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Title: How A Feminist Found Her Sexism
Post by: Natasha on August 06, 2009, 04:36:03 PM
Post by: Natasha on August 06, 2009, 04:36:03 PM
How A Feminist Found Her Sexism
http://www.bilerico.com/2009/08/how_a_feminist_found_her_sexism.php (http://www.bilerico.com/2009/08/how_a_feminist_found_her_sexism.php)
8/6/09
It's been a surprise to find out what a sexist I really am. I've been calling myself a feminist for two decades, and surely was one for the two decades before that.
I'm a woman who found myself with a female husband - the man I married is trans and currently transitioning to living as female in the world. She has been doing so socially for some time and only now has decided to make it official with a name change and all the legal ballyhoo. I've been surprised by a lot of aspects of this process, not least of which is our relationship surviving it.
http://www.bilerico.com/2009/08/how_a_feminist_found_her_sexism.php (http://www.bilerico.com/2009/08/how_a_feminist_found_her_sexism.php)
8/6/09
It's been a surprise to find out what a sexist I really am. I've been calling myself a feminist for two decades, and surely was one for the two decades before that.
I'm a woman who found myself with a female husband - the man I married is trans and currently transitioning to living as female in the world. She has been doing so socially for some time and only now has decided to make it official with a name change and all the legal ballyhoo. I've been surprised by a lot of aspects of this process, not least of which is our relationship surviving it.
Title: When My Husband Became a Woman, I Realized I Was a Sexist
Post by: Natasha on August 11, 2009, 05:46:40 PM
Post by: Natasha on August 11, 2009, 05:46:40 PM
When My Husband Became a Woman, I Realized I Was a Sexist
http://www.alternet.org/reproductivejustice/141896/when_my_husband_became_a_woman,_i_realized_i_was_a_sexist/ (http://www.alternet.org/reproductivejustice/141896/when_my_husband_became_a_woman,_i_realized_i_was_a_sexist/)
8/11/09
It's been a surprise to find out what a sexist I really am. I've been calling myself a feminist for two decades, and surely was one for the two decades before that.
I'm a woman who found myself with a female husband – the man I married is trans and currently transitioning to living as female in the world. She has been doing so socially for some time and only now has decided to make it official with a name change and all the legal ballyhoo. I've been surprised by a lot of aspects of this process, not least of which is our relationship surviving it.
http://www.alternet.org/reproductivejustice/141896/when_my_husband_became_a_woman,_i_realized_i_was_a_sexist/ (http://www.alternet.org/reproductivejustice/141896/when_my_husband_became_a_woman,_i_realized_i_was_a_sexist/)
8/11/09
It's been a surprise to find out what a sexist I really am. I've been calling myself a feminist for two decades, and surely was one for the two decades before that.
I'm a woman who found myself with a female husband – the man I married is trans and currently transitioning to living as female in the world. She has been doing so socially for some time and only now has decided to make it official with a name change and all the legal ballyhoo. I've been surprised by a lot of aspects of this process, not least of which is our relationship surviving it.
Title: How I Found Out I Was Sexist
Post by: Natasha on August 13, 2009, 04:57:48 PM
Post by: Natasha on August 13, 2009, 04:57:48 PM
How I Found Out I Was Sexist
http://transgroupblog.blogspot.com/2009/08/how-i-found-out-i-was-sexist.html (http://transgroupblog.blogspot.com/2009/08/how-i-found-out-i-was-sexist.html)
8/12/09
I wrote this piece for On the Issues magazine, and it's since been picked up by Bilerico and by AlterNet, so I thought I'd post it here, too.
It's been a surprise to find out what a sexist I really am. I've been calling myself a feminist for two decades, and surely was one for the two decades before that.
I'm a woman who found myself with a female husband - the man I married is trans and currently transitioning to living as female in the world. She has been doing so socially for some time and only now has decided to make it official with a name change and all the legal ballyhoo. I've been surprised by a lot of aspects of this process, not least of which is our relationship surviving it.
People can't and don't just change their sexual orientation because they want or need to, and partners of transgender people are no exception. I can't magically become a lesbian, no matter how useful that would be. I am seen as one by most other people when I am holding my female spouse's hand.
http://transgroupblog.blogspot.com/2009/08/how-i-found-out-i-was-sexist.html (http://transgroupblog.blogspot.com/2009/08/how-i-found-out-i-was-sexist.html)
8/12/09
I wrote this piece for On the Issues magazine, and it's since been picked up by Bilerico and by AlterNet, so I thought I'd post it here, too.
It's been a surprise to find out what a sexist I really am. I've been calling myself a feminist for two decades, and surely was one for the two decades before that.
I'm a woman who found myself with a female husband - the man I married is trans and currently transitioning to living as female in the world. She has been doing so socially for some time and only now has decided to make it official with a name change and all the legal ballyhoo. I've been surprised by a lot of aspects of this process, not least of which is our relationship surviving it.
People can't and don't just change their sexual orientation because they want or need to, and partners of transgender people are no exception. I can't magically become a lesbian, no matter how useful that would be. I am seen as one by most other people when I am holding my female spouse's hand.