
I'm almost starting to feel like I could tell anyone. :laugh: