Susan's Place Transgender Resources

AAAAaaaaaaaaaaargh  :icon_cry2:  :icon_cry2: :icon_cry: I've been dumped, tossed aside, cast off, left for another woman, I'm a woman scorned.  Oh well it was fun while it lasted :), my bow Richard sent me an "It's not you it's me" letter.  Apparently word got back to his partner that he was seen in the clubs in the company of this other woman (me)for the last month and he feels that he has to be true to his partner.  He still wants to be friends, but then I've used that line myself ;)

Oh well, it couldn't have become anything serious, well not yet anyway.  Sooooooooo I guess its time to check my dance card :)

Steph

It sounds like you're ok Steph.  Good luck with the next one (or 2 or 3 or...). ;)

Melissa

Men are so fickle Steph...

But they come along as frequently as London buses....another one will be here soon.

Buffy

Oh phew. I thought it was something wrong between you and Gill. Glad it was just one of your flingettes, you wild woman you!

Dennis

Aw, Steph! I'm sorry you got dumped! You don't sound too upset, though, I bet that right now you're wishing you'd dumped his butt first, am I right?  Well, that's always I'd wish, anyways.  It was a matter of pride, you know?

You're not gonna have any trouble finding another fling, I'm sure of it! So don't go locking yourself in house and watching chick flicks and eating Hagen-Daas by the gallon. Then you'll just be mad that you ruined your girlish figure (Jeez, I don't sound like I've had any practice at that , do I?  ;)) Go clubbing!  I'm going to karaoke tonight, and I will dedicate a song just for you! Even better, I'll flirt with a bunch of guys, and tell them that my name is Stephanie and then I'll sing that awesome song you're picking out and when they give me their numbers I'll pass them on to you.  No, just kidding, I wouldn't do that. None the guys that hit on me are good enough for you.

Hugs!
~Kelly

Ah, Steph,

         I know you are alright. We all know you were just testing the waters anyway. Besides, there is someone out there really special for ya, and you don't want to be tied up with someone else when that happens ;)
                                         Marco

You guys are all great, the best of the best.

Quote from: Melissa on September 12, 2006, 12:51:07 PM
It sounds like you're ok Steph.  Good luck with the next one (or 2 or 3 or...). ;)

Melissa

You're right there Melissa who knows how many till Mr right shows up, if ever.

Quote from: Buffy on September 12, 2006, 01:06:30 PM
Men are so fickle Steph...

But they come along as frequently as London buses....another one will be here soon.

Buffy

Aren't they just, but it's his loss I think.  Do you mean I have to start hanging out at bus stops :)

Quote from: Dennis on September 12, 2006, 01:07:08 PM
Oh phew. I thought it was something wrong between you and Gill. Glad it was just one of your flingettes, you wild woman you!

Dennis

Yep Dennis just a flingette, Gill and I are doing great.  In fact as soon as she read the letter/email she said "Now you know what it feels like".  She's a hard lady, but we are fine.

Quote from: angelsgirl on September 12, 2006, 04:46:16 PM
Aw, Steph! I'm sorry you got dumped! You don't sound too upset, though, I bet that right now you're wishing you'd dumped his butt first, am I right?  Well, that's always I'd wish, anyways.  It was a matter of pride, you know?

You're not gonna have any trouble finding another fling, I'm sure of it! So don't go locking yourself in house and watching chick flicks and eating Hagen-Daas by the gallon. Then you'll just be mad that you ruined your girlish figure (Jeez, I don't sound like I've had any practice at that , do I?  ;)) Go clubbing!  I'm going to karaoke tonight, and I will dedicate a song just for you! Even better, I'll flirt with a bunch of guys, and tell them that my name is Stephanie and then I'll sing that awesome song you're picking out and when they give me their numbers I'll pass them on to you.  No, just kidding, I wouldn't do that. None the guys that hit on me are good enough for you.

Hugs!
~Kelly

You are sweet Kelly, and that Hagen-Das does sound good.  I plan to be back out there this friday :)  No sense crying over spilt milk.  And hey don't sell yourself short you, I wish I had your looks I would have to beat them off with a stick.

Quote from: Marco on September 12, 2006, 05:28:46 PM
Ah, Steph,

         I know you are alright. We all know you were just testing the waters anyway. Besides, there is someone out there really special for ya, and you don't want to be tied up with someone else when that happens ;)
                                         Marco

All kidding aside you're right Marco, trust a guy to bring things back into perspective :)  Can't live with them, can't live without them.  (Gill said "Oh yes she can")

Steph

Glad you're okay Steph. You're lucky to have had the experience.  And it sounds like you had fun.  There will be others.  Soon you're dance card will be full and you'll be shooing them away.

It sound like he actually did ya a favour, Steph!  Got the first one outta the way and now who knows?

Besides, it wasn't as if you were talking about sharing housekeys, fer cryin out loud!

(PS - He really is a FOOL, isn't he?)

hugs 'n smiles,
helen

Oh God!  and I assume this is the same guy from the "A Kiss" thread....

Bummer!  I was really looking forward to your next post... the way I see it, it is his loss not yours :)

Oh well, one gone.....MANY MORE TO COME!!! ;D >:D


tinkerbell :icon_chick:

Hi Steph!!

Yes, men!!! I love em but they need alot of work!! :D Don't worrt Steph your dance card will be filled in very short order!!! :)

Julie

Hiee Steph,

  You seem to be taking this very well and from what I gather this was your first :). For my 2 cents worth judging by your picture, you WAY deserve better the being the 'Other Woman' :).

Byee,
  Brina

atta girllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
Being single is not horribly awful, spend some time on yourself maybe!  MR right (ya well if there is such a thing???? ::) ...) will come along again!
Ricki

Quote from: brina on November 11, 2006, 01:43:16 PM
Hiee Steph,

  You seem to be taking this very well and from what I gather this was your first :). For my 2 cents worth judging by your picture, you WAY deserve better the being the 'Other Woman' :).

Byee,
  Brina

LOL yep it's not the end of the world :) just the end of his world :), and yes it was the first time I was dumped, and thanks for the kind words Brina.

Quote from: Ricki on November 11, 2006, 08:06:11 PM
atta girllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
Being single is not horribly awful, spend some time on yourself maybe!  MR right (ya well if there is such a thing???? ::) ...) will come along again!
Ricki

I think it's going to be a long search for Mr right, but who knows, so far most of the guys just want to get you into bed and I'm not quite ready for that.  Men can be jerks at times, well not all of them :)

Steph

Steph you're right

QuoteMen can be jerks at times, well not all of them Smiley

That's a high percentile category and the exclusions are in the low percentile category.. I hope the best 4-you!
R

I'm sorry to hear this happened, Steph... and here's more wishes of good luck for you. :)

~ umop
recently heartbroken myself

Quote from: umop ap!sdn on November 12, 2006, 11:42:10 AM
I'm sorry to hear this happened, Steph... and here's more wishes of good luck for you. :)

~ umop
recently heartbroken myself

:) Thanks for the kind words hon and I am very much over it now.  This happened in September, and he is now just a memory :)

Steph

Don't scare me like that!!!  Like Dennis, I thought something happened between you and Gill!

He wasn't your type, anyway!  ;)

Chaunte

I am sorry to hear that this fool has not seen the light because you a very lovely indeed.
His loss is anothers gain so to speak.

Pity we dont live closer to each other Steph otherwise I might be tempted to ask you out  ;)

My aunt lives in Ontario!!! umm thinking  ;)

Mr right is out there and will turn up when least you expect him to.

Quote from: lolli on November 19, 2006, 01:08:31 PM
I am sorry to hear that this fool has not seen the light because you a very lovely indeed.
His loss is anothers gain so to speak.

Pity we dont live closer to each other Steph otherwise I might be tempted to ask you out  ;)

My aunt lives in Ontario!!! umm thinking  ;)

Mr right is out there and will turn up when least you expect him to.

Thanks Lolli :)

As I've mentioned this happened a while back now and I'm quite over it.  Coincidentally though I was at the club recently and Richard came in  and as soon as he saw me he came over to say hello.  It was sort of an intimate hello as well as he pressed himself against my back and rubbed my shoulders, telling me it was good to see me.  I agreed and added that it would be nice to dance together on occasion, and he agreed.

Steph