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Title: Wife Asked Me A Question
Post by: gennee on July 09, 2009, 08:52:12 PM
Post by: gennee on July 09, 2009, 08:52:12 PM
Earlier this evening my wife asked me if I was going to tell my brother and sister that wear women's clothes? I said to her 'no' because I did have the inclination to tell them. If I really want (or need) to I will do so.
In my mind, it's not so important that I'm out to everybody. It's not critical that my siblings know either.
Gennee
In my mind, it's not so important that I'm out to everybody. It's not critical that my siblings know either.
Gennee
Title: Re: Wife Asked Me A Question
Post by: Lori on July 09, 2009, 08:57:57 PM
Post by: Lori on July 09, 2009, 08:57:57 PM
If they don't need to know, why tell them? If they had to know for some reason you should probably tell them, but honestly you could take it to your grave and nobody would be the wiser.
Title: Re: Wife Asked Me A Question
Post by: Genevieve Swann on July 09, 2009, 09:21:38 PM
Post by: Genevieve Swann on July 09, 2009, 09:21:38 PM
I agree with you genee. I would tell them if the subject came up. I'd act surprised and say "I thought you knew!" I tell people who may visit unexpectedly so there will be no shock when they see me. If they disagree then leave and do not return.
Title: Re: Wife Asked Me A Question
Post by: Cindy on July 10, 2009, 01:49:56 AM
Post by: Cindy on July 10, 2009, 01:49:56 AM
Hi Genee
Totally up to you. I told my sister and my in laws because they kept visiting and I would have to do a fast change. Now since I live as Cindy most of the time there is no issue. Both my sister in laws call me Cindy all the time, even when in drab, which causes some really hilarious moments.
Love
Cindy
Totally up to you. I told my sister and my in laws because they kept visiting and I would have to do a fast change. Now since I live as Cindy most of the time there is no issue. Both my sister in laws call me Cindy all the time, even when in drab, which causes some really hilarious moments.
Love
Cindy
Title: Re: Wife Asked Me A Question
Post by: gennee on July 10, 2009, 09:31:27 PM
Post by: gennee on July 10, 2009, 09:31:27 PM
I'm not going to them. Don't have the need or urge to do so. I'm following my own advice of 'some things are better left unsaid'.
Gennee
Gennee